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  1. I have to say I am kind of blown away by how good some escorts are.  

    My first hire ever was a little less than a year ago. Not sure what I was looking for but expectations weren't high. There were a handful of guys I met who were good, fair, average, and some not great. But I met one dude and when the connection is there and they're good at what they do, HOLY FUCK.  He and I have since traveled out of the country together, etc.  This man really set the bar in my mind so high it was going to be unbreakable. I'm not even talking about just good sex, but he makes me want to be a better person. When I am ready to get off the bike or don't want to do another rep, picturing this guy makes me stay on the treadmill for another few minutes or push through the last few reps a little harder. Love it. 

    So last night in a random city, I did the usual homework and hired someone else and it was another version of the first guy above. Just absolutely incredible. This isn't just some of the best sex I have had in my life, or 'paying for sex' but a real high in every way possible. 

    Here are some notes on what I have learned: 

    1. Do your homework on providers. The more thorough and well-written their profile is, the better. The time and energy they put into their online persona is directly correlated to the time and energy they will put into you as a client. 
    2. Reviews are everything. Both of these guys have 5.0 across the board. One has 60-70 reviews, all five stars. The other has over 120 reviews, again all 5.0. Not 4.7, 4.8, or even 4.9. I'm talking 5.0. If they can pull that off, they are doing something fucking awesome. It's not even up for debate. 
    3. Be nice. Be upfront. Explain what you want and approach with respect always. 

    If you're just looking for quick sex, find a hot guy and have a blast. Sure. That's sort of easy, right? But if you're open, there is so much more you can get from these transactions. Just open your mind and fully figure out what you want and need. 

    That's all for now. Later guys. :)

  2. I think good ones are making way more. $300/hr x 1 client/day x 1 hour/day = $100k and I think that's conservative. I don't necessarily think one client a day is the thing, but the good ones have overnights and trips and all that stuff. My math would be $250k-$400k/year if done well and they keep their game on point. That's cool in my book. 

  3. Jarrod, I hate to say this but I’ve been reading these forums and most everything posted for a year now. Public_ is kind of right. You just complain. If I was researching a provider and ran across your postings, I wouldn’t book with you just based on the energy you give off here. I’m sure you’re great in person and we all have outlets to vent in life, but there is some truth here. 

  4. I hear what you just wrote and there isn’t a single planet in the universe where we would not agree on the math, and I buy you a beer or you buy me a beer, and we laugh about this —- now you suddenly have this energy about you that I find attractive and it makes me hard and wants to get off somehow with you and share that experience.
     

    And I don’t even know you or a single thing about what you look like. But I do know right now, in this moment, I want it just as much as the money.  
     

    I hope Jarrod reads this and knows who it is that made this post and the one above. IT’S WHO I AM. Put your energy into the things you want to change in the world. Form meaningful connections. Leave a legacy. 

    50x 5* reviews don’t lie. They’re all genuine and authentic and that is the true currency in this world.
     

    EDIT: I hired him earlier this evening long before I made that feedback post. My attraction to the thread was the in my research doing background checks and personal vetting process led me to this thread. stand by every word posted above. Authenticity. You generate it he learns from it and move on or don’t. It’s your legacy. 

  5. On 2/16/2023 at 8:46 PM, Quartz said:

    I didn’t share my experience initially cos I usually don’t like bad-mouthing people and the fact that he might be doing this for a living full-time and his income might be affected. But on the flip side, he does need to improve if he wants to continue getting clients.

    Private, constructive, authentic feedback is the best. It really helps 10x more than a review in which the reviewer is writing to the public and not the escort themselves. 

    Take some time to think about your expectations for the sessions. Think about where it fell down and you were left feeling less than 100% satisfied. Consider your own mindset going into the session. Read it over and maybe re-write some of it once or twice before sending it directly to him in a private message. Sprinkle in some words about you maybe not being 100% upfront and forward with what you wanted, that this was your first time hiring (even if he knows, mention it twice more), and give him a solid three tips to improve his future escorting from your perspective of your time with him. Most importantly, come from a place where you want to develop him into the best escort he could be. 

    If he's truly into this business for the right reasons and loves what he does, he will also love your feedback. He may not reply at all and that is okay. He may also reply and be a total dick. If that is the case, you have your answer about the session and that may actually warrant a negative review.

    BUT. If he values your feedback and genuinely wants to improve, there's a chance you get a free or severely discounted repeat session out of it. In fact, I would argue a repeat session with him would also be so much better than you would be expecting. He would be offering that in order to improve his skills as an escort. That means he is, or will eventually be, an amazing escort.

    People in general value good feedback and genuine concern for their development, no matter the industry. It's how you make actual connections in life. Authenticity, when delivered this way, isn't just a catchword people throw around these days. It's life-altering. 

    Just my constructive feedback to you. :)

  6. 6 hours ago, José Soplanucas said:

    They can be. They are currently a monopoly in the US.

    Agreed. This is truly interesting because someone with the proper resources could come in and build a better iteration of what they have. 

  7. I actually keep in touch with him, and we have texted briefly in the past and earlier this year.

    He's been through rough personal times that started with the pandemic and have lingered through to the present. He's not really in a great space personally or professionally. He knows his looks and this industry could be a money maker for him, but he doesn't have the "spirit" these days and he is just kind of lost. He's really struggling with some personal demons. 

    Just wish him the best that's all we can do at this point. He's a good guy. 

  8. How on earth you were in the same room with him without doing anything sexual is beyond my personal comprehension, but I hear you @Enchanted and understand that we all need different things at different times. I'm so happy you had such a great time with him and he could provide what you needed. He's is and always be my #1 and the bar by which every other escort is judged. The sad part is he sets the bar so high that I almost wish I had never met him on some small level. LOL :) 

  9. 1 hour ago, DrownedBoy said:

    Absolutely not. You've never met the guy, and you're sure you can get along for a week?

    Do you know what the conditions are for the week, and how much you'll do together?

    I once booked the exact thing with a regular I had been seeing for 2 years - a week vacation, costing a bit more than an overnight, I pay all expenses. It ended after two days. By mutual agreement we ended the vacation early, went our separate ways, never spoke of the details to anyone, and we will never speak to each other again.

    Do you mind giving some more details? I'm genuinely curious.  The few guys who are my regulars are all cool, that's why they are regulars. We've done many overnights. I then hired one of them for a trip overseas and it was just as good as the overnights -- because we had established we had a connection in the multiple overnights.  I'm curious what would make you so compatible during the regular sessions and then not even speak anymore.  You don't have to give a name at all, but if you could write about it more it would be helpful to everyone here. Thank you!

  10. Last time this happened, I drove out to Carbondale, IL with a bunch of friends, which was the exact best point to watch it if you were in Chicago at the time. It was pretty surreal.

    There is something pretty rad and very, very unexpected that happens in the areas where you have 100% coverage during it, but I don't want to spoil the fun for those who haven't experienced it before. You'll know when it does. Get to a totality zone, and especially dead center inside of it if you can, and see for yourself. :) 

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  11. You're right. There is definitely a risk, and we all want to protect our investments in anything. 

    But try not to let your prior bad experience rule here. It can be hard not to have those flashbacks about the prior experience where you were burned. We would all feel the same way in your situation because we've all had them on some level.

    Look at it this way:  Not only have you seen them before, but they are comfortable enough with you to give you their real full name. That means there is a level of trust on their side that is being shown. Keep that in mind, please. 

    You'll have a great time. ENJOY! :) 

  12. The site is amazing. I joined exactly one year ago and have learned so much here. Not only about escorts and that industry but in some of the other forums as well. For me, it has been an awesome 'normalization' of something I had considered taboo for so much of my life. 

    It's also a really clean design, very responsive, and a great resource all around. Might I ask if there are any plans to fully monetize the site? As a Founder and business owner, I can't help but ask. I know some of those plans are always kept private, and cards are held close so as not to ruin plans, but I am interested in anything you can offer. 

    And before others go off the deep end, there are 1,000 ways to monetize a site like this without charging us a monthly fee for access. So calm down and don't let my innocent question take this thread completely off the rails. :) 

  13. 7 hours ago, BtmBearDad said:

    If I were in WeHo, and interested in engaging this gent, (and trust me, if I was in WeHo, I’d be very interested - this gent is smoking hot IMO),

    Yea man. I know you and I have the same type we have talked about it before. It's that dark feature, shadow/stubble/beard, square fucking jaw 🤤 look that blows me away. Shit, in one of the videos it looks like Trev (TopRatedCanada guy for everyone else reading) is the one doing the fucking. lol

    The no review since Dec 2021 thing was the only hesitation I had as well that you mentioned. In any case, I am reaching out today and have to be in LA soon for work regularly for a short while, so will make it happen and report back for sure. 

     

  14. On 3/22/2023 at 10:14 PM, Unicorn said:

    No one really seems to know why certain people get selected for CK, but getting over twice the needed miles for EP didn't cut it, as I found out. It seems like this level is probably reserved for high-level executives with decision-making positions with regards to with which carrier their employees will fly.

    There aren't even dedicated phone lines for loyal customers. Sometimes I'm told I'll get a call back in "40 to 50 minutes," even as EP. 

    I freaking love these threads because this is my wheelhouse. lol 

    As far as CK, there is an element of "Customer Lifetime Value" (CLV) they use that can vary drastically. My CEO has kept CK status for the past four years flying less than 20,000 EQMs (LPs now) per year, including a renewal now for 2023.  This was because he flew JFK-China and back, in paid J (business), twice a month, for almost a decade. AA keeps people like that close to the heart because they know their future spending potential is through the roof, and it is simply good business to retain them even when they're not actively flying. 

    That said, your second point is right on. I control the "airline of choice" for my company and in the beginning, I was a loyal US Airways (Chairmans Preferred) and subsequently AA. So I picked AA for our corporate travel and now that we've grown exponentially, so does our employee contracted travel. AA hands out a small handful of CK memberships to us each year to give to execs or those who travel all the time but wouldn't otherwise qualify for CK. I can write about this for hours, but that's the general gist here. 

    As far as the phone even for EPs, just disregard that message and keep holding. They'll pickup in less than five minutes generally -- they just do that to get the non-urgent people off the phone and into a later position in the call queue.  

    On 3/23/2023 at 3:38 AM, nycman said:

    Honestly, if you fly business/first regularly, there’s basically no advantage 
    to any of the loyalty programs. The "best" I’ve had is American making 
    seats available on "sold out" flights when I was trapped. Happened twice.
    Once when I was only Gold. Once, when I was Executive Platinum. 

    IROPS is one of the most valuable things about higher-level status. There are times I have landed and turned my phone on to a notification AA has already rebooked me on a new flight or even double/triple booked me on multiple options so in case that goes tits up, I have a seat on a few other flights all within the next hour or three. You can't put a price on that. 

    On 3/23/2023 at 6:52 PM, BenjaminNicholas said:

    For some of us, when you travel 250-350k miles a year on airlines, it pays to be loyal. 

    The suggestion here to simply buy the seat you want is a wise one.  If the flight is important to you and you don't want to wait for the battlefield upgrade (which is the standard these days), just find a suitable J/F fare.  With the numbers of elite going up thanks to current spend patterns, the fight for the very few open premium seats has never been more fierce.

    My suggestion for anyone on AA looking to utilize SWUs or mileage is to buy a subscription to Expert Flyer and set alerts to keep track of routes open with the right fare classes. 

    From what I can see in the AA EXP/CK group on Facebook, even people who had 500,000, 750,000, or even 1M LPs in 2022 failed to quality for CK. I'd give almost anything to see their algorithm or decision process in these scenarios. With the new program where you can spend your way to LPs, I actually believe that matters less and less for high-level status. As a business, people can easily put six figures of spend monthly on a credit card, but part of me thinks that AA is looking at the value you give the airline on flying their metal butt-in-seat. Not sure on that though but go back to my CLV post above. Again, I would love for someone to leak the private rules here. :) 

    Also for the upgrades, it is very dependent on your home base.  You're generally ex-DFW, right? There are thousands of CKs in that market all taking the upgrades from EPs and lower status. I'm BOS based and we have a huge market here but a very distributed airport that is not a hub for anyone. Equally Delta, United, American, JetBlue. It's really nice actually. I am upgraded almost 95% of the time and it rare I don't get an upgrade, even when I was an EP from like 2012-2019. I can also land a confirmed SWU time of booking on the BOS-LHR flight every single time. Hasn't been a time I was waitlisted. We (BOS) are not competing with as many status flyers as DFW, ORD, CLT/PHX, etc. 

    On 3/23/2023 at 11:03 PM, Bargara Leatherboy said:

    I always buy my domestic tickets and some short haul international tickets, in the class of travel I want to fly in.  I can do short haul domestic in economy - up to 3 hours - but anything past that I will always fly business.

    I then use them for confirmed business class tickets long haul.

    For instance we flew Sydney to London and then Zurich to Sydney via Singapore on Singapore Airliners for about $278 in taxes and a bunch of points.  These long haul flights in Business were a pleasure. (if we paid cash it would have cost us $16 000 plus.

    Exact same. If you know how to play the game, you can get five-figure value redemptions (still) doing it the right way. There was a friend of mine who bragged recently about using something like 50,000 miles (each way!) on BOS-MCO or BOS-ORD (can't remember) and I died a little inside. 

    Back in the day with US Airways Dividend Miles, I did BOS-MUC/CDG-BKK-SYD-BKK-LHR-BOS for 90,000 miles in FIRST (not even Business) and like $50 in cash. That was a total fucking steal. Those days are mostly gone but you can still find good uses for partner redemptions with AA and UA miles. Although Delta has gone off the rails with their flexible redemption criteria where a J seat anywhere out of North America is like 700,000 skypesos these days. Like WTF, seriously? 

    On 3/23/2023 at 11:09 PM, mike carey said:

    A couple of weeks ago QF expanded its redemptions on China Airlines and said that it would mean onward seats would be available from Taipei. I couldn't find any but there was plenty of availability from here to Taipei.

    I think with CX coming back "online" finally since the start of the pandemic, that will take some of the OneWorld load off QF (and others) for redemptions, plus HKG is just an amazing airport and a great place to transit. But we'll see how that plays out in the next 12-18 months. People in the industry aren't confident that Cathay Pacific will stage a complete comeback which is sad. 

  15. Anyone with recent experience (past 12 months) with this guy?  

    This is the only thread I can find, and there are more than a couple warnings above -- but he has 54 reviews on a profile that is 8 years old on RM -- and that has to say something good. 

  16. 12 hours ago, Andy2 said:

    Really, this ad seems TGTBT . . .  I take it that no one has met this fellow--nor does anyone have an idea where he came from?  

    Sure it does, but his profile is a year and a half old, and he has a dozen reviews all five stars. That mean at least double that amount (probably triple) have met him and just haven't reviewed. That's good enough of a reference to meet if he and I were in the same city or whatnot. Definitely hot as hell. :)

  17. On 3/18/2023 at 3:54 PM, Calix_V2 said:

    Providers:  Is anyone interested in having an NFT-gated membership site for content and/or session sales built?  If there is any interest, DM me as I'm working on this for a few providers and thought I'd gauge interest.

     

    Briefly, it looks like this

    • NFT-gated membership platform, with NFT's paid via traditional CC processor or cryptocurrency, client's choice.
    • NFT's can be associated with anything, from irl sessions to exclusive content ala OF.  This circumvents any trouble with traditional payment processors who can withhold payments to the performer.  With an NFT sale, the performer would have the option to withdraw funds in fiat currency or hold/convert/withdraw a crypto payment into whichever currency they like.
    • NFT's could have limited mints, thereby introducing scarcity and a manageable campaign if they're looking to test this method of rev gen over a larger initial campaign.
    • NFT's could be programmed to reflect royalties on any resale on the secondary market, thereby introducing a passive revenue stream.  This would also introduce game theory based on a client now holding an NFT, looking to resell it or hold it and reap the various benefits for doing both, for the provider and client.
    • Gain global exposure to the crypto-savvy client via managed marketing initiatives or existing regular clients who are looking to support you via CC payment for their NFT.
    • FOR THE CLIENT: CC payments do not reflect any explicit adult-related activities, simply an NFT mint. Crypto payment would be even more anonymous than traditional payment rails.

    Feel free to DM me if there is interest and we can go from there. 🥂

    C

     

    Very, very interesting post. I'm in this industry (web3, crypto, NFTs; not as a provider) and was just off to sleep here but wanted to comment as a bookmark and process your post tomorrow.  At the very least I want to know more about what you're working on for sure. 

  18. 16 hours ago, Monarchy79 said:

    Gays weren’t mobilized in the name of vigilance. The Gays mobilized in the name of VANITY.

    I think you’re right. Because deep down that’s why I got mine too. A friend of mine got it and posted a picture on social media and it looked horrible. I hauled my ass to get a vaccine so fast after that. Yep. 

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