ThroatCummer

Whatever that underwear/bathing suit is, they're all hideous. But, hey, I bet they got all the ladies at the time. 😁😆

3 hours ago, purplekow said:

If I had a friend willing to take me on a 14 day trip to Antarctica, I would gladly go, but the first round or Iceberg Martinis would be on me

What I really want to know is how you knew there were iceberg martinis. 🧐

Because there were. You bring a chunk of clear solid ice back and the bartender will cut it up and make drinks from it. For real. 😎

On 10/6/2022 at 7:32 PM, Coolwave35 said:

I love this topic, thanks for starting the thread. I have 8 friends that I’ve had since long before I got rich. They’re mostly from high school and 2 are from college. I know they like me for me as we’ve been close since long before I’ve had money. Life has been different to all of us and I now find myself with far more resources than those close friends. I’m happy to be generous with them and regularly pay for travel and experiences that I want to enjoy with them but know they can’t afford. In the beginning it was tough and I didn’t know how to give without coming off condescending.  Some of them had some insecurities around receiving gifts. We talked it out, plainly and clearly. I said that I’m happy to foot the bill for experiences because their company was important to me and I’d have a better time if they were there. It was a process to give with a full heart and it was a process to accept the gifts as well. It’s challenging and I think this is common for a lot of people. 
 

Now, the friends I made after I got money, I feel very different about. I can’t always shake the suspicion that there is motive, even when the evidence says that there isn’t. It’s an awful way to be in relationship but I can’t figure out a way around it. I’m excitedly awaiting more comments. 

^^^^ everything this guy says. He completely nailed it. 

I grew up with hardly any money at all and was able to form a solid group of close friends in my 20s and early-30s. These were times when money was an equal challenge for everyone. None of us were "rich" by any definition of that term. Those times when you put $10 of gas in your car (that's about to shit the bed), because that's all you have. 

About ten years ago, I founded a company and built a small empire of my own. I'm still shocked it worked even as I type this right now. Fast forward to 2022: We have offices in many locations across the USA and do business in two dozen states. 

My core group of friends has always been there for me through the thick and thin. Long before the success, they stood by me through epic business failures that caused me to drink myself into a stupor and not leave my house or shower for a week at a time. They're the best group of solid people I have ever met, and they really love me for me, every fault included. And vice versa. 

Now I am in the position to repay the favors. Just like @Coolwave35 said, I have talked it out clearly with them on multiple occasions. They know that being able to share an amazing vacation is what brings me joy. In fact, I took all seven of them to Antarctica a couple years back on a 14-day expedition. Occasionally an insecurity will pop up with one of them about being on the receiving end. But that's when I remind them they're the ones who opened their home and hearts to me when I was in the darkest of places. That was priceless to me at the time. 

To this day, I still have my Finance and HR departments let me login and press the "Submit Payroll" button every Wednesday afternoon. It's the single most rewarding minute of my life every two weeks. I am just the type who thoroughly enjoys doing for others and help building people up. 

As for @Coolwave35's last point, post-money friends and relationships are fucking hard to make and manage. A handful of times when I thought someone else had the truest of intentions, I got myself and my company sued because they just saw a payday. It's why I hire escorts today -- I will never have sex with anyone who knows me in my current capacity because as good as it could be, I don't want to be on the fucking news or get extorted. Yea, sure, it's a 1% problem. But at the same time, it isn't any less or more difficult than many other normal problems.

So here we are.  Good thread. 

If you want a true BFE, hire someone for an hour and have amazing sex -- but more importantly talk a bit and get to know them. If you genuinely make a connection, the rest will fall into place and that's when you hire them for an overnight, hike, theme park, or whatever you're looking for and more.

I couldn't imagine trying to go for a BFE with someone I have never met before, but that's just me. If there's no click or connection, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea.  

35 minutes ago, Looking4MuscleInSD said:

Something that is happening more and more frequently for me....

....suddenly message me the next day or even same day, telling me they never do this, but felt a special connection with me and could I please send them more money via Venmo or PayPal so they can make a car payment, pay rent, or pay a car insurance premium for them. I block them immediately. 

You are hiring the wrong people man. DAMN. LOL. 😎

To the posts above, I almost the opposite as a client. Mostly and hesitate on reaching out and always try to minimize the interaction because I truly strive to respect everyone's time. To a fault sometimes -- I need to be more forward in what I want and need.

If there's an escort I really like or want to see, I generally keep track of their travel via RM and reach out when the time is right. If they reach out to me, then I know they're interested or respected me in our time together. 

In some weird way, I almost equate these interactions to a flight attendant in my mind since I travel so much. They deal with so much shit from the general public that they believe (rightfully so) the general public is horrible. Because that's true. No matter how much you're charging, if I can reduce the friction in our interaction, that's cool in my book. 

As a client I want to make you feel comfortable too, because the sex will just be better. Right? Just don't get crazy. Seems so simple.

I argue we are all getting "better" in every aspect of life because of three major things: 

1. We are faster, better, and stronger today. We can argue this point to death, and sure there is an obesity epidemic in the USA, but in general we're all living longer lives and our relaxed lifestyle contributes to not being worn down by work. Back when this picture was taken, the majority of men walked around with bruised up hands from labor and many more wrinkles than we have today. Life was just harder, and it resulted in people getting worn down faster.   

2. We're more self-aware of what makes someone healthy. Everyone in that picture probably smoked and drank like fish. People use to drop dead all the time of random diseases and they would self-medicate with alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs. Sure, they may have weighed less, but quality of life and life expectancy was much less than today. Sure, we self-medicate today but in general our habits are much better. 

3. The definition of "attractive" changes over time. Not measured in years or even a decade or two, but in multiple decades and centuries. Personally, I prefer the definition we have now. LOL. 
 

That's all. So yea, men are getting more handsome.  

I posted a link to his Twitter about 5-6 replies up and they have pictures of him from this past week. Note the new tattoo. 

The dude is a fucking mac truck I swear to god.  Oh, and I am in Boston too, look at that. 👀😈

https://twitter.com/musclecompanion

On 9/4/2022 at 10:25 AM, KensingtonHomo said:

This is why I tell you all I don't see sensual or erotic massage with straight guys or even most who advertise themselves as bisexual. Clearly, clients should respect all provider's boundaries. For me, even if a provider is willing to do HE or MT, if he's actually uncomfortable with it I will sense that, and be turned off. 

I keep checking out his profile constantly because to me, those pictures of him in the blue jeans and the blue briefs are two of the hottest pictures on all of Rent Men. But then I read the profile and what you say above and it's like okay, time for him to take the RM ad down. lol

When I started hiring, a friend of a friend gave me one huge, huge piece of advice:  Hire someone who is gay. Make sure they're gay, or if they're bisexual, make sure they're a genuine "people pleaser" (those types exist and they're incredible). Anything less than gay or genuinely bisexual and you'll just be disappointed, no matter how hot they are.  

He was 100% right. Best advice ever and it's worked.

4 hours ago, Quincy_7 said:

How does the analysis change in a jurisdiction such as the UK where prostitution is not illegal?

NDA is the same regardless of industry or even its legality. Doesn't matter if legal or not, or you're selling ice cream cones or a kilo of coke. It really only carries weight when the threat of suing carries a 7, 8, 9, or even 10 figure payout. Like I said above, signing a NDA over a personal matter like escorting, doesn't mean much in general. It's all about the ramifications of breaking it, and unless you can sue someone for $50M -- or you're the one with the $50M to lose, then it's not worth the paper written on.  Again: See Stormy Daniels. 

"Life/investment advice" from a 23 year old??  Oh the shit I thought I knew at that age. LOL. 

But seriously, more power to him. Cute kid. I just want a real fucking man. Grrrrr. 😈 

Also, if you're going to list your travel status, make sure it's like Delta 360 or AA ConciergyKey and you're getting Porsche rides on the tarmac. Just sayin' 😆

On 9/26/2022 at 6:27 PM, pubic_assistance said:

I asked him once how he gets up the nerve...his answer was iconic: "What's the worst that can happen ?...they just say no".  *classic*

He was so right.  NEVER assume you can't attract someone until you try.

We miss 100% of the chances we don't take. That single philosophy has brought me a lot of success in love and life. I did a business pitch a couple years back and asked for something so freaking outrageous, it actually worked. In reality, I would have punched someone if they had of asked the same of me. But here we are. 

On the old beefy/bear topic that started this thread, I had a full head of grey hair at 40 am not the smallest dude in the world. But somehow every college baseball player with daddy issues can't get enough. Not every one of them -- and not even 90% of them.

But that last 10% are fucking amazing in bed. All you really have to do is not be a creep and show a genuine interest in getting to know someone. It really does work. 

Okay, sorry. This thread was distracting. lol 

https://app.rent.men/DinoLuca for sure. 

Tried for months to get some time with him and he wasn't available or our schedules didn't align or we couldn't make it work. But we both kept the lines of communication open. It worked. Planets aligned in the past week and I can legit confirm what everyone else on here says about him (just search his name)…. he's the real deal. Nicest in NYC at least of anyone I have met. lol  

2 hours ago, Muscle Lover 2 said:

But, I would say that the pictures are way out of date.   Not nearly the definition to his body that the pics show.   

Height isn't really a thing for me, all my ex-boyfriends were 5'6 or 5'7.  But when you say "way" out of date and "not nearly" the definition, can you explain a little bit more maybe if possible? I know it is a hard thing to ask in writing/online because we all measure things like definition differently.

I was planning on hiring him based exactly on how defined he looks in those pictures because that look is what I go for all the time especially the Mediterranean looking ones. He seems cool and has perfect reviews. 51 of them in one year, and that comes off as legit and really hard to do. Hmmmm.

If you're into muscle guys, just hit up anyone on https://www.thebestflex.com/ -- like 70-80% of them are straight up Skype/video providers and don't even do in-person meetups. 

Always one scoop and usually like the consistency of a proven thing. My hiring looks like:

Vanilla. Vanilla. Vanilla. Oreo. 

Vanilla. Vanilla. Vanilla. Chocolate Chip. 

Vanilla. Vanilla. Vanilla. Strawberry. 

You can get it from Mark Cuban's startup CostPlusDrugs for $16 per month. For real.  

https://costplusdrugs.com/medications/emtricitabine-tenofovir-df-200mg-300mg-bottle-of-tablets/

That's an amazing review.  I am going to look him up next time I am available and he and I are in the same city. Thanks for the reference. 

Ok. You win. 

45 minutes ago, sam.fitzpatrick said:

I know of several personal NDAs that would also cover things that a corporate environment would consider protected under HIPAA.  

Potato, potato. Show me a single instance where any person (not entity) was made to pay a settlement over any HIPAA violation, ever.

Hold that thought. Is there truly any entity (corporation) that has been made to pay any meaningful settlement over a HIPAA violation? If so, who was the recipient of the settlement and funds? 

HIPAA is all bark and no bite. Hint: There's no HIPAA police.  

... mind if I step in here as the CEO of an actual corporation?  👀

You all have the entire concept of a NDA wrong. Signing a NDA with someone over a meeting and/or sexual acts is completely meaningless. So what? They break it? What are you going to sue them for what, $5k, $20k? Ha. Okay, then what?  

Stormy Daniels signed a NDA and look at her bank account today. She's doing quite well. 

True NDAs are meant to protect trade secrets, intellectual property, or the magic "sauce" -- that's where the enforceable component has true value. If you are on the Board of Directors of one of my competitors, and I want to fuck you, we might sign a NDA.

Then after I blow my load in you, perhaps I am so happy in that moment I happen to tell you about my next project that involves tech that will replace Facebook or has better battery tech than Tesla. Now, you turn that information into something and build a company to compete against us -- then we will use that NDA and get hundreds of millions or billions out of you. Forever. 

For sex -- or meeting someone -- or anything that isn't worth tens of millions in an eventual lawsuit? It's not worth the ink on the paper. 

I think that the second point is the vast majority. If I had to put numbers on your list of four things, I would say:  5%. 75%. 15%. 5%.

Kissing... real kissing... is something very, very hard to fake. You might be 'straight' or not attracted to men, yet always able to get rock hard and fuck. But IMHO, kissing is the real tell when it comes to the provider's true sexual orientation. 

I started hiring back about six months ago and had a friend of a friend give me some tips before I jumped in these waters. His biggest piece of advice? Make sure your provider is gay or genuinely bi, but you really want someone gay. It'll be way more enjoyable all around. 

His advice was spot on. I've only since hired five guys. Two bisexual and three gay. Both of the bisexual guys were a bit 'mechanical' in the motions. All three of the gay ones kissed with a fucking passion that made me weak in the knees. 

3 hours ago, Strafe13 said:

Trevor requires prospective clients to send stats/detailed description (not a huge deal, really) , AND photos of themselves.  I can see why some escorts might want to know what the client looks like

When I first decided to hire earlier this year for the first time, I made a client profile on RM. Why? 

I can't imagine walking into a room or situation where the other person doesn't know anything about the other person at all -- profile text or even a single picture. Maybe I am unique, but I would never engage with a person where I can't at least have a base level understanding of the person you're about to engage with. 

Case in point: I'm chubby and a bear. Not obese but a big dude. Lots of people would call me fat and that's cool. I don't care. I also love crazy built bodybuilders who spend all day in the gym with no body fat. So when the math is done, I really don't want the escort I hire to walk into my place and not be able to get hard for a 'fat' guy. I'd rather there be a mutual attraction on some level by exchanging pictures so he knows what I look like. I put forward something about me and they can see it and decide to engage. It's a win all around. Does that make sense? I think it does. 

Anyway -- I've been with Trev twice and he's legit #1 on the list of hottest guys ever. All the reviews are real and true. 

This site is awesome. I wish I had discovered it years ago.  

Me: https://rent.men/SportBud

I've always wanted to hire Sean Duran but on the fence since he's been around so much and wanted more than a typical 'pornstar in my bed' experience. (e.g., BFE).  Anyone have experience here?

1 minute ago, Intoyvr said:

I just went to rentmen.eu (rather than .com) and it is still version 6.0 (for now).

My business mind is wondering if they are trying to get clients to become premium members by making the "free" experience difficult. And are they trying to maximize income streams from both sides to make the books looks attractive enough to be bought? Is this them cashing out?

The latter. If I were the owners/founder(s), I would be aiming for an exit at this point for sure. They have the critical mass of the market in the USA at the very least which is huge.