ThroatCummer

I saw my doctor two days ago on Monday and this came up in conversation. For some background, he's a private physician (doesn't do insurance; you pay him directly) who is also a friend of mine for more than 20 years. He mentioned that community cases of MP are negligible at the moment. Everyone organized and got vaccinated this summer and early fall and he said it really isn't too much of a cause for concern anymore. The vaccines work great and even if you're exposed, as long as you have the vax, you'll get a mild case with hardly any symptoms. I know someone out there has a best friend who has a cousin who's sister's boyfriend knows this guy who's going with this girl who saw Ferris had a bad case of MP last weekend. But in all reality, it's fine. Of course you should weigh your own personal risk but having had both MP jabs, I don't even think about it anymore personally. 

I'll second the make sure it is someone you've met and have a good connection with.  For an overnight, I have done everything from take a provider to a Broadway show to just staying in the room and sitting on the couch watching Jeopardy! between fuck sessions. Ironically, both of those were with the same guy on different overnights. Point is, the connection and at least some prior history is very key to making an overnight work well. 

Wow.... that's a hot kid. 🤤

Picked up a professional MMA fighter on the streets of New York (like walking past him on 8th Ave) and proceeded to have not only the hottest sex of my life over the course of a few months with him, but also an 'affair' and today -- ten years later -- he remains one of my best friends in life.

There's a whole long story on the LPSG forums that I wrote earlier this year because I was in a writing mood over the course of two weeks and I ever relived that so vividly a decade after the fact. Every word is true and it isn't meant to be an erotic story. The only things changed were stuff like the city we visited together, the type of tattoo he had, and other really really small stuff just to not give away his identity, since you could easily find him on Google. 

If anyone has 20 minutes to read, it is here: https://www.lpsg.com/threads/true-story-fucking-the-ufc-fighter.6137791/   

(You can read the entire thread for free without login)

There's a handful of other stories, but that one takes the cake and is my #1 for the 45 years I have been on this planet.

Lemme guess.  Best hire ever hands down and nobody will ever compare? 

That's the only problem with him. He destroys the bar for everyone else by setting it so fucking high. lol

^^^^ See. 😁  We all told you.  So, spill.  

You know how really major news organizations will publish stories that were literally verified by like 23 separate people? It’s the same here: 

I echo all the comments above, and provided some pictures and a link to my own client RM profile before meeting up and it just strengthened our connection. I have talked about it with him in person and it’s mostly for his own personal safety and to establish a mutual level of trust, not to actually reject someone. It’s really is that important to him for various reasons, including the fact he holds down a full time job of over a decade that could be in jeopardy if his private life ever got out in a more public way.

On another note, as of the last time we talked he doesn’t have a single “horror” story about a client. If you read these forums enough, you see all the time where providers have stories about sessions or meetups that went really wrong  Trev’s screen process and the way he builds trust has apparent served him well because he truly doesn’t have a really bad story. So something is definitely working on both sides. 

For what it’s worth he is the genuine type of “people pleaser” that can find attractiveness in anyone he meets, and dear god that quality makes you feel like a million bucks. So put forward the time and effort into meeting up with him, you won’t be sorry. He literally guarantees it. 

I'm seeing him again this weekend. Can't freaking wait. 🤤🤤🤤

^^^^ great review!  Just threw him on my list in case we're in the same city. Nice!

43 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

I'm 51 and have been an athlete since I was a teenager. I can smell the chemicals on this Frankenstein from here.

Your gaslighting is telling.

There's two general types of people in the world:

1) Those who choose to make negative comments or otherwise break their fellow man [or woman] down.

2) Those who look at each moment as an opportunity to build other people up -- or at the very least, remain silent and STFU. 

Oh yea. It's very telling.

23 minutes ago, Philly50 said:

But I've seen other escorts simply let their profiles expire [......]

It really seems odd to park one's profile in an out of the way place and change the name just to take a break.

Honestly, I really don't know as I am not a provider. Good points but I think it might be a little more complex depending on the situation of a specific provider. I just know what Trev (the guy linked here by the original poster in this thread) told me when we talked about it in person last month.

We were talking about how RM has a lock on this entire industry (M4M escorting in the USA) and if there were an opportunity to build a legitimate competitor to their monopoly, what would it look like? He explained the challenges of deactivating a profile really well, but I wasn't taking notes as my hands were otherwise occupied with his amazing body. So.... yea. 😆🤤

I never play but bought a single $2 ticket last drawing and will buy one for this next one. I figure if I am going to win, it'll be a single ticket no need to waste $20. LOL. 

Plus I really don't want to win. If I had that much money, I would blow it all on drugs and men. I mean, I know myself and seriously, I would probably be dead in less than a decade. The weird part in saying that is no, I don't even currently have any addiction issues. But I know that I need a drive to work and do something each day and that much cash has a way of taking that away from people. 

Not going to turn it down though. LOL 

54 minutes ago, Philly50 said:

Ah, yes, I had forgotten that. Don't know why he changed his name as he had built up quite a good brand.

That's exactly why he changed his name, to preserve the reviews. RM doesn't allow for an easy way to deactivate a profile (they have some functionality, but it is clunky and you lose certain things) so some providers wind up changing their name/pics/location to "park" a profile somewhere until they're ready to return. Believe it or not, it's easier to do that whole game than to just deactivate when you want to take a break. Go figure. 

Some change names by creating a new profile, and that's usually a red flag. I mean who *wants* to lose that many good reviews? lol. But here it definitely isn't the case. 

I've seen this guy, many times. If you have the opportunity then absolutely book time with him. It'll be the best money you've ever spent on a provider, hands down. The guy is amazing. 

I do. He's my regular in my home city in Boston. We have seen each other a half dozen times, the most recently being about 4-5 weeks ago. He's incredibly handsome, exactly as advertised, rock hard always, and wicked easy to get along with. 

Only caveat is that last time we met up, he mentioned not really keeping too active on RM and not generally wanting to see new people only a handful of regulars. So just be aware in case you don't get a response right away. 

DM with specific questions -- I'll answer. 

I've met Justin twice over this past summer and he's a genuine guy -- and that's the word I choose to describe him.

He's a mountain of muscle. Killer body for sure. It feels amazing. When we met in August, he was only a couple weeks out from a huge bodybuilding competition in upstate NY. I think he puts all his time and energy into that and that's his sole focus 24x7. I typically like to dig a little deeper and crawl into someone's personality, so I got a peek into that non-sexual side of him. There's stuff I do for my work too that we were able to form a connection about which was cool. He was clam, cool, and comfortable. Exactly as advertised. 

Would I hire him again if I happened to be in New York and was just sitting at the computer banging away on the keyboard? Yes. 

Would I block off my time and make a trip down to New York City just to see him? No. 

Providers who make me (us) block off our time and money are epic -- and let's be real -- I'm paying for epic.

... and just based on what I know about the site, my own personal experience, and reading on here for a while, it would be around $2k to be featured for ~24 hours.

There would also be conditions on who gets promoted. You'd have to have a real full profile, be established for over a year, with at least two dozen 5.0 reviews to even consider it, otherwise you'll never get a reply from the inquiry.

I could be completely out of the park on that estimate, but if I ran the site, that's what I would be charging based on current traffic in general. 

11 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Have any of you guys sent a message to the web master and inquired? Wondering what they said.

Everyone here is wondering how it all works. I run a business that has a similar thing (not anywhere near this industry), and if someone messaged someone on my team and offered to pay $X to get whatever product promoted, the answer would be YES. YES. YES. 

Since there are no published guidelines or offer on the site, there are only two actual scenarios at work here: 

1. Whoever it is that operates RM takes hard money to be promoted. You want to be promoted, message the webmaster and offer $X for Y days. They'll either say yes or no, or they'll come back with a counter offer. 

2. Whoever it is that operates RM reaches out to a handful of profiles that somehow come to the top of their attention -- for whatever reason -- and solicits a payout for the promotions. "Hey, you want to pay us $X to be RM of the day?" 

I'm going to guess it's not #2, only because a provider would have mentioned that happening to them over the past half-decade. 

So, yea, #1. 

On 10/15/2022 at 4:17 PM, seattlebottom said:

Maybe I'm misreading this but you'll fire someone who won't come into the office and hire someone from another country who won't be able to come into the office either?  Are you going to sponsor the person and pay for their work visa just so they can show up and work in the office?  Seems like a terrible waste of time and money. 

You're not misreading a tall, but the larger message is just lost in translation from being a post here rather than a real-life discussion. I think I wrote all that on a semi-buzzed ramble and the answer is that it's complicated.

The initial reason for that reply was "CEOs and other executives have announced that the first candidates for layoffs will be the people who refuse to come to the office, or don't get there enough or in a timely manner. An entire generation is going to have to grow up quickly and drop their bad habits."

And that's the point of the thread -- be on time or communicate, or you'll get passed over. Sure some guys have enough business to not care, but it's the ones who respect and value time (on both sides) that become the legends in this [or any] industry. 

19 hours ago, 30somethingsexybear said:

I second 9th ave Saloon. Very gay and the kind of "Cheers" where everyone is welcome and feels welcome so it's a HUGE range of people, a lot of broadway queens, Older guys, 9 to 5 types, Larger body types, older clientele as well.

+3 on 9th Ave. That's usually my go to when I am in NYC -- also because I stay in HK anyway, so. But definitely a very diverse crowd and something in there for everyone.... and that Kiwi bartender someone else mentioned above is definitely very friendly.

He's a 22 year old brick-house with that new car smell.

Good for him, I wish I looked like that right now. But the whole "I'm the hottest guy you'll ever meet" attitude will come back to bite him in the ass real soon. Because we all know the truly hottest guys out there don't have to say it. 

Hopefully he uses what he's got right now to build an empire that will give him a good life over the next 50-70 years. It's either that or he's going to be taking old dude dick for his next hit of meth. Somehow, reading his profile, I don't think there's much room for anything in-between. 

Good luck bro. 👊

On 9/6/2022 at 3:55 PM, Medman said:

So. I had a great time with Trevor! Certainly far from the routine hires who simply goes through the motion until time is up. To the contrary. He is completely engaged from beginning to end. He tries to make you feel important and attractive at the moment. He knows that every thing before and after the sex is what makes or breaks the experience. He is SO enthusiastic that it makes you think whether he is really into you; or is he so good at his craft that he can blur the line. Well since I am in charge of my own fantasy and experience, I choose to believe we had chemistry. Whether that's true or not is incidental; and for a moment I was able to connect with a hot guy who seems physically above my level. To get a better feel of whether the chemistry is real or not, I may have to do some further evaluations. 😉. 

So, can we still keep talking about Trev? Because the dude has set the bar so fucking high, it's almost crazy.

To your point @Medman, I choose to believe the same. I think he's just one of those genuine guys who loves to please others and he gets off on making someone else feel good. It's really that simple. Sure, money is involved, but you can't fake the passion he has. It's just not possible in my book. If it's not semi-real, he is the best actor in the world and puts everyone in Hollywood to shame. 

I saw him a couple weeks ago and he's definitely taking time off and laying low for a bit, but he enjoys making connections so much that he isn't done by any means. If you do the math and divide out his rate by the length of time he makes you feel amazing afterwards, he is probably the best investment I have ever made. We did two overnights separated by two months, and I went back to work and brought my A game for two weeks feeling so good. Divided all out, it came out to like $8 bucks an hour.  

What I really want to know from @TorontoDrew @Enchanted @Cliff @Medman and others who have been with him -- who else on RM currently is like that? Let's throw geography out the window for a moment. Who else is on his level? 

Yea, I know there's a few threads on here who all blow smoke up Trev's ass, and it's probably exhausting for others to read since he isn't really bookable at the moment. But that doesn't diminish his impact and what an incredible hire/guy he is. The moment he's back on RM, we'll all be talking about it.  

Tell them. 

Honest advice? You should assume that every provider that lists on RM will make you feel comfortable. You're hiring them and you're the one paying for their time. But you have to be up front about your stuff and conditions in order for them to accommodate. 

I'm not exactly the most in-shape guy in the world. Huge insecurity on that front. Also very vanilla like you. When I see a stupidly jacked guy that's a millions times out of my league in my city on RM, all I can think about is how could he want to be with someone like me? But it's just that -- a transaction. So you message them and lay all your cards on the table. Copy and paste your post above and send that to them. No joke. What's the worst that can happen? They don't respond?  Okay, move on and find another wicked hot guy you want in your bed.  

Keep doing that and you'll find the ones who are truly passionate and genuine people pleasers. I'll admit they're not the norm, but they're out there and it's fucking amazing with you find one. You might even make a casual friend from it. (<-- although don't hold on to that lol)

Good luck man. 

If you're in the USA, Rent.men has a complete lock on the entire industry. You can find guys through other methods, but the risk/reward just isn't there and you'll simply waste your time. RM has a monopoly and any escort who truly wants business lists on there.  As a side note, Hunqz is the place to go in Europe. Not sure for the rest of the world. 

You said you're experienced in hiring on that other site, so the rest of this post isn't really for you (no offense), rather it's for others who stumble on this thread and need to hear it. I was in that same position less than 12 months ago. Never hired before and not sure who to hire and it seemed too overwhelming. But there's a method to the madness. Some tips: 

1. Generally only hire guys who have had a RM profile for more than 9-12 months. There are exceptions but it's a good rule to follow. 
2. Look for pictures that have a variety of shots in different places. All professional photos? Pass. Also, don't dismiss someone for no face picture. The single hottest guy I have hired and the hottest sex I have ever had in my life was from a guy on RM who didn't show his face. 
3. Reviews are everything. We can debate this until the end of time, but there is huge merit in a 5.0 or 4.9 or 4.8 score with 50+ reviews. The same advice is true on AirBnB and Amazon and Rent.men. It's just a fact of life in 2022. You can't please everyone and there will always be a bitter person, but if you have 50+ reviews and you're at a 4.7 or more, then you're doing something pretty freaking awesome. 
4. Get a VPN if you're in the United States. There are 100's of them out there just Google it. Proton VPN is great for this. Here in the USA, we can't read the text that was written in the RM reviews. But if you VPN in from another country, and also use a "private" browser session, you can read what others write about them. Sometimes there are entire paragraphs their clients write about the encounter. It's amazing. 
5. If they link to an Instagram, Twitter, website, blog (or even an OF), that's solid gold. That means they're real and mostly serious because they're showing you more about themselves. 
6. Finally, have a RM client profile. This is KEY. Say something about yourself, what you like, and what you're looking for by hiring someone. Include a couple pictures if you're able (even if they have to be faceless for discretion purposes).  You do this, and I promise that your response rate will be as close to 100% as possible. 

Good luck man.  So yea, RM.  

5 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

CEOs and other executives have announced that the first candidates for layoffs will be the people who refuse to come to the office, or don't get there enough or in a timely manner. An entire generation is going to have to grow up quickly and drop their bad habits.

Without going into too much detail, I have eliminated an entire department over this.

You live 30 minutes from our office but refuse to come in ever again? .. and you still want that $180k salary? Nah, it don't work that way.

Historically, Asia and India outsourcing was a fucking train wreck because quality was never there. But now there's an epic crap ton of countries and people with the same skills that will do your job for a fraction of the price. I can get someone in South Africa, Brazil, or Romania to replace you in ten seconds. Oh, and there's a hundred million of them lined up applying.

Welcome to globalization.

My highest performer (our Chief Compliance Officer) can do her job from the Lido deck of a cruise ship and never come into the office ever again, and I won't give a fuck. Because she's a master at her work and she gets shit done. 

But now, when we need a new person, our universe of hiring is the entire planet. It's going to be a really hard lesson for the tech skilled workforce in the USA to learn over the next few years. No company is going to pay $180k for a software engineer that wants to sit at home down the street from the actual office in Manhattan. I need you in the office to be creative because there's value in that. If you don't want to do that, then you're going to be replaced by someone in Lebanon or Croatia.   

WOAH. Need to put down the keyboard.

Wait, what were we talking about? Open markets and how they influence escort prices? 'Night  

I've had him on my RM buddy list for months in the event I get back to Europe soon and now look, he's coming to NYC. 

God, I really hope he lives up to those pictures. Watching this space. 👀

Also, he is listed on Hunqz which is wicked popular in Europe. Click the "15 stars" on the lower right of his profile and read his reviews there too. You might need a free account and you'll need to use Google Translate for a few of them.  

https://www.hunqz.com/escort/giobolo