ThroatCummer

Then I guess I misread it as well. There was never a Reese mentioned anywhere in this thread. It’s about Trevor. You are the only one who hauled out that name.
 

Deducting you are trying to out the guy is (was) a valid conclusion given those facts. 

3 hours ago, Lazarus said:

After seeing what Reese looks like after having his face pictures blurred for so many years, I am not taking a chance meeting anybody without seeing a face picture first. 

Who's Reese? Not his name, but try again.  I've seen his passport with my own eyes and know his real name.  Trying to out someone who values discretion isn't a good look on you.

He doesn't have face pictures because he has a regular full-time job that is fairly high profile, and he would get into lots of trouble (read: FIRED), and discretion is something he values above all else.

But you can also ask him after you have gone back and forth.  In fact, after we exchanged a few texts the first time I reached out, he sent one voluntarily without me asking. He has no problem sending once you have engaged him on text -- he just can't show them to the world up-front.  And he's a fucking stud, lol 

So:  Invest some time to engage him and he will invest in you. That's how it works. 

This dude is the fucking best. Been there more times than I can count and it’s life changing. lol. 

But really, he is just a fucking awesome dude.

Also don't underestimate the power of a US Passport.  At the end of the day, none of these countries want an issue with a random American on their hands.  You're too much freaking trouble to mess with. You *DO* carry the full weight of the United States of America and they aren't throwing you in jail unless they want you as a political pawn. I that case like with Russia or Iran, it really doesn't matter if you are gay, or a reporter, or have vapes on you.  You're just fucked for breathing the air in that moment. 

57 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

I guarantee you most clients DON'T look like him at all and if they do, they don't need to hire, they get it for free. 

It's ironic that one of my favorite escorts has hired other guys for himself on a dozen or more occasions. 

They deal with all the same Grindr/Scruff/Sniffies issues that we have. People not showing up, people being to clingy, wanting more, etc.  Sometimes you just want fun sex with no strings and someone who is reliable and on-time. He's the hottest thing walking around the planet in my eyes, but he also pays for it. 

I totally understand too. 

@BiDude420 if you can provide us with a couple of links to guys who are your "type" and you are willing to do what @KensingtonHomo mentioned above about making it a date night, I have someone to refer that will completely blow you out of the water. 100% reliable, awesome, and everything you're looking for.  He will be in New York City a lot next month, but that isn't his home base. 

I think there should be a distinction between full-time escort work and work on the side. The word "full-time" didn't come into play until @sam.fitzpatrick mentioned it above. 

Yes, you can make it your career, your identity, and your job. That's awesome. But there are also those who do it just because. The one escort I live and die by does this on the side. Money isn't the primary factor in their motivations. Sure it helps, and it's nice, but they genuinely like to make connections with people and are one of those "people-pleaser" types we have all heard about. He has a full-time professional job in a fairly high-profile industry where this is a hobby. He has over 100+ reviews on RM that are all 5.0 across the board (not 4.8 or 4.9) and obviously, it shows.  

So in this context, this isn't their "real life" but sure, at this point we are just playing with semantics. Here's a hint: those who do it for the connections are the absolute best out there. Find someone like that and make them your regular. It's completely worth it.  

10 minutes ago, CuriousByNature said:

Are you getting hit up by providers, or RM members?  Is there a way that people can search for/see client profiles, because I was only aware of the search function for finding providers... but I'm also a bit technologically challenged.  LOL

I leave reviews for other providers, which are visible on my profile. I think people find a provider, look at their reviews, see mine, click the link on my profile, and then just message me. It's a vicious circle, lol. 

I'm the typical mid-40's, grey hair, beefy, some wrinkles in the face, 5 o'clock shadow, coach/dad type. Textbook definition of a 'daddy'.  

If I had a nickel for every college baseball player or jock that had daddy issues (hint: they ALL do!), I could buy a new Macbook. 

I have a client profile on RM with clear pictures, and I get hit up kind of often asking if I escort. Same types. The answer is no (not because I don't think it would work, I simply don't have the time and focus my energy elsewhere) but thank you for the compliment. 

Yes, I use my look to my advantage. We all should be playing the cards we are dealt in life. lol 

Take an inked-up built MAN who is a "hood rat" but an actual nice guy underneath, yea, all about it. 

This all boils down to the fundamental structure of how the FedACH system works.

If a scammer puts in enough time and effort, they can set up a "fake" relationship with a bank or payment provider directly that will, in fact, allow for direct debit from a checking account with just an account number and bank routing number. There doesn't even need to be a full name match per NACHA standards. You can just say you're authorized to debit and if you have the facility or knowledge on how to do it, it can be done. 

ACHs are sometimes reversible for up to 30 days, to a maximum of 90. But those funds are long transferred out of the scammer account and gone by the time it is realized.

Protect your ABA/Account information just like you would your SSN. 

Well, my friends that own a bar in Chicago sell them out of these for $10. They have to make a killing and everyone sees it. So…

I just posted in that other thread above. 

As someone who has been everything from 210 and well built to 285 and not well built in my adult life, I can say there are a few parts here: 

1. As Jamie says above, there are position limitations and we all have to be realistic. I had them at the time and it sucked to be honest. I think people who are overweight know and want to try, but know their reality too. 

2. There were just as many people attracted to me at 285 as there were at 210. Today, I am 220 and not muscular or defined by any stretch of the imagination. People would describe me as "beefy" in general. However, my boyfriend is the textbook Instagram type who looks like he just walked off a fucking bodybuilding competition stage. He's like a walking cinderblock and everyone looks at him everywhere we go. I have people who assume he is an escort and I am paying him, but that isn't the case. He loves me for me, not the time I spend in the gym. The only reason I work out now is to stay healthy so that I can maximize the years I have to spend with him, and that's attractive to anyone. 

3. It's all about your energy. Anyone can attract anyone they want with the right mindset and energy. There's also an element of cleanliness and self-care that goes into it. No matter your weight (unless we're talking 400-500+ people who physically cannot manage to get into a shower or wipe their ass -- be clean. Cut your nails. Change your clothes. Use soap. Manage yourself the best you're able with the tools that are available. If you do that, you are good. 

Hope this helps.  

The sad reality is that you are a privately run business offering a service. 

The only true "customer ban list" successfully implemented that works is in the airline industry, and even that is semi-supported by the government. Businesses (from Amazon.com down to the local corner coffee shop) can choose to ban a customer because the customer committed fraud or did something bad to the business. But Walmart or Target or the other corner coffee shop, or the other local bakery across town have zero interest in banning that same person just because their competition had a bad experience. That's not *their* experience. They don't have any with that person yet, so it really is all about the money.

Even in the event of a customer blacklist, the customer here can create a new persona and get a new phone number or e-mail address. RentMen could ban the IP address, but there are VPN workarounds for that as well. 

There are apps that escorts use to write reviews on customers, so you should look into that if you don't already know. They're not bulletproof, but they work decently as part of a more holistic approach to screening. 

Chalk this one up and move on, you did the best you could. There are really awesome clients out there. You'll find many, but every once in a while you get suckered into a bad situation, which is just the cost of doing business. 

Good luck! 

3 hours ago, Enronnja said:

Imaginary or real life? They would make a handsome couple.

Real life. I've hired Jared (Row 3, Picture 3) before. He was a freaking great time.  I haven't met his boyfriend (Row 4, Picture 3) before, but Jared spoke of him very highly. 

Row 3, Picture 3 & Row 4, Picture 3 are in a relationship.  

They didn't crack down before because they encouraged sharing. HBO came out and explicitly said their content is so strong they wanted people to share as a large % of those people would turn into paying customers. It's a good business decision. 

I think that Netflix now believes they have enough critical mass to force the people who shared to sign up on their own because their content is good. I do know they won't lose many paying customers over the crackdown -- the main account owner will continue to subscribe -- but will likely gain many of the people who lose access.  All we need is about one or two quarters to find out. The subscriber numbers won't lie. I

It's all upside for the streaming services at this point as long as they keep putting out awesome content, which they are. There has never been better television in history than what we have today.  (*except news, dear lord not news, lol) 

It's really all about positioning the question and the interaction itself. I've asked this question close to 200-300 times, and never once had a single person react badly. 

One of the hottest escorts on Rentmen that I have ever met hires for himself on occasion just because of this. Sometimes these escorts are genuine men, they aren’t all about monetizing every cum shot they have, and they want to hook up on their own terms and get their own needs met. It’s so bad on the “apps” that this guy pays the same $350-$500/hr we all do because it provides value to him. I would have never believed it, but he was telling me the exact truth. 

14 hours ago, Whatsupandstuff said:

thats obscene 

Completely obscene for someone who can’t read a fucking text and formulate a coherent reply. 

My opening was absolutely fine especially considering I list everything in the profile text that can easily be looked up. For $1,000/hr, I expect a “Hi Mike. Thanks for the message. etc etc etc” type reply.

Obscene. I wouldn’t have him for free if he offered. 

I've hired him and reviewed on RM. Passionate, totally into it, fully present, and will absolutely repeat. 

RE: Oral. Your experience might vary if you have a connection.

He’s uncut. 

Alright, so I will jump into the pool here with the first feedback: 

I hired him this past weekend. Initially, the intent was an hour or two, but that turned into an overnight. 

1. His pictures and profile are absolutely real, authentic, and genuine. He's who he says he is and sexy as fuck in person. 
2. His communication skills do need improvement. In fact, after a few hours, we talked about that, and I showed him these threads here on this site.
3. Escorting is not his main thing. He has a full-time job and other life obligations which contributes to the flakiness of his replies at times. 
4. Best of all, and this is what makes him great, is that he really valued the constructive feedback and acknowledged his age combined with ADHD was a challenge in getting back to everyone and following through sometimes. He knows he needs to improve and is working on it. That's awesome in my book. 

As far as the session, it was everything I wanted. He's a really great bottom with an ass like two fucking marbles that won't quit. Damn it was good.

If you are able to pin him down (pun intended) then you won't be sorry with the time and money you're investing in this one. He's worth it.