sydneyboy Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 “Eternal life? I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy.” -Quentin Crisp + Charlie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 bigvalleyboy. is he no longer with us? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Charlie Posted December 16, 2020 Share Posted December 16, 2020 is he no longer with us? No, he passed away recently. + Lucky 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Coolwave35 Posted December 17, 2020 Share Posted December 17, 2020 No, he passed away recently. I’m very sorry to hear that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted December 17, 2020 Share Posted December 17, 2020 is he no longer with us? hey cw......here's the thread on BVB....... https://m4m-forum.org/threads/longtime-forum-member-bigvalboy-has-died.161343/ thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnjohn Posted December 17, 2020 Share Posted December 17, 2020 As long as i have my right mind. I watched/lived with my Fathers fight with Alzheimers I would not wish that disease on anyone. I miss him everyday. But would not want him back . Sorry got of topic + Charlie and + Lucky 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samhexum Posted December 23, 2020 Author Share Posted December 23, 2020 This is what I'm going to look like as I yell "get off my lawn!" The day I start yelling at those damned kids to get off my lawn! (and I don't have a lawn) + FreshFluff, + honcho and + Charlie 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bargara Leatherboy Posted December 23, 2020 Share Posted December 23, 2020 100 in good sharpe and still hiring a hot escort Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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stop Posted February 22, 2021 Share Posted February 22, 2021 As long as i have my right mind. I watched/lived with my Fathers fight with Alzheimers I would not wish that disease on anyone. I miss him everyday. But would not want him back . Sorry got of topic i feel for you man....we are on year 2 with my pop being diagnosed with dementia. Video conferencing with him is heartbreaking. he is very smart and is good at covering it up but sometimes he gets stuck and watching him realize he can’t remember is so hard. he is also dealing with RA now so both physical and mental. makes me want to stop at 65 + Charlie and + Just Sayin 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Luv2play Posted March 1, 2021 Share Posted March 1, 2021 Long enough to get my COVID shot. Lol. + Reisr30, + Tygerscent and samhexum 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samhexum Posted April 4, 2021 Author Share Posted April 4, 2021 + Autumnal 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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thickornotatall Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 I'm missing my friends! Some have moved away...some have passed away...It's difficult to make new friends with similar interests. My husband is now 77 and I'm 72. We've been together since 1990 and have a great time together. He works long hours..I'm retired... I take care of the house and dogs.... I am fortunate....lucky....greatful...but miss my friends...? samhexum, + Charlie, + sync and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 I have a much younger partner. I wouldn’t like to survive him by more than a couple of years. + Tygerscent 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingsley88 Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 (edited) I'm missing my friends! Some have moved away...some have passed away...It's difficult to make new friends with similar interests. My husband is now 77 and I'm 72. We've been together since 1990 and have a great time together. He works long hours..I'm retired... I take care of the house and dogs.... I am fortunate....lucky....greatful...but miss my friends...? Congrats on being together for over 30 years! Does your husband want to retire or perhaps work part-time? Working long hours can be stressful (at least to me.) Then again... hey if he loves to work, that's awesome! I just realized Joe Biden is age 78! Edited April 4, 2021 by kingsley88 thickornotatall 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ tassojunior Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 I used to say at least long enough to make a profit off what I put in my retirement plan. Then I realized my (old) Fed Civil Service re-couped pay-ins in about 2 years. I'm enjoying the free ride as long as possible dammit. + sync 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thickornotatall Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 Congrats on being together for over 30 years! Does your husband want to retire or perhaps work part-time? Working long hours can be stressful (at least to me.) Then again... hey if he loves to work, that's awesome! I just realized Joe Biden is age 78! Thanks!...Tom loves to work....he's up at 6am every day....and home about 2p or so..then we have lunch together..he naps and I ride my bike for an hour....I nap at 4p....before supper....after we eat we walk our dogs ..watch TV til 9:30p....I stay up late watching TV and working on my Youtube Channel...... + sync, fedssocr1, + Charlie and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rod Hagen Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 I stay up late watching TV and working on my Youtube Channel...... If you are hoping to make new friends, I'd make adjustments to those two parts of your daily schedule. Yes Television is amazing right now, but it's also just TV. If 10 years from now you still hadn't seen one episode of Game Of Thrones, or whatever it is people are watching nightly, you will be no poorer. I don't really know what a Youtube Channel is, though I presume it's a collection of videos you narrate. However, that's making relationships at a distance with people you likely won't meet. Maybe by focusing on the things you enjoyed before Must See TV and your YouTube Channel became nightly routines it's possible you will make new friends to see offline when you have time and availability be that day or night. I may be wrong, but something to think about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ tassojunior Posted April 4, 2021 Share Posted April 4, 2021 If you are hoping to make new friends, I'd make adjustments to those two parts of your daily schedule. Yes Television is amazing right now, but it's also just TV. If 10 years from now you still hadn't seen one episode of Game Of Thrones, or whatever it is people are watching nightly, you will be no poorer. I hope you're not including The Crown in that judgment. thickornotatall 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thickornotatall Posted April 5, 2021 Share Posted April 5, 2021 I hope you're not including The Crown in that judgment. Or Law And Order SVU! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coriolis888 Posted April 5, 2021 Share Posted April 5, 2021 "How old do you want to live to be?" I cannot think of many things worse than to be the last one standing knowing you have outlived your family and friends. Longevity sounds good but without family and friends, where is quality of life? thickornotatall, kingsley88 and + Charlie 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Charlie Posted April 5, 2021 Share Posted April 5, 2021 "How old do you want to live to be?" I cannot think of many things worse than to be the last one standing knowing you have outlived your family and friends. Longevity sounds good but without family and friends, where is quality of life? At 100, my mother remarked to me that having outlived my father, all her close friends, and almost everyone in her large family that she cared about except me, she didn't see much reason to want to go on living. Nevertheless, she had no choice. I have always thought that if I reach that point, I will find some way to end it, but I probably won't. coriolis888, kingsley88 and + WilliamM 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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