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kingsley88

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  1. Makes sense. I found some of his vids with Dean Michaelz very passionate.
  2. Wow that is expensive even for NYC but I don't think he needs to do massages. He has an onlyfans acct and probably makes good $$$ from there.
  3. i think it's still possible to be sexually attracted to someone in their late 60s/70s/80s. I know for myself, I hooked up with a guy 15 years ago when he was 45. He's now 60 and I recently hooked up with him again a few months ago and it was great. Even though both of us have aged, I still picture him the way I first met him when he was age 45.
  4. I went to one over a decade ago. It was an Alaska cruise and overall had a great time. I ended up going with a friend as my roommate so I myself have not paid for the single supplement. We did meet other folks who had roomed with a random stranger and had negative experiences (i.e. drug use, snoring, poor hygiene, etc.)
  5. It can make or break your gay cruise experience. If you can afford it, I'd pay the extra fee and get a single room. If you do share a room with a random stranger, communicate with him your expectations/boundaries to help prevent issues.
  6. Thank you for this! I'm a fan (have attended 3 of her concerts) and will check this out.
  7. Yup I bought a parterre ticket just to see/listen/watch his debut this past spring! It was amazing! So glad I was there!
  8. I recently watched the movie "Always Us Strangers" starring Andrew Scott, Paul Mescal, Claire Foy, and Jamie Bell and recommend it. It's directed by Andrew Haigh and if you liked his previous work (Weekend, Looking) then you'll most likely like this one.
  9. were you able to meet up with him?
  10. For your gay friends, there's a shop in Tokyo Blue Eagle bar where I bought a few handfans for friends back home.
  11. I liked the shop Sou Sou. Its flagship store is in Kyoto and there are some unique fashion items there that are very Japanese like tabi shoes, modernized kimono, yukata, etc. I also am a fan of the Japanese handfan. Though you can get them for free there with the ads but there are some nicer ones in stores.
  12. I went to Brazil back in July and had a great time. I plan to go back this fall and heard starting Oct 1st, 2023 Brazil will require a visitor/tourist visa again for US passport holders.
  13. I first heard of Taylor Swift back in 2009 when I was in my 20s and simply connected with her songs. I'm not a diehard fan but would definitely go to her concert if I'm able to get a regular ticket. I missed out last Nov 2022 since I wasn't lucky enough to get a presale code.
  14. I'm glad they had this here in NYC! It's a small exhibit but you get the idea and story. The Haggin museum in Stockton, CA has a larger collection. I visited back in 2018 and really enjoyed it and to this day still wear a longsleeve t-shirt showing the pitcher.
  15. I think it may also depend on how big the bubble butt cheeks are. If htere are no butt cheeks, I'd think it's easier to hit the second hole even for the average penis.
  16. I agree you won't succeed every time. Getting a read of the room will only come with experience. In a non-bar setting, some guys might think you're a creep depending on the way you hit on them. Just be self-aware.
  17. I went to Lagoa for the first time last night and had a great time. Note though that my experience of Brazil saunas have only been Rio de Janeiro's 117 & 202, and Sao Paulo's Lagoa. Lagoa was crowded and I thought the facilities were very clean. I need to learn more Portuguese since most of the garotos didn't really speak English (which makes sense since I am in Brazil.) Entrance fee was R$75. You pay this fee at the end before you leave (and you can pay by credit card). Obviously, for garotos you pay them in cash. The rooms/suites were clean and you rent them for 50-60 mins for around R$50. It has a bed, shower, and toilet. I don't think you have to be with a garoto to rent these cabins/suites. As a first time goer to these saunas, I definitely felt shy and uneasy having all these men flirt with me. This doesn't happen in my real life but of course I know what's happening and enjoyed the moment as is. Thanks to this board I knew there is a diversity of garotos (bodybuilders who look like they're taking steroids, huge horse dicks, model-looking guys, twinks, boy-next-door type, etc.) The garotos offer services and each one varies. Most of the ones I met were tops but who knows they may be open to bottoming. Overall had a good experience at Lagoa and I'd go back here. I met a Brazilian guy (regular client not garoto) from Curitiba who spoke English and was able to converse with him over a cerveija (beer) in the bar area. He told me he likes going to Lagoa whenever he's in town for work as it provides a community for him to catch up with old friends and meet new ones. I also went to Rio de Janeiro and overall felt safe at both 117 and 202. Please note I took uber from where I was staying directly to the saunas and Uber prices in Brazil given the strong USD exchange rate (US$1 = R$4.8) was roughly $10-$12 for me. One thing I noticed is once a garoto has earned enough for the day, he leaves (which makes sense!) Some garotos are only there in the sauna for an hour or two whereas some stay there until it closes. There was a garoto in Rio de Janeiro who looked like a model and I wanted to get to know him more but I was too shy at first. I only saw him again an hour later where he left with a client. I came back the next day and saw him and immediately bought his time and was able to exchange numbers on whatsapp. Also as a newbie who didn't speak Portuguese, I accepted that I would most likely pay a higher rate than usual and that's something to keep in mind for other first timers. You live and learn. Overall I had a great time. I thank this board for introducing me to this world! I must thank @José Soplanucas for his posts/blog were very helpful to me.
  18. Isn't the bank routing number and your account number listed on your check (paper)? I don't even remember the last time I used a paper check.
  19. I recently watched Matt Cullen's interview of 2 female porn stars who work in brothels in Nevada where some charge $50k for a booking! WOW! https://youtu.be/rG76ET21g8c
  20. Though to be fair, if his 2-hour rate is $250 and you're not getting a release, then I'd definitely find a new provider.
  21. For $150 for 2 hours --- getting a therapeutic massage alone is great! Money speaks (to most people.) Offer him an extra $50-$100 and see if he'll give you a release. For 2 hour massages in my area, the rate is at least $200.
  22. Are the lockers at Rio saunas a safe place to put your valuables (smartphone and cash)? Or is it advised not to bring smartphone and just bring enough cash when going there?
  23. I still remember 20 years ago there was a hot shirtless guy walking along the march route with a sign FREE HUGS and omg... that was an amazing hug!!!
  24. I prefer to hire certified masseurs first so I know I'm getting a legit massage. Through the years, I've come to appreciate the art of massage more and the curiosity aspect of what the masseur will do (my preference nowadays is a mix of strong massage technique and sensuality here and there throughout the massage.)
  25. My thoughts on this has evolved through the years as I have gotten older (and have a higher income.) Back in my 20s, I did triathlons a lot and preferred to get a massage a day or two after competition as a treat for myself. My salary was not 6 figures yet and living in NYC, I definitely budgeted (I could only afford massages that cost less than $120.) Out of all the massages I had back then, only one masseur tried the upsell and I declined since I knew I can finish by using my own hand within 20-30 seconds. Also back then, I was completely happy with just the massage alone, with or without the HE. Nowadays I'm older and live more comfortably. If I really liked the masseur's technique and he gave me extras... then I'd generously tip. I'll admit though this rarely happens to me since I can normally finish within 2-3 mins at the end of the massage from the masseur's hand alone.
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