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i think it's still possible to be sexually attracted to someone in their late 60s/70s/80s. I know for myself, I hooked up with a guy 15 years ago when he was 45. He's now 60 and I recently hooked up with him again a few months ago and it was great. Even though both of us have aged, I still picture him the way I first met him when he was age 45.

I went to one over a decade ago. It was an Alaska cruise and overall had a great time. I ended up going with a friend as my roommate so I myself have not paid for the single supplement. We did meet other folks who had roomed with a random stranger and had negative experiences (i.e. drug use, snoring, poor hygiene, etc.)

It can make or break your gay cruise experience. If you can afford it, I'd pay the extra fee and get a single room. If you do share a room with a random stranger, communicate with him your expectations/boundaries to help prevent issues.

Thank you for this! I'm a fan (have attended 3 of her concerts) and will check this out.

Yup I bought a parterre ticket just to see/listen/watch his debut this past spring! It was amazing! So glad I was there!

I recently watched the movie "Always Us Strangers" starring Andrew Scott, Paul Mescal, Claire Foy, and Jamie Bell and recommend it. It's directed by Andrew Haigh and if you liked his previous work (Weekend, Looking) then you'll most likely like this one.

were you able to meet up with him?

For your gay friends, there's a shop in Tokyo Blue Eagle bar where I bought a few handfans for friends back home.

I liked the shop Sou Sou. Its flagship store is in Kyoto and there are some unique fashion items there that are very Japanese like tabi shoes, modernized kimono, yukata, etc. I also am a fan of the Japanese handfan. Though you can get them for free there with the ads but there are some nicer ones in stores.

I went to Brazil back in July and had a great time. I plan to go back this fall and heard starting Oct 1st, 2023 Brazil will require a visitor/tourist visa again for US passport holders.

I first heard of Taylor Swift back in 2009 when I was in my 20s and simply connected with her songs. I'm not a diehard fan but would definitely go to her concert if I'm able to get a regular ticket. I missed out last Nov 2022 since I wasn't lucky enough to get a presale code.

I'm glad they had this here in NYC! It's a small exhibit but you get the idea and story. The Haggin museum in Stockton, CA has a larger collection. I visited back in 2018 and really enjoyed it and to this day still wear a longsleeve t-shirt showing the pitcher.

I think it may also depend on how big the bubble butt cheeks are. If htere are no butt cheeks, I'd think it's easier to hit the second hole even for the average penis.

I agree you won't succeed every time. Getting a read of the room will only come with experience. In a non-bar setting, some guys might think you're a creep depending on the way you hit on them. Just be self-aware.

Isn't the bank routing number and your account number listed on your check (paper)? I don't even remember the last time I used a paper check.

I recently watched Matt Cullen's interview of 2 female porn stars who work in brothels in Nevada where some charge $50k for a booking! WOW! https://youtu.be/rG76ET21g8c

Though to be fair, if his 2-hour rate is $250 and you're not getting a release, then I'd definitely find a new provider.

For $150 for 2 hours --- getting a therapeutic massage alone is great! Money speaks (to most people.) Offer him an extra $50-$100 and see if he'll give you a release. For 2 hour massages in my area, the rate is at least $200.

Are the lockers at Rio saunas a safe place to put your valuables (smartphone and cash)? Or is it advised not to bring smartphone and just bring enough cash when going there?

I still remember 20 years ago there was a hot shirtless guy walking along the march route with a sign FREE HUGS and omg... that was an amazing hug!!!

I prefer to hire certified masseurs first so I know I'm getting a legit massage. Through the years, I've come to appreciate the art of massage more and the curiosity aspect of what the masseur will do (my preference nowadays is a mix of strong massage technique and sensuality here and there throughout the massage.)

My thoughts on this has evolved through the years as I have gotten older (and have a higher income.) Back in my 20s, I did triathlons a lot and preferred to get a massage a day or two after competition as a treat for myself. My salary was not 6 figures yet and living in NYC, I definitely budgeted (I could only afford massages that cost less than $120.) Out of all the massages I had back then, only one masseur tried the upsell and I declined since I knew I can finish by using my own hand within 20-30 seconds. Also back then, I was completely happy with just the massage alone, with or without the HE. Nowadays I'm older and live more comfortably. If I really liked the masseur's technique and he gave me extras... then I'd generously tip. I'll admit though this rarely happens to me since I can normally finish within 2-3 mins at the end of the massage from the masseur's hand alone.

Have you seen it yet? I've seen it 3 times and each time I watch it I always learn something new.

If you're not picky, you can try hoteltonight app on the day of or day before. Most nyc hotels on there give heavy discounts as they try to unload any available inventory that day.

Never did the grandstand experience but looks fun! Then again, I've never seen the entire pride march in one sitting. I think the entire march is 6 hours long? Personally it depends what you like. If you just want to watch with a guaranteed seat w/shade, then this is a good idea. I don't go to pride march anymore but in the past, my friends and I would watch it, take a break, watch it again, grab lunch, watch it again, etc. What's fun is interacting with the other guys marching as some give out all these free rainbow stuff, etc.