Banned From RentMen Without Explanation?

[Papanutzz]

Has anyone else had issues with RentMen or RentMasseur’s webmaster?

I’m honestly confused and frustrated. My profile has been getting deleted since 2021, and I still have no idea why. My original account was removed years ago, and while I may have made a few beginner mistakes when I first started, nothing that should have resulted in being permanently removed.

Since then, every profile I’ve created has eventually been deleted. I’ve even tried using a face mask in my photos so my profile wouldn’t be immediately recognized, but it still gets removed. At this point, it feels like I’m unable to return to the platform no matter what I do.

I’ve contacted the webmaster multiple times through both RentMen and RentMasseur asking for an explanation, but I’ve never received a response. What’s frustrating is that I still see profiles with numerous complaints or obvious red flags remaining active, while my legitimate profile keeps getting removed without any communication.

I’ve spent money advertising on these sites over the years and have always tried to provide a real, professional service. The complete lack of transparency is disappointing.

Has anyone else experienced this? Does anyone know why this might happen? Also, if anyone has recommendations for other websites that work well in California for male escorts, go-go dancing, or companion work, I’d really appreciate it. Thanks.
 

I would add the multiple profiles but at this point it wouldn’t matter lol.

[maninsoma]

What were the "few beginner mistakes" you made when you first started?  

[Papanutzz]

Meaning a few lower rated reviews out of my more higher review due to not being able to stay erect or interested in the client etc nothing too crazy and not an all the time thing. Usually able to meet the mark & get called back all the time so a bit confused .  

[Nue2thegame]

Why don’t you present your profile here. 

[Papanutzz]

1 hour ago, Nue2thegame said:

Why don’t you present your profile here. 

How would I do that & it’s deleted haha it’s going to take you to a “this profile isn’t available page… “ I would’ve uploaded the links no problem.  I went by PapaNutz on there as well. My previous aliases don’t really matter just thick d & ready to preform. 

[DznNYC]

This is surprising to me, as I’ve found them to be pretty quick to respond and transparent.  

I had my photos appear on someone else’s photo gallery, and they responded right away and took care of it.  

I also had a photo removed from my gallery.  One of my favorite nudes of myself.  It’s landscape rather than portrait, so I added a border to make it the right shape for a profile pic.  It was immediately deleted.  I re-added it.  Immediately deleted again.  I messaged the admin, and he responded immediately.  Borders aren’t allowed oh RM photos.  So sad.  Instead I put it on X.   🤣 

I’m surprised and a little confused by your predicament.   Sorry you’re going through this.  I hope you get it sorted out soon!

[+ JamesB]

My guess is that the reason new profiles keep disappearing comes down to how modern listing platforms handle account security and ban enforcement. RMen and RMasseur, which share backend infrastructure and ownership, appear to have strict anti-ban-evasion measures. Once an account is permanently removed, creating a new one would typically violate the platform's TOS. Automated systems can use various signals, such as email addresses, IP addresses, device fingerprints, payment information, photos and other account patterns, to identify and remove duplicate or replacement accounts either immediately or during routine sweeps.

Listing platforms rarely respond to support tickets regarding banned accounts. This is usually due to automated support queues that auto-close tickets tied to blacklisted account, as well as strict legal/liability policies preventing staff from discussing internal moderation rules. .

[Nue2thegame]

50 minutes ago, Papanutzz said:

How would I do that & it’s deleted haha it’s going to take you to a “this profile isn’t available page… “ I would’ve uploaded the links no problem.  I went by PapaNutz on there as well. My previous aliases don’t really matter just thick d & ready to preform. 

Here’s an example:

I’m not sure what kind of response he got. 

[Papanutzz]

1 hour ago, DznNYC said:

This is surprising to me, as I’ve found them to be pretty quick to respond and transparent.  

I had my photos appear on someone else’s photo gallery, and they responded right away and took care of it.  

I also had a photo removed from my gallery.  One of my favorite nudes of myself.  It’s landscape rather than portrait, so I added a border to make it the right shape for a profile pic.  It was immediately deleted.  I re-added it.  Immediately deleted again.  I messaged the admin, and he responded immediately.  Borders aren’t allowed oh RM photos.  So sad.  Instead I put it on X.   🤣 

I’m surprised and a little confused by your predicament.   Sorry you’re going through this.  I hope you get it sorted out soon!

Yeah, it’s quite sickening. I’m not sure whether someone’s reporting me or if the admin just don’t like me but for me to make another account with the help of a buddy because figured my account was banned I have a mask on and you gotta go in and i’m still deleted?? I’ve tried everything email message. I haven’t contacted them on both websites of the webmaster. They read it and don’t respond. I don’t know what I did or what allegations are on my name but I promise you I’m a sweetheart with a black dick to be sold quite sucks to say the least. I’m not even sure how my original profile got deleted again no explanation I must’ve pissed a client off due to not meeting expectations idk? 

[Papanutzz]

1 hour ago, JamesB said:

My guess is that the reason new profiles keep disappearing comes down to how modern listing platforms handle account security and ban enforcement. RMen and RMasseur, which share backend infrastructure and ownership, appear to have strict anti-ban-evasion measures. Once an account is permanently removed, creating a new one would typically violate the platform's TOS. Automated systems can use various signals, such as email addresses, IP addresses, device fingerprints, payment information, photos and other account patterns, to identify and remove duplicate or replacement accounts either immediately or during routine sweeps.

Listing platforms rarely respond to support tickets regarding banned accounts. This is usually due to automated support queues that auto-close tickets tied to blacklisted account, as well as strict legal/liability policies preventing staff from discussing internal moderation rules. .

I understand that platforms need to protect themselves and enforce their policies, and I respect that. What I don’t understand is the complete lack of communication or any meaningful path to appeal.

If someone has invested a significant amount of money into the platform over the years and genuinely wants to come back, it seems like there should be some type of second-chance process. Why offer an undelete request if every request is denied without any explanation? At the very least, telling someone why they’re ineligible would provide some closure.

This business is built on relationships. Providers don’t always meet every client’s expectations, especially when requests involve different boundaries, preferences, or fetishes. That doesn’t automatically make someone a bad provider. I’ve always considered myself a professional who treated clients well, which is why this has been so surprising and frustrating.

What makes it even harder is knowing the amount of time and effort that went into building my profile. My original account was getting close to a million views when I first got into the industry, and by now each account probably would have surpassed that. That’s years of work, reputation, reviews, and visibility gone with no explanation and no real opportunity to make things right.

It’s also frustrating when it appears that some providers are able to have multiple accounts or continue using the platform while others seem to be permanently locked out. Maybe there’s an explanation for that that I don’t know, but from the outside it feels inconsistent. That’s what makes the whole situation so confusing.

At the end of the day, it’s less about disagreeing with the decision and more about wanting transparency, consistency, and a fair opportunity to appeal.

[+ PhileasFogg]

A couple of years ago, I was hosting Kaiden_Foxx at my home and I asked about why he’d deleted his profile.  He indicated he hadn’t.   When I showed him, he went into an emotional meltdown over being deplatformed.  Rumor had it that he’d done some things that caused payment charge backs against RM and i letter learned that this was one oftheir unpardonable sins.  He went to mintboys and maintained a marketing presence, albeit with reduced coverage and income. Ultimately, he did get restored to rentmen getting deplatformed again months later as a result of who knows what.

My suggestion - set yourself up on mintboys or make your own website and find a way to get your presence known.  Become an active oartpant here, put your web address in your signature and hope that you find a “word of mouth” following.  Technically, you don’t need a platform, you just need racing fan clients who will share your name…

Edited August 6 by PhileasFogg

[Papanutzz]

5 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

A couple of years ago, I was hosting Kaiden_Foxx at my home and I asked about why he’d deleted his profile.  He indicated he hadn’t.   When I showed him, he went into an emotional meltdown over being deplatformed.  Rumor had it that he’d done some things that caused payment charge backs against RM and i letter learned that this was one oftheir unpardonable sins.  He went to mintboys and maintained a marketing presence, albeit with reduced coverage and income. Ultimately, he did get restored to rentmen getting deplatformed again months later as a result of who knows what.

My suggestion - set yourself up on mintboys or make your own website and find a way to get your presence known.  Become an active oartpant here, put your web address in your signature and hope that you find a “word of mouth” following.  Technically, you don’t need a platform, you just need racing fan clients who will share your name…

Good advice thank you man. Yeah I hadn’t had any charge backs or anything. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

3 hours ago, Papanutzz said:

Good advice thank you man. Yeah I hadn’t had any charge backs or anything. 

At least that gives you a quick way that you May network your way to sone opportunity through forums etc 

[JB_Studio38]

On 8/5/2026 at 10:52 AM, Papanutzz said:

Meaning a few lower rated reviews out of my more higher review due to not being able to stay erect or interested in the client etc nothing too crazy and not an all the time thing. Usually able to meet the mark & get called back all the time so a bit confused .  

In these cases, was the fee received or returned? Or was there any sort of compromise made

[Papanutzz]

On 8/7/2026 at 9:16 PM, JB_Studio38 said:

In these cases, was the fee received or returned? Or was there any sort of compromise made

Yes it was returned. 

[+ JEC]

There may be a flag tied to your IP address, credit card, email and other identifiable data.  Try accessing with a VPN and set up an account.  You can get a rechargeable credit card at Walmart (and other locations).  Set up a different email address at Google.  If you start clean on all identifiable attributes....hard to believe they can connect your profile with prior ones.

[d.anders]

19 minutes ago, JEC said:

There may be a flag tied to your IP address

That's what I was thinking. You can try signing up from someone else's IP, and see if that sticks, but you won't be able to use your IP again to log into your account, unless you somehow get your IP changed. If the flag is attached to a credit card, username, and other details, then it gets more complicated. If the webmaster holds all the power, it's a tough spot to be in when they don't want to engage. There seem to be so many guys who thrive without being on RM. It's all about being seen. Figure out how to be creative and resourceful.

[ACluelessGent]

Device ID, wi-fi and location are also used to identify and block. I was blocked for years in grindr for being 'generous'. Tried every trick to bypass it with no success, until I had the bright idea to sign in via facebook. For some reason it worked... 😅

[nomad]

@Papanutzz create an X account and start tagging some other popular accounts to feed off their followers.  Just look at some accounts and see how they tag their posts.  X has become the free marketing of choice for many guys for OF and other platforms. Most use a linktr.ee for all their socials or just OF directly if they just want that only.  Users can openly DM about meeting up unlike on OF and IG.  

I know of several guys who are not on RM or similar sites that meet up with clients via their accounts.  Unlike IG, you can amass a good size following pretty quickly.  Especially if your showing lots of pics and short videos with 🍆 or other good clickbait content. 

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, nomad said:

@Papanutzz create an X account and start tagging some other popular accounts to feed off their followers.  Just look at some accounts and see how they tag their posts.  X has become the free marketing of choice for many guys for OF and other platforms. Most use a linktr.ee for all their socials or just OF directly if they just want that only.  Users can openly DM about meeting up unlike on OF and IG.  

I know of several guys who are not on RM or similar sites that meet up with clients via their accounts.  Unlike IG, you can amass a good size following pretty quickly.  Especially if your showing lots of pics and short videos with 🍆 or other good clickbait content. 

X is good for promoting but has become less effective in the past few years as the platform has become less usable. It shadow bans profiles. You need to spread your advertising around to avoid being over reliant on one platform just in case it takes a dislike to you and deletes or restricts your profile. 
I have an X page, Bluesky (better than X but smaller reach at present), instagram, RentMasseur (and some other advertising platforms but I only pay for the RM platform), Pornhub, onlyfans and Justforfans, and I contribute on platforms such as this. If you’re sufficiently active clients will find you. 

[nomad]

@Jamie21 have you ever spent any time on Reddit?  Curious if that is a platform you could use to advertise for SW and clients alike. Their audience is pretty big.  I have been on there but it's usually to search for specific information only.  Just curious if anyone has used it to find sw.  

[+ Jamie21]

3 hours ago, nomad said:

@Jamie21 have you ever spent any time on Reddit?  Curious if that is a platform you could use to advertise for SW and clients alike. Their audience is pretty big.  I have been on there but it's usually to search for specific information only.  Just curious if anyone has used it to find sw.  

That’s interesting you say it @nomad. I’ve browsed Reddit and am aware of it but haven’t engaged much with it. I’ve struggled with the navigation (I know that’s just a lack of familiarity thing) plus I don’t really want more platforms to manage! My editor / social media manager has suggested using it - mainly to drive subscribers to the Onlyfans and Justforfans rather than to find in person clients. I’ve left it to him to investigate that further. The challenge is the more platforms you have the more time it takes, not only to upload content but also to engage with followers etc. I pay my guy to do the uploading of content etc but I respond to messages on there myself so it’s definitely more work. 

[Mark_fl]

3 hours ago, nomad said:

@Jamie21 have you ever spent any time on Reddit?  

I'd not take seriously anyone who advertised in that cesspool. 

[+ Jamie21]

1 minute ago, Mark_fl said:

I'd not take seriously anyone who advertised in that cesspool. 

Oh! Is it that bad? 

[Mark_fl]

3 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Oh! Is it that bad? 

I think so. If you don't think exactly like the moderators, you will be blocked or suspended. It's a scary place.