Status Misrepresentation

[+ Pensant]

I assume that they’re probably not being honest so prepare accordingly.

[PileDriver]

exactly Pensant...own your own destiny

[+ PhileasFogg]

1 hour ago, PileDriver said:

in theory an easy one

Funny how human behavior conflicts with theory sometimes, right??? 🤪

[PileDriver]

PhileasFogg...exactly...human nature...on top of that sexual human nature...then add to that all the contrived moral crap...everyone take care of their own bodies please..no?

[TR1989]

Yes, we’re all responsible for our own health!

I started hiring masseurs just recently within the past 6-7 months. When I first started I was not on any type of medication. (In fact I’m such a newbie I didn’t even know there was so much advancement in medicine!)

The first masseur I ever went to could sense that I was a bit apprehensive. After our second session, this masseur (who has become a regular) gave me two doxycycline pills to take “for my peace of mind” and said to me just don’t drink dairy with it 😃. Talk about going above and beyond! I am forever grateful. 

I go to this one masseur and one other masseur on a regular basis. Both list “neg and on PreP” in their ads. I don’t have any reason to not believe them. 
 

I have since started taking PreP and have an Rx for doxy Pep; I’ve also been fully vaccinated (Covid, hep, Mpox). I get tested regularly. I’ve also disclosed my health info to my two regular masseurs. 
 

Having taken care of my health has helped me to feel more comfortable and to be more adventurous and to have more fun in our sessions. I also believe that it has helped the two masseurs to feel more comfortable with me and to help me explore more as well. Our sessions have only gotten better!

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

#4. I assume every man I hire is sexually popular enough to have had intercourse with at least one other person since his most recent tests. Therefore, he could be positive and transmissible by now, even if he was negative at his last test and just doesn't know it yet. I take the meds/safety precautions I desire to take care of MY health during our time together, assuming each man could be unknowingly positive and/or transmissible.

[+ Jamie21]

Don’t rely on others assurances. Your health is your responsibility. @TR1989 said it well. I agree with him. You should take all the precautions you need to give yourself sufficient peace of mind to enjoy yourself.

By all means ask your masseur or escort about his status. I like it when clients ask me because it shows they take sexual health seriously. It’s probably better though if they ask before the session…. I had a client this week who messaged me after the session asking my status because I’d topped him bareback. I told him all negative and the date of my most recent test but it’s a bit late to ask afterwards isn’t it! 

[jonasfoleson]

On 6/29/2026 at 5:53 PM, la_connor said:

HIV status should be removed from the ads.

Demanding health info as a condition of employment is coercive.

I disagree. Who is being employed l? They are contractors by definition. And peoples sexual health matters. It’s normal and should be in countries where prostitution is legal. 

[jonasfoleson]

On 6/29/2026 at 2:35 PM, MscleLovr said:

I think that in life in general it’s good to trust everyone.

I expect people I socialise with to be friendly and kind.

I hope that strangers I meet will be decent people and behave well.

All that said, I don’t trust advertising and marketing claims. And I look after my own sexual health, regardless of what others may say. 

Trust is earned. And blind trust is foolish