Do you clean off before dipping another?

[nomad]

In a group, do you wipe yourself off before topping someone else or do you double/triple/etc dip?  Or clean off before someone else  blows you after you have been inside someone else?  Only taken part in 3sm where a bottom was shared.  Am I being too hygienic and this will be a mood killer? 

[+ PhileasFogg]

Personally, I don’t think you are being too hygienic.  I’m amazed at the number of guys who pull me out and then start sucking.   I definitely don’t want a kiss after that.  There was a recent post here about the spread of shigella that taught me something 

 

Edited 6 hours ago by PhileasFogg

[+ Jamie21]

No, it’s not practical. I’ve been in large group sex sessions, it just doesn’t happen because people just go from one hole to another. I’m more careful with sucking in those situations though. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

38 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

I’m amazed at the number of guys who pull me out and then start sucking.

When I was an inexperienced bottom, I would cringe at the thought of sucking someone's dick that freshly came out of my ass.  But now that I'm an experienced genuine slut, I find it hypocritical to refuse to suck a dick that was just in my ass if the guy first went to town eating my ass as foreplay! 

23 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

I’ve been in large group sex sessions, it just doesn’t happen because people just go from one hole to another.

In a 3-or-more-some, I'm so mentally wrapped up in the experience that I don't have time to inspect every dick every time before it's shoved in my hole.

24 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

I’m more careful with sucking in those situations though. 

#MeToo.  A gang-bang is less intimate than a 1-on-1 session that begins with rimming.  Therefore, I'm inclined not to suck on a dick that's already been in an ass that session, whether someone else's or mine.  Even us sluts have standards.

[PileDriver]

i eat ass and double dip and more but now that I use Doxy Prep AND per my doctor use a mouth rinse and gargle with a peroxide based solution between asses (unless they are side by side 🤷🏻‍♂️)....hardly perfect...AND do all this on a limited basis...have never had a medical issue...it's not a perfect world but i've made it this far...abstinence is not for me but cautious debauchery works...talk to your doctor...and I know a few infamous cumpdumps who take hundreds of loads a year and go down on thousands of cocks...anecdotally they tell me they are surprisingly clean on infections so..AND describe the group? A group of trusted fuckbuds (in my case mostly) or a room full of drugged and drunk strangers at a holiday destination..which can be hot...risk management I guess is what you are asking about? zero risk is zero sex unless you use a condom and sorry but, for oral sex, rather be abstinent...and so..long winded

[+ PhileasFogg]

32 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

I find it hypocritical to refuse to suck a dick that was just in my ass if the guy first went to town eating my ass as foreplay!

Aren’t we mixing two different questions — personal comfort/turn-ons and hygiene risk?

You may feel it’s hypocritical in your own sexual context, and that’s fair as a personal preference. But the OP’s question was really about hygiene and whether cleaning off between partners is reasonable. Those are different issues.

Eating ass, moving from ass to mouth, and moving between partners all carry different risk profiles. People can decide what level of risk they’re comfortable with, but I don’t think wanting to reduce exposure makes someone “too hygienic” or a mood killer.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

The Lodge in NYC provides a handy self-serve dick-washing station to clean off between holes, and also some mouthwash.  Most men there take advantage of it, including myself when I top.

Edited 4 hours ago by Vegas_Millennial

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Even if I'm the bottom in a threesome, I keep wet wipes at hand so dicks can easily be wiped off between asses or going from ass to mouth. It's not remotely a mood killer. I've been to a few sex parties, and it's very common to see guys just kneel in front of someone and start sucking their dick. After I watched many of them top other guys, there was no chance I was going to just blow them.  I did notice some guys going and washing themselves between partners but it didn't seem consistent. I work in infectious disease and have no desire to end up deathly ill from a GI STI. 

[PileDriver]

Yes,The Lodge does a great job...AND folks I live in NYC and every day I take risks...for me there are rewards to that risk taking...so I think of sexual risk in the context of broader risk taking. personal and informed judgement matters. and also not interested in puritanical thought because it is 2026 and there is information out there and there are doctors who can advice and help you out and gay medical clinics and so on...don't rely on this forum alone...my doctor is gay, my urologist is gay, my allergist is gay and I am open to them about everything

[Nue2thegame]

1 hour ago, PileDriver said:

i eat ass and double dip and more but now that I use Doxy Prep AND per my doctor use a mouth rinse and gargle with a peroxide based solution between asses (unless they are side by side 🤷🏻‍♂️)....hardly perfect...AND do all this on a limited basis...have never had a medical issue...it's not a perfect world but i've made it this far...abstinence is not for me but cautious debauchery works...talk to your doctor...and I know a few infamous cumpdumps who take hundreds of loads a year and go down on thousands of cocks...anecdotally they tell me they are surprisingly clean on infections so..AND describe the group? A group of trusted fuckbuds (in my case mostly) or a room full of drugged and drunk strangers at a holiday destination..which can be hot...risk management I guess is what you are asking about? zero risk is zero sex unless you use a condom and sorry but, for oral sex, rather be abstinent...and so..long winded

“Cautious Debauchery” - I’m far too vanilla for this discussion but that’s a fascinating concept for me. 

[nomad]

I use Doxy. My doctor reminds me it protects against bacterial diseases not other stds.  She's jabbed me with all the sexually related vaxs.  I'm all for it.  

Only 2 of 5 of the group are known to me.  Everyone is vers depending on their mood and connection to others in the moment.  

[+ PhileasFogg]

48 minutes ago, nomad said:

I use Doxy. My doctor reminds me it protects against bacterial diseases not other stds.

Doxy is also not highly effective against gonorrhea which is bacterial  

https://www.cdc.gov/sti/prevention/doxy-pep.html

Edited 2 hours ago by PhileasFogg

[nomad]

Yes, like a things, it helps but there's no 100% protection other than 100% abstinence.  Even the monks aren't great at that.  

[+ PhileasFogg]

5 minutes ago, nomad said:

Yes, like a things, it helps but there's no 100% protection other than 100% abstinence.  Even the monks aren't great at that.  

I agree…and for the record, I never suggested abstinence.

I’m simply noting that Doxy is NOT effective against the bacteria causing Gonorrhea.  

A fact that I’m surprised many are unaware of in planning their testing frequency 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

51 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

I’m simply noting that Doxy is NOT effective against the bacteria causing Gonorrhea.  

I usually try to absorb plenty of alcohol before wild sex parties, as I believe alcohol kills germs.  I'm just thinking about my own health.

[nomad]

51 minutes ago, PhileasFogg said:

I agree…and for the record, I never suggested abstinence.

I wasn't suggesting otherwise.😆

There is a growing problem with drug resistance the more antibiotics are used. We should take just as much care with our testing as the guys do.