Twink escorts upper ages

[jonasfoleson]

I'm 39. I prefer seeing twink escorts since I hate body hair and like girly/fem men. I also dislike muscles and prefer leaner frames. Whilst escorting is about paid work and far less choice than going on Grindr or Feeld, does it freak twink escorts out if they get guys nearly double their age? It's just what I like, and what I'm attracted to. I don't get to meet many twinks out and about and most porn I see is twink porn like Foxy Angel and Preston Andrews (I think the latter retired incidentally). 

[BigK]

To my thinking, it’s fine when a twink graduates to becoming more of a lean athletic type.  I similarly like the smoother bodies and not a lot of muscles, but I am fine with them aging into nice hard bodies.

[ACluelessGent]

We like the same. Unfortunately I am older than you. I have 2 or 3 regulars, all under 25. They don't seem to mind and they are not even typical escorts. They are not in rentmen or hunqz, but of course they get paid.

[+ PhileasFogg]

I took three to St John a couple weeks ago.  Their combined age was 5 yrs more than my 63 yrs

I’m with youngest one of those guys right now in Santa Monica and I’m more that 3x his age.

Age is a number.  So many other factors weigh into the chemistry and vibe.   I am healthy, in good shape, energetic…and I treat them as partners in our travels and not chattel 

Edited June 6 by PhileasFogg

[+ Pensant]

I’m older than @PhileasFogg and I regularly see two twinks, 25 and 23. They think I’m in my early 50s lol. Any sense of age difference is utterly absent.

[ACluelessGent]

11 minutes ago, Pensant said:

I’m older than @PhileasFogg and I regularly see two twinks, 25 and 23. They think I’m in my early 50s lol. Any sense of age difference is utterly absent.

In a moment of candor, after a few gts, I revealed my age and he couldn't believe it (or pretended so).

[SecretProvider]

A significant number of twinks are attracted to older men, and these relationships are often characterized by mutual attraction and reciprocal benefit.  As long as they are of age - I don't think you should be worried or concerned at all.  Go for what you enjoy!  

[Nue2thegame]

On 6/6/2026 at 3:56 AM, PhileasFogg said:

I took three to St John a couple weeks ago.  Their combined age was 5 yrs more than my 63 yrs

I’m with youngest one of those guys right now in Santa Monica and I’m more that 3x his age.

Age is a number.  So many other factors weigh into the chemistry and vibe.   I am healthy, in good shape, energetic…and I treat them as partners in our travels and not chattel 

Just doing the math here. 
Be careful, my friend…….

[+ PhileasFogg]

3 hours ago, Nue2thegame said:

Just doing the math here. 
Be careful, my friend…….

I’m not sure what you mean,   But if younger guys can’t keep up with me, they can tap out 😅😉🤣

[soloyo215]

On 6/5/2026 at 2:55 PM, jonasfoleson said:

I'm 39. I prefer seeing twink escorts since I hate body hair and like girly/fem men. I also dislike muscles and prefer leaner frames. Whilst escorting is about paid work and far less choice than going on Grindr or Feeld, does it freak twink escorts out if they get guys nearly double their age? It's just what I like, and what I'm attracted to. I don't get to meet many twinks out and about and most porn I see is twink porn like Foxy Angel and Preston Andrews (I think the latter retired incidentally). 

A good escort doesn't care about age.

39 is old?

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I don't see any issue with a 39-year-old who is into twinks. My husband and I are older than you, and whether it's online or in person, we are usually besieged by twinks. 

[jonasfoleson]

3 hours ago, soloyo215 said:

A good escort doesn't care about age.

39 is old?

It's not old, no. but then not sure many guys in their early 20s normally look for guys nearly double their age in their normal sex lives. saying it's "common" is probably only true in very hyper-liberal spaces, and it's like cis people. Few cis guys or girls in their early 20s date men/women nearly 40. Paid sex is different to normal sex, but then i'm genuinely interested if they mind or not. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

8 minutes ago, jonasfoleson said:

It's not old, no. but then not sure many guys in their early 20s normally look for guys nearly double their age in their normal sex lives. saying it's "common" is probably only true in very hyper-liberal spaces, and it's like cis people. Few cis guys or girls in their early 20s date men/women nearly 40. Paid sex is different to normal sex, but then i'm genuinely interested if they mind or not. 

It depends.  I have better experience with guys who are sober, intelligent, and mature.  I don’t think a “look at me” narcissist who is drawn to the drug/club scene will be happy or drawn to someone much older unless there’s an “arrangement” involved.  

[ACluelessGent]

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

It depends.  I have better experience with guys who are sober, intelligent, and mature.  I don’t think a “look at me” narcissist who is drawn to the drug/club scene will be happy or drawn to someone much older unless there’s an “arrangement” involved.  

I find sober, intelligent and mature, rather boring. A look at me narcissist is far more exciting. And of course there is an arrangement. I amy be wrong... 

[jonasfoleson]

1 hour ago, PhileasFogg said:

It depends.  I have better experience with guys who are sober, intelligent, and mature.  I don’t think a “look at me” narcissist who is drawn to the drug/club scene will be happy or drawn to someone much older unless there’s an “arrangement” involved.  

Still pc liberal bs. standards exist. 

[+ FrankR]

28 minutes ago, jonasfoleson said:

Still pc liberal bs. standards exist. 

What are you talking about? Your preference for twinks does not put you into a marginalized group and no activists, academics or institutions are speaking up about it. Nobody is labeling you because of it.   Is it against social norms and could you draw looks from others because you are hanging out with twinks? Sure. No different from an older person dating a much younger person.  Nothing pc or liberal about it. 

[jonasfoleson]

45 minutes ago, FrankR said:

What are you talking about? Your preference for twinks does not put you into a marginalized group and no activists, academics or institutions are speaking up about it. Nobody is labeling you because of it.   Is it against social norms and could you draw looks from others because you are hanging out with twinks? Sure. No different from an older person dating a much younger person.  Nothing pc or liberal about it. 

waffle. and unrelated to his point.

Edited June 7 by jonasfoleson

[soloyo215]

12 hours ago, jonasfoleson said:

It's not old, no. but then not sure many guys in their early 20s normally look for guys nearly double their age in their normal sex lives. saying it's "common" is probably only true in very hyper-liberal spaces, and it's like cis people. Few cis guys or girls in their early 20s date men/women nearly 40. Paid sex is different to normal sex, but then i'm genuinely interested if they mind or not. 

I understand. Same answer, though. A good escort doesn't care much about age.

[+ Just Chuck]

18 hours ago, jonasfoleson said:

It's not old, no. but then not sure many guys in their early 20s normally look for guys nearly double their age in their normal sex lives. saying it's "common" is probably only true in very hyper-liberal spaces, and it's like cis people. Few cis guys or girls in their early 20s date men/women nearly 40. Paid sex is different to normal sex, but then i'm genuinely interested if they mind or not. 

Well into my fifties, and outside of any sort of business arrangement, I’ve had young men in their early twenties hit on me online and had those turn into successful meetups.  The young guys who are into older guys really are out there.

I read a piece several years ago written by a woman that worked in one of Nevada’s legal brothels.  She said that learning to be turned on by her own body by masturbating around mirrors a lot and having mirrors in the room where she entertained clients was a key for her to enjoying sessions with a lot of men who she otherwise wouldn’t be attracted to.  

Outside of paid arrangements, I’ve had great sex encoutners with people who I liked and connected with but wasn’t physically attracted to.  

[+ PhileasFogg]

8 hours ago, Just Chuck said:

I’ve had young men in their early twenties hit on me o

I have a lovely regular meeting with a guy I met online.  He’s 20.  He said up front that he’d never accept anything from me.  I made him accept a birthday gift a few months ago though - a camera he wanted.  It’s just the mutuality of the situation.  

[Rayphactor]

Oh man. I had his same question when I started hiring. I seek out the twink/twunk/college-age men; It's part of my escape from reality and opportunity to live in the the 'what if' fantasy land of the thoughts in my head from a college experience. I'm in my 50's and just started hiring 10 years ago. So far, only two providers seemed to have an issue with my age. 

[DMonDude]

I'm around your age and i haven't had a problem with the college/just out of college aged guys. From what i can tell, a lot of them are actually very much used to guys older than us that are in their 40s, 50s, 60s and up. That's the sugar daddy age range, they have the real funds the younger providers get into this for. But I've found that a client who is big bro or uncle (or unc as the youth call us now) age is a nice change of pace for them personally.

On 6/7/2026 at 9:41 AM, jonasfoleson said:

Still pc liberal bs. standards exist. 

If anything will put them off, it's talking to them like this. No one finds this hot. As the Gen Zers say now from some meme, "buddy, you're scaring the hoes!" 🫢🫣

Edited Tuesday at 03:04 AM by DMonDude

[nomad]

Haven't encountered any hesitation.  A few have asked for pic before mtg.  All have said how handsome I look (its the Benjamins talking I'm sure 😆).  Definitely look younger than my age.   None have shown any hesitation to kiss, suck or fuck or be seen with me in a public space afterwards.  Haven't really encountered any in a rush to leave once the fun has peaked.