Trending Towards Oral Only

[GymGuy]

Over the last year or so I am finding myself hiring providers more for oral service, often 69 to mutual completion, rather than anal sex.  With me this trend began with a couple of RentMasseur providers giving excellent oral HE's at or near the end of the massage session.  Curious if many clients out there hire only for oral and if you providers have oral-only clients.

[Mark_fl]

Sign me up for this! Im not interested in anal at all. But what I've found (not that it's surprising for masseurs) is that if they do oral, it's pretty reluctantly,  so I think I'm going to try and tactfully see if it's part of their service.

As a matter of fact, one offered it on my first visit, maybe to get me to return, and it clearly wasn't something he was going to do when I came back.  When I texted him before considering a third visit, and very tastefully asked if it was something he was comfortable doing, and telling him either way I enjoyed his massage and wished him the best. He didn't even respond.

[acks0104]

I'm more of a side as well! Not everyone is into anal all the time and it makes hiring easier sometimes

[Danny-Darko]

I do hire for oral.  Body worship and with the right person I like to put my mouth EVERYWHERE! 😛 

[GymGuy]

1 hour ago, Mark_fl said:

Sign me up for this! Im not interested in anal at all. But what I've found (not that it's surprising for masseurs) is that if they do oral, it's pretty reluctantly,  so I think I'm going to try and tactfully see if it's part of their service.

As a matter of fact, one offered it on my first visit, maybe to get me to return, and it clearly wasn't something he was going to do when I came back.  When I texted him before considering a third visit, and very tastefully asked if it was something he was comfortable doing, and telling him either way I enjoyed his massage and wished him the best. He didn't even respond.

Interesting.  The ones that have given it to me were RentMasseur guys who visit the DC area every few months and each had several "private" pics available on their ads.  In each case I did not request an oral HE.  They just provided one.  In scheduling the session I told them I wanted a highly sensual-erotic full-body session and they usually quoted fees ranging from $275 - $350 for 60min, the latter clearly being in the range of full escort fee.  A number of the RentMasseur guys also advertise on RentMen.  I've had four sessions with the same guy over the last six months, each time I never had to ask but always paid him $300.  Two sessions with another guy in the last 3 months who gave me one of the best ever erotic body massages (lot of butt attention) and in all of the "nice areas" with some edging before the grand finale--all for $350.  Both of these guys used very good tables rather than a bed, but clearly in the gray area between a sensual massage and escort service.

[BuffaloKyle]

I find myself enjoying oral only play more and more as I get older so you're not alone.

[liubit]

I am basically a side myself. What I truly enjoy sexually is kissing forever, licking absolutely everywhere -particularly armpits and feet-, mutual cock sucking, and long wet rimming -whether reciprocated or not-. That is what I look forward to when hiring or hooking up for free. 

However, once in a blue moon (or more frequently if I am in a slutty mood 😈), I do engage in anal sex. There, I am totally versatile: I equally enjoy both topping and bottoming. No preference.  

I love sex. 

[Aaron 90]

23 minutes ago, liubit said:

I am basically a side myself. What I truly enjoy sexually is kissing forever, licking absolutely everywhere -particularly armpits and feet-, mutual cock sucking, and long wet rimming -whether reciprocated or not-. That is what I look forward to when hiring or hooking up for free. 

However, once in a blue moon (or more frequently if I am in a slutty mood 😈), I do engage in anal sex. There, I am totally versatile: I equally enjoy both topping and bottoming. No preference.  

I love sex. 

Im similar.  I could book an entire session just for kissing, armpits, rimming, and a  large cumshot 😋 lol

[jackcali]

I'm mostly a side these days, too, and hire escorts accordingly.  Not that I don't like anal.  In my fantasy life I top and bottom until the cows come home.  However, at my age and diminished health, effectively topping is difficult even with pharmaceutical and mechanical intervention and I always liked the idea of bottoming more than the reality of it -- too much preparation and physical discomfort to enjoy it often.  I've never had an escort turn me down for a side-activities-only session.  In the moment, some escorts express a desire to go further (one way or the other), but turning them down hasn't affected the quality of the session.

Edited March 29 by jackcali

[ShortCutie7]

The vast majority of my escort encounters (in only about 2 years of hiring) and hookups in general (in about 14 years of hooking up albeit rarely) have been oral only. In fact, the best oral service I ever got was from an escort who designates himself as a total top.

[Whoisyourdaddy]

Giving fellatio (and cunniliguous) are the only things I like doing sexually. You would be surprised by the number of providers who refuse to only receive. I suspect it has to do with the pressure of cumming. However, even after I tell them there's no pressure in cumming, they still don't like the idea. It seems odd to turn down significant money just to lie there, but it is what it is.

I also suspect most of them are being asked to please the client, not the reverse.

[Nightowl]

I don’t hire specifically for oral but I love both giving and receiving, though no one has yet brought me to completion with his oral skills.  Mutual completion, with swallowing, is one of my fantasies.

[GymGuy]

1 hour ago, Nightowl said:

I don’t hire specifically for oral but I love both giving and receiving, though no one has yet brought me to completion with his oral skills.  Mutual completion, with swallowing, is one of my fantasies.

That was one of my earlier sexual experiences.  Then in the last couple/three years it is often my preference, especially when provided as the grand finale of a highly sensual-erotic massage session.  Btw, several here have used the term "side."  Forgive my apparent wonderment, but I take it that being a "side" is slang for 69 or preferring oral?

Edited March 30 by GymGuy

[ShortCutie7]

25 minutes ago, GymGuy said:

That was one of my earlier sexual experiences.  Then in the last couple/three years it is often my preference, especially when provided as the grand finale of a highly sensual-erotic massage session.  Btw, several here have used the term "side."  Forgive my apparent wonderment, but I take it that being a "side" is slang for 69 or preferring oral?

A “side” is a person who prefers oral only to anal activities (it’s a position like top, bottom, or vers).

[Mark_fl]

8 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

A “side” is a person who prefers oral only to anal activities (it’s a position like top, bottom, or vers).

That's great! I never knew I had a name before. I feel so welcomed 😌!

[+ Pensant]

I’ve had many a torrid session with just oral and role play. 

[Nue2thegame]

14 hours ago, ShortCutie7 said:

A “side” is a person who prefers oral only to anal activities (it’s a position like top, bottom, or vers).

New meaning (to me) of “side job” and “asside “!

Edited March 30 by Nue2thegame

[jackcali]

19 hours ago, Nightowl said:

I don’t hire specifically for oral but I love both giving and receiving, though no one has yet brought me to completion with his oral skills.  Mutual completion, with swallowing, is one of my fantasies.

Jeez, that was pretty much every night during my junior year in boarding school.  

[MikeBiDude]

“Side” can be much more than just oral. It really just defines as “non penetrative” sex. I for one love frottage, and consider it “side” play.

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Side