iMessages-Read Receipts not turned on

[JockdudeP]

What do you think about escorts that use iMessage but don't allow potential clients to know whether they've received/read a message using It, even after communications are established.   

[ShortCutie7]

I’m not an escort, but I don’t have read receipts turned on for my personal iMessages- I think it’s an invasion of privacy to have them turned on, plus (for example) if I accidentally click on a message without reading it, it would look like I’m intentionally ignoring it.

[danteig]

I have them off because there’s people I don’t want to reply to…

[MikeBiDude]

Mine are always off…

[DMonDude]

Anyone who has Read Receipts off are people who like having peace and not having people who are socially needy pestering them about "omg why haven't you responded yet? I see you read my message!"

Read Receipts is one of the worst things that's ever happened to texting/messaging lol.

Edited Thursday at 06:49 AM by DMonDude

[MikeBiDude]

9 hours ago, DMonDude said:

Anyone who has Read Receipts off are people who like having peace

Not to mention frequent use of “do not disturb” feature.

[+ Act25]

The only person I've ever allowed to receive a read receipt from me was my boss (the owner of the company).  And I'm retired now so no one gets them.  None of their business. 

[TorontoTwunk]

I've never had mine on, as one user mentioned it's an invasion of privacy. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

Mine are only turned on for select people.  My view for the escorts is that they get a lot of texts.   What if they open one, don’t have time to reply…then you’re wondering why they’re not replying when in may simply be they have other pressing matters.

if we are in the middle of a trip where logistics matter, I may simply ask that they turn it on, or even in some cases, that they share location while we are traveling. 

[Mark_fl]

My feeling is that if you don't want escorts responding to other people when they're with you, give them time.

Assume they're on a weekend call and will get back to you when they can.

Truth of course, is that they're probably not, and could respond when they have a minute, but this isn't life or death.

If you need an answer timely, I'd suggest letting them know, and maybe they could find a way to respond.

[+ PhileasFogg]

18 hours ago, Mark_fl said:

My feeling is that if you don't want escorts responding to other people when they're with you, give them time.

Assume they're on a weekend call and will get back to you when they can.

Truth of course, is that they're probably not, and could respond when they have a minute, but this isn't life or death.

If you need an answer timely, I'd suggest letting them know, and maybe they could find a way to respond.

Even if they're not doing a weekend, I've seen with guys who get 50-75 messages/day - triage rules their responses.

The last guy I saw in New Orleans was visiting and - because quality providers in NOLA are scarce - he averaged two clients/day for a month.   

Between prep time, appointment time, and recovery time, that's a long day by itself...and then there's little things like eating and sleeping...triage.