Luv2play Posted January 27 Posted January 27 3 hours ago, DMonDude said: Yeah sure haha. He's Houston, Texas based i believe, but travels all around. I saw him in L.A., but as of this comment he's in Seattle. https://rent.men/Eleizertop He lists English as a language along with Spanish. + Vegas_Millennial, + Pensant, + SidewaysDM and 1 other 4
DMonDude Posted January 27 Posted January 27 8 minutes ago, Luv2play said: I can totally relate as that happened to me way back when. It was a hookup years before I started hiring but the guy had the proverbial dick of death. Unfortunately he didn’t know how to wield it and he rammed my second wall. The pain was excruciating. I jumped out of bed right then got dressed and left his house. Never saw him again. Man that sucks. Happens to the best of us. We go too big and then have to go home lol. Do you think you could handle that size now? Have you leveled up since then? I'm still not on that level. 4 minutes ago, Luv2play said: He lists English as a language along with Spanish. Unless he's suddenly become fluent in 4 months, i don't think he's telling the truth there.
Walt Posted January 27 Posted January 27 I'm confused as to why many of the posts are so discreet as to not reveal the names of who the worst providers actually were. peter831, + glutes, Loseer2 and 2 others 5
savantsav Posted January 27 Posted January 27 3 hours ago, Walt said: I'm confused as to why many of the posts are so discreet as to not reveal the names of who the worst providers actually were. Some of them might frequent the forum and get enraged if you make it that public. Flooding with DMs and threatening to release personal info. Loseer2, Austin Lewis, BeHappy and 1 other 4
+ Pensant Posted January 27 Posted January 27 10 hours ago, savantsav said: Some of them might frequent the forum and get enraged if you make it that public. Flooding with DMs and threatening to release personal info. Indeed! There was a case like that re a certain provider last year. Unonymous30xxx 1
Becket Posted January 27 Posted January 27 This is like the "Razzies," the list of worst movies that comes out after Oscar nominations. MassageCommunityMember, + SidewaysDM, + azdr0710 and 2 others 1 4
+ Nakedchi Posted January 27 Posted January 27 On 1/25/2026 at 12:09 PM, soloyo215 said: Last year I went to Oaxaca, Mexico, with the expectation that the place is like the cities in the coast or Mexico city. It turned out to be quite conservative and, though interesting in terms of culture, architecture and things to do, gay life seemed more like an afterthought. The availability of providers in the area was limited and not the best quality, especially in terms of safety. The experiences weren't terrible, but they were the least satisfying of the year. Guys I hired there were not the best providers. That's why many gays from Oaxaca City go to Zipolite for their holidays. It's one of the hottest gay travel destinations. + Italiano, + Pensant and soloyo215 3
DaddyPete Posted January 27 Posted January 27 On 1/25/2026 at 4:48 PM, VIdeo said: I was in Montreal and saw a provider online with a few good reviews so I reached out. We were suppose to meet at his place but when I got there he wasn’t there. He kept telling me he was on his way to wait for him. After 30 minutes he finally showed up, he kinda acted a bit odd. I should’ve trusted my instincts and left but I wasn’t thinking with the right head. We got in the elevator and he whipped out his dick, asked for the money. Stupid me gave it to him and we walked to an apartment he started pounding on the door asking to be let in. He went in first, I heard yelling so I just ran off out of there. Pretty sure he just wanted to run off with the money. I tired to leave a bad review to warn others but rentmen told me since I didn’t message him on there site I can’t leave a negative review 😏. That sounds like the provider I had in Montreal, who asked for more tip for his drug habit.
Milo Janus Posted January 28 Posted January 28 On 1/25/2026 at 11:51 PM, SirBillybob said: I watched two hot studs flip fcuk and only had time and choreographic creativity for one in the threelipede to blow me while railed. What's a threelipede? + glutes 1
+ SirBillybob Posted January 28 Posted January 28 (edited) 9 hours ago, Milo Janus said: What's a threelipede? This, truncated to 3 … tricede conga line with eventual variations. Edited January 28 by SirBillybob
Foreverfun Posted January 28 Posted January 28 Limited experience last year and the one disaster I had was with JakeofStateFarm from Tampa (name change since then to JakeLTyler. A total hustler who is not interactive nor provides any real service. Totally str8 even though advertises as gay. Learned my lesson the hard way. Total waste of time and money. + SidewaysDM 1
LostUpstate Posted January 28 Posted January 28 I only hired 2 providers last year. One was with Jae who goes by Massage Bliss by Jae on masseurfinder. He no longer has his profile on rentmasseur. His texting before the meeting was like a form letter- “Please state age, height and weight for table adjustment.” “Rate is $180, tipping is not included.” He kept making sure that I was going to tip in our messaging. I arrived on time for the incall, and he wasn’t very warm or welcoming. It was like a business transaction. When the session was over, he was busy texting on his phone and not engaged in conversation or any small talk, seemed completely disinterested. As I was walking out of his studio, it had been 35 minutes but I had paid for an hour. Wouldn’t recommend or repeat. + Vegas_Millennial and + SidewaysDM 1 1
Venite Posted January 28 Author Posted January 28 On 1/26/2026 at 7:46 PM, savantsav said: Some of them might frequent the forum and get enraged if you make it that public. Flooding with DMs and threatening to release personal info. Indeed. As the original creator of this thread, I assumed the thread would stay in "Questions about Hiring" (someone seems to have moved it to the Deli) and that people wouldn't necessarily name names often.... just describe their experiences. I guess i should have edited my intial post to include a "keep names anonymous unless really necessary" request.
TMB Posted January 29 Posted January 29 I really feel lucky in that I didn't have any really bad experiences. The "worst" was a second session with provider that I was really looking forward to that was just not fun and won't see again. A couple of providers that were disappointing. But that's it! + SidewaysDM 1
+ mature_guy Posted January 29 Posted January 29 (edited) On 1/25/2026 at 8:00 PM, savantsav said: Another one gave me a rate. Then when I showed up he started doing upselling "Kissing is extra" "bb is extra" "rimming is extra" "sucking you is extra". That was just awful. I had one of those as well. "The $300 is for my time....." Then proceeded to list the price for every activity. I told him I'd give him $150 to leave. He took it and was gone. Edited January 29 by mature_guy + DrownedBoy, + claym, + SidewaysDM and 3 others 2 1 1 2
Delter Posted January 29 Posted January 29 Yup, perhaps redacting names is a less permanently-punishing way for people to share their experiences. 21 hours ago, Venite said: Indeed. As the original creator of this thread, I assumed the thread would stay in "Questions about Hiring" (someone seems to have moved it to the Deli) and that people wouldn't necessarily name names often.... just describe their experiences. I guess i should have edited my intial post to include a "keep names anonymous unless really necessary" request.
+ PhileasFogg Posted January 29 Posted January 29 2 hours ago, Delter said: Yup, perhaps redacting names is a less permanently-punishing way for people to share their experiences. I named a couple and I left a couple unnamed. The ones I named were costly AND bad TMB, Venite and jusmeinbr 3
Venite Posted January 29 Author Posted January 29 I will share mine. It gets scatalogical *again* , but thankfully it wasn't as bad as the 2024 incident. A very sexy provider with a stunning face and a bubble butt was in town, so I made an appointment with him at his place, so I could top him. I made it to his apartment, and we started foreplay. He then wanted to sit on my face, which I love, so we did that. Let's just say that, with my tongue still inside of his hole, he shot out leftover douchewater. It was definitely purely accidental, as he was very apologetic about it. MassageCommunityMember, + PhileasFogg, + Vegas_Millennial and 5 others 1 1 5 1
soloyo215 Posted January 29 Posted January 29 On 1/27/2026 at 12:03 PM, Nakedchi said: That's why many gays from Oaxaca City go to Zipolite for their holidays. It's one of the hottest gay travel destinations. Yes, that was the only tour I was unable to take when I visited. Next April I'll be able to tell :-)
MassageCommunityMember Posted January 30 Posted January 30 About a year ago I booked someone same day - just a regular booking request - he accepted - but then when I got there, he seemed annoyed with me. I don’t know if it was the last minute aspect of it or maybe something else happened in the interim that didn’t have anything to do with me. When the therapeutic massage was over, I paid and he showed me the door by motioning to it. So it wasn’t getting a mouth full of douche water bad - just the worst of otherwise great massage experiences.
MeatPopcicle Posted January 31 Posted January 31 (edited) On 1/26/2026 at 4:10 PM, Luv2play said: I can totally relate as that happened to me way back when. It was a hookup years before I started hiring but the guy had the proverbial dick of death. Unfortunately he didn’t know how to wield it and he rammed my second wall. The pain was excruciating. I jumped out of bed right then got dressed and left his house. Never saw him again. I'm not super knowledgeable about butt stuff. What the heck is a "second wall?" Does that just mean you're tight and not relaxed enough for him to go past a certain point? Edited January 31 by MeatPopcicle Spelling mistake DMonDude and + azdr0710 2
DMonDude Posted January 31 Posted January 31 (edited) 1 hour ago, MeatPopcicle said: I'm not super knowledgeable about butt stuff. What the heck is a "second wall?" Does that just mean you're tight and not relaxed enough for him to go past a certain point? You pretty much got it, yeah. The "second wall" or "second hole" is actually the 90 degree right angle bend your rectum takes going to your sigmoid colon. What we perceive to be a tight second "hole" being entered is that 90 degree angle straightening out (due to the muscles around that area relaxing) as a long dick, arm, or other objects enter it. It's also why people refer to sex sometimes as "getting your guts re-arranged" lol. That is technically what is happening inside. Relaxing the "second hole" muscles requires a deeper relaxation because the muscles around that area are involuntary muscles, meaning you can't consciously control them like you can your anus/sphincter. Edited January 31 by DMonDude + Vegas_Millennial, thomas, Luv2play and 1 other 1 1 2
MeatPopcicle Posted January 31 Posted January 31 3 hours ago, DMonDude said: You pretty much got it, yeah. The "second wall" or "second hole" is actually the 90 degree right angle bend your rectum takes going to your sigmoid colon. What we perceive to be a tight second "hole" being entered is that 90 degree angle straightening out (due to the muscles around that area relaxing) as a long dick, arm, or other objects enter it. It's also why people refer to sex sometimes as "getting your guts re-arranged" lol. That is technically what is happening inside. Relaxing the "second hole" muscles requires a deeper relaxation because the muscles around that area are involuntary muscles, meaning you can't consciously control them like you can your anus/sphincter. Thanks for explaining it and oh my gosh 😵💫 TMB 1
TMB Posted January 31 Posted January 31 Yup! The first sphicter is relaxed you're not done. Once the second relaxes, THEN it's party time. But not before. 😩 + Vegas_Millennial and + mds1 1 1
Skylerdiamond Posted Tuesday at 07:34 AM Posted Tuesday at 07:34 AM (edited) On 1/25/2026 at 3:51 PM, PhileasFogg said: I prefer to focus on the 90%+ positive experiences - but I did have four that turned into very bad experiences: - After a couple of good trips, one from Oklahoma City (KaidenFoxx) lied and ghosted me before a big trip before coming clean weeks later (and then disappearing from the internet) - After three good trips, one from Chicago went histrionic because he didn't like the fact that I got along better with his boyfriend than him - I'll leave nameless out of respect for his boyfriend. - One in New Orleans (SkylerDiamond) proved completely unreliable on every dimension - communication, timely, honesty, etc - One in New Orleans proved very disappointing as we he fell off the detox wagon and reverted to addiction on his way to becoming like SkylerDiamond. Maturity, Intelligence, Sobriety - 2025 taught me what to focus on and it's AMAZING how elevated the experiences are! Please remember there are two sides to every story, and I’m more than willing to share mine if needed. This individual is a former client who became increasingly controlling and crossed personal boundaries. We met multiple times, and at one point he even had access to my location, which later made me uncomfortable due to how closely he monitored me. For my own safety and peace of mind, I chose to cut contact. His comment appears to come from resentment over those boundaries, not from an objective experience. I would appreciate this comment being removed, as it feels retaliatory and inappropriate Edited Tuesday at 07:37 AM by Skylerdiamond Font size was weird
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