Threesome Protocol

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’ve arranged 4 threesome’s in recent months.  Most notable being recent experiences with cuteblondeboy/FTM_AngelGabe and last weekend with Roman_Speers/AshtenSky.

I once had a regular indicate he’d prefer not to participate in a threesome  His reason was that, whereas in an orgy he could tap out if he needed a break, in a threesome he felt he needed to stay engaged.  Silly me, I never considered that   

But, while in my 60’s, my catholic school upbringing has still left me somewhat naive in certain things.

So, I’m curious - should a threesome be a completely “go with the flow” exercise, or are there certain techniques/routines that keep everyone engaged and satisfied?

Please share your favorite examples if you have any.  

[+ Just Chuck]

Often the two people with the most chemistry will start to focus on each other and it’s easy to leave someone out.  There are some tricks to make sure that everyone is getting plenty of attention throughout.  One that I’ve used: I set an interval timer for the gym set to give a soft chime every so often (maybe 90 seconds) and set the “ground rules” every time that my phone chimes, we switch positions.”  It turned out to be a lot of fun and didn’t really feel forced at all.

On another note: I absolutely love trans men.  Please let me know how your experience with cuteblondeboy goes.  I thought that my work was going to take me to New Orleans earlier this year and was really excited that I might be able to meet him.

[+ PhileasFogg]

Cuteblondeboy is in LA.  We’ve met twice and have a third trip on schedule in Feb to Palm Springs.  He’s awesome!

AngelGabe is the TransMan and in NOLA.  We have our second meeting planned this weekend. He is well educated and worldly with an edge of sarcastic humor that matches my own. Looking forward to our Friday meeting. 🕺🏼

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Since my husband and I mostly hire together, we often have threesomes. I find that with any sex people occasionally need a break because they've been going too hard, or they're overwhelmed with stimulation. I don't see that to be an issue. If anything, it's an advantage of having more than two people. That said, depending on participants' preferences (who's a top, bottom, vers), I could see someone feeling pressured to perform throughout. But we usually try to assure the other guys that they're allowed ot take a break. 

[+ Just Chuck]

If you’re hiring the other two, you might set a ground rule that they don’t try to make you cum for the first 2/3rds (or something) of the appointment. Sitting out and feeling like taking a nap while the other two partners keep going at it would be fine for a group of three volunteers, but it would feel like a waste to be paying for.