Providers: how old is too old to hire?

[+ Brad in NYC]

To providers, I know this is a job. There’s a certain amount of performance involved, because you don’t find most clients attractive, but ….    
 

Can you share some feelings about client age? How old is too old to hire? At what point does it become really difficult to be into your work (with certain clients)?  Or are there attributes of age that are the driver vs just ‘a number’ ?

 

 

[+ Pensant]

I’ve rarely even been asked my age, and when I volunteer it they’re often shocked. 95% of them don’t care; rather they appreciate an upbeat personality, great hygiene and a nice net worth spreadsheet.

[+ Charlie]

A related question would be: How do you know when you are  too old to rent a provider? I stopped when I realized that I could no longer get hard even with a gorgeous hunk who was trying really hard to please me.

Edited August 27 by Charlie
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[+ ApexNomad]

4 minutes ago, Charlie said:

A related question would be: How old is too old to rent a provider? I stopped when I realized that I could no longer get hard even with a gorgeous hunk who was trying really hard to please me.

That’s going to vary a lot. “Too old” isn’t a number so much as it is about what you want out of the encounter. If the goal is penetrative sex, the body might set limits sooner. But if the goal is companionship, touch, conversation, or even one-way pleasure like a blowjob or massage, age really isn’t a disqualifier. It just depends on your objectives and what makes the experience meaningful for you.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

8 minutes ago, Charlie said:

A related question would be: How do you know when you are  too old to rent a provider? I stopped when I realized that I could no longer get hard even with a gorgeous hunk who was trying really hard to please me.

Maybe an obvious question but did you try viagra? 

[+ Charlie]

Just now, KensingtonHomo said:

Maybe an obvious question but did you try viagra? 

No. If I need a chemical stimulant to perform, I don't want to spend the money on the experience.

[+ Jamie21]

Nice replies here. There’s no age limit, it just depends how you feel. The right provider won’t care about your age. What matters most is your attitude. It also doesn’t matter if you don’t get hard. I’ve older clients who don’t get hard, some don’t cum (medical reasons) but they still have a great time. Everyone wants to feel special sometimes don’t they? The right provider will get off on making you feel special, that’s why they do the job. 

[DenverDad]

1 hour ago, Charlie said:

No. If I need a chemical stimulant to perform, I don't want to spend the money on the experience.

Other ways besides chemicals.  Cock rings, sonic treatments, pumping.

[+ DrownedBoy]

6 hours ago, Charlie said:

No. If I need a chemical stimulant to perform, I don't want to spend the money on the experience.

Plus Viagra doesn't make you horny, just hard. It's not the same.

I'll stop when my libido goes, or when strenuous activity makes it dangerous. Not that I'd mind going that way, but it would look bad in my obituary and might traumatize someone.

[Nightowl]

I’m on the older side, I still get horny, and my plumbing still works.  I haven’t yet had a provider refuse my business because of my age though I suppose it may happen someday.  If/when it does it will be his loss.

[Whippoorwill]

I’ll be 82 in a couple of months and I’m still raring to go. True, the body parts are wearing out and nothing works quite the way it used to. But, a couple of weeks between orgasms, a couple of viagra, a couple of a hundred dollars, and the right provider do the trick. I have always been a chicken hawk,  and today “chicken” for me is definitely someone over 30…or more…someone who has been around the block a couple of times, who understands they are not god’s gift to the world, who are skillful at what they do, who understand that they are in business and each of us have a role in the transaction. My role is to respect them and their work, to be flexible in setting up appointments as with any professional, to be clear on what I am buying, to pay the fee asked, to show up on time clean and prepared, to be complimentary as appropriate, to express gratitude for a service well rendered, to write positive reviews on their ad page and on COM, and to be a loyal repeat client. In the situations where it works best, I have become the old guncle who shares whatever wisdom I have gained in a long life and they share the excitement of youth and change. With the right person that goes beyond sagging tits and a limp dick. 

[pubic_assistance]

I have been caring for an elderly friend/former client for that last couple years. At 90 years old he was begging me to hire him an escort because he hadn't had sex for a few years since his heart attack and didnt want to die without having one last great shag!

Edited Saturday at 08:46 PM by pubic_assistance
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[Nightowl]

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I have been caring for an elderly friend/former client for that last couple years. At 90 years old he was begging me to hire him an escort because he hadn't had sex for a few years since his heart attack and didnt want to die without having one last great shag!

That’ll be me in a few decades.  

[Nikba]

Been seeing this much older gentleman in the past 4 years. He is a fantastic person, well maintain muscle, nice tool, with great energy and wonderful versatile guy. After two rounds with sweat and acrobatic moved, he wore me out every time.  

[+ purplekow]

22 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I have been caring for an elderly friend/former client for that last couple years. At 90 years old he was begging me to hire him an escort because he hadn't had sex for a few years since his heart attack and didnt want to die without having one last great shag!

I hope you obliged him with his request.  

[CuriousByNature]

Maybe the rule for bread should apply:  If it's moldy, it's too oldy.

[Johnrom]

It’s not about the age of the car, it’s whether the  tank is full of high octane fuel ⛽️ 🔥🙌😎