Lycrathong Posted April 27 Share Posted April 27 When I was 30s I dated guys my own age. As I got older I found I was attracted to younger and younger. Now it's more like Granddad/Grandson than Dad/Son. My record gap is 54 years (72/18). Obviously my partners have to be legal age and consenting, not a problem as it's usually them chasing me! thomas, MikeBiDude, Danny-Darko and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liubit Posted April 28 Share Posted April 28 (edited) I have never been attracted to guys my own age, always to younger. When I hire, my bracket is 18-25, 30 at the very most. Of course, I don’t card the guys, they can be older as long as they look the age I am looking for. In non-commercial hook-ups, I am more flexible, but usually not less than 10-15 years younger. Full disclosure: my current unpaid regular just turned 24, which means a 40-something year gap with yours truly. He is into daddies, and he is always horny as hell, pure dynamite in bed. We have great fun together. Edited April 28 by liubit + Pensant, thomas, spidir and 3 others 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welshman Posted April 28 Share Posted April 28 Coming from the depths of rural Wales, it is not easy to meet anyone at all (let along muscular) therefore when I made friends with a bodybuilder who lived in Suffolk, I took it. The fact that I was 33 and he was 60 had no bearing on the subject at all. I am still friends with him now, even more so since it was announced last year he is suffering from Alzheimer's + Just Sayin, newdad, + Pensant and 3 others 3 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
viewing ownly Posted April 28 Share Posted April 28 I love the younger of-age lot that on purpose enjoys the fun company of men much older than they are. Precious few will even spell it out in their ad that that is a turn-on for them, and even more rare, will exclusively see older guys. I'm glad that I didn't forever write off the 20-somethings, which I vowed to do after a disastrous hire of a 22 year old when I was in my mid-40s. The last man I saw with an age gap was 25 years my junior - I just think how hot it would be to be with him in over 10 years, since I found his maturity level to be well beyond his age. + Just Sayin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lycrathong Posted April 28 Author Share Posted April 28 My last boyfriend was 25 years younger than me (58/33) when we met. He was a straight-but-curious blond Swedish guy, for whom the term power bottom could have been created. Over 4 years of the most amazing love-making. liubit and + Just Sayin 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lycrathong Posted April 28 Author Share Posted April 28 When I've met masseurs/escorts I go for much younger (say 50+ years younger). One I particularly remember was a young Korean guy - about 28 but looking much younger as he was so skinny and smooth. We had a great session. + Just Sayin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaybeMaybeNot Posted April 28 Share Posted April 28 (edited) My partner is 18 years older than I. When I started having sex (at 32), I was so closeted, I wouldn't share pictures with anyone. So, it was always the older guys who took a chance to meet. They taught me a lot about sex and I developed an attraction for older guys. That is not to say that I don't enjoy guys my age and younger, but I really do have a thing for older guys. I love porn with older guys too--Dallas Steele, Matthew Figata, President Oaks, Lawson James, Ace Banner . . . Edited April 28 by MaybeMaybeNot + Just Sayin, liubit and thomas 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted April 28 Share Posted April 28 I have a regular good friend of 4+ years, I’m 68 he’s 23. Not a problem. He’s a bit unique (mature) for his age…he’s definitely attracted to older/mature. It does happen! liubit, MaybeMaybeNot, spidir and 3 others 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeWinkoReturns Posted April 29 Share Posted April 29 ME! I'm in my 20s. I perfer a man who's in his 40s 50s or 60s. 50s is my favoraite though (Gen X) which is old, but not old enough to be grumpy like some of the really old guys i've meet, although I absolutely would go with a guy in his 60s, 70s or 80s or even older than that if he was sweet/loving/nice ♥ Espescially if he was obsessive 🥰 but unlikely from a man that old... just as long as he's ALWAYS the bottom, which usually men that age are (another reason why I love older men) thomas, liubit, + Vegas_Millennial and 2 others 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOUNG_LA_DOM Posted April 29 Share Posted April 29 I myself love the older daddy types no matter what it’s just something that I love enjoy feels comforting to me and then I also love to have that power dynamic exchange MikeBiDude, + Just Sayin and liubit 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MscleLovr Posted April 29 Share Posted April 29 17 hours ago, MikeBiDude said: I’m 68 he’s 23. Not a problem….he’s definitely attracted to older/mature. It does happen! Agreed. When I dated ‘commercially’, it was always a handsome muscleboy, ideally aged (or looking as if) 23-30. And my long term boyfriends have all been that age when we first met. My current boyfriend is 40 years younger than me and we‘ve been together for 10 years. 8 hours ago, JoeWinkoReturns said: just as long as he's ALWAYS the bottom, which usually men that age are (another reason why I love older men) I know you said “usually” but I’ve ALWAYS been the top. And I love fit young men who bottom so readily for me. Another reason I love younger men is that I have a dominant streak. I found that many muscleboys have a submissive streak and enjoy giving pleasure to an older man. When between boyfriends, I often found that younger men initiated contact and approached me. liubit, MikeBiDude and thomas 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted April 29 Share Posted April 29 When I was in college I was attracted to college age guys. As I get older the distance between me and college-age guys increases...so the gap keeps getting bigger. Eventually I will go from "daddy" to "gramps". 🤪 Act25, liubit, thomas and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted April 29 Share Posted April 29 (edited) On 4/27/2024 at 5:32 AM, Lycrathong said: When I was 30s I dated guys my own age. As I got older I found I was attracted to younger and younger. Now it's more like Granddad/Grandson than Dad/Son. My record gap is 54 years (72/18). Obviously my partners have to be legal age and consenting, not a problem as it's usually them chasing me! You're not alone! One of the bests things about aging is more and more guys becoming younger. 33 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: When I was in college I was attracted to college age guys. As I get older the distance between me and college-age guys increases...so the gap keeps getting bigger. Eventually I will go from "daddy" to "gramps". 🤪 Same! Especially considering so many guys I found hot when they were in their 20's or low 30's simply stopped taking care of themselves or didn't age well. Edited April 29 by marylander1940 pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeWinkoReturns Posted May 5 Share Posted May 5 On 4/29/2024 at 9:09 AM, MscleLovr said: Agreed. When I dated ‘commercially’, it was always a handsome muscleboy, ideally aged (or looking as if) 23-30. And my long term boyfriends have all been that age when we first met. My current boyfriend is 40 years younger than me and we‘ve been together for 10 years. I know you said “usually” but I’ve ALWAYS been the top. And I love fit young men who bottom so readily for me. Another reason I love younger men is that I have a dominant streak. I found that many muscleboys have a submissive streak and enjoy giving pleasure to an older man. When between boyfriends, I often found that younger men initiated contact and approached me. the older bottom guy is still very powerful. ⛤ I'd imagine an older bottom guy would feel very surpreme if he had a younger total top who he can always orally copulate over & over & over again (me...) ⛤ thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Just Sayin Posted May 5 Share Posted May 5 (edited) I have been seeing a guy who is 39 years younger than me for the past 3+ years; I really enjoy my time with him and it seems to work for both of us; I especially appreciate our conversations and having insight into his life Edited May 5 by Just Sayin MaybeMaybeNot, thomas, Poppie and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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