Yes they may be out there but I at least have yet to find those escorts. Yes I find men that love me as I am at Bear Bars, but I'm not attracted to other bears or men that look like myself. Opposites Attract is my motto, but while they may be out there, usually they just grit their teeth and do their job and thinly veil their disgust which I clearly see, finish ASAP, grab their money and scram. It might be one of the reasons I opt for Body Worship with "straightish guys" and keep most of my clothes on! There is less disappointment with them.
Very interesting thread and very good feedback for all you guys. I'm glad I read it!