Clients and drug use

[Gilfson]

So I hosted a client yesterday and we start fooling around. I’ve seen this guy once before. And I told him my roomate was home so I’d appreciate it if we could keep the volume to a normal level and he agreed that was cool. So we start playing and he’s moaning so loud…. Like overly loud and I’m like reminding him to be quiet and he’s not really responding to what I’m saying.. then he falls asleep. Not once …. Not twice…. But 4 times. So I’m like dude did you take something. And he goes why and got an attitude. He ended up telling me he took g. Which is fine but he never told me he would be high for our session and honestly it turned me off… but why would you show up to an appointment high as a kite without asking if that was okay.

[mike carey]

How about, 'He has no respect for you'?

[marylander1940]

3 hours ago, Gilfson said:

So I hosted a client yesterday and we start fooling around. I’ve seen this guy once before. And I told him my roomate was home so I’d appreciate it if we could keep the volume to a normal level and he agreed that was cool. So we start playing and he’s moaning so loud…. Like overly loud and I’m like reminding him to be quiet and he’s not really responding to what I’m saying.. then he falls asleep. Not once …. Not twice…. But 4 times. So I’m like dude did you take something. And he goes why and got an attitude. He ended up telling me he took g. Which is fine but he never told me he would be high for our session and honestly it turned me off… but why would you show up to an appointment high as a kite without asking if that was okay.

PNP and escorting are an explosive combination, and it usually doesn't end well. 

 

[Gilfson]

30 minutes ago, marylander1940 said:

PNP and escorting are an explosive combination, and it usually doesn't end well. 

 

Which is exactly why I refuse to do drugs or drink in excess when I’m with clients. It’s not safe for me. And it doesnt turn me on

[Gilfson]

1 hour ago, mike carey said:

How about, 'He has no respect for you'?

I agree! I was ended things early cause I was so uncomfortable 

[d.anders]

11 hours ago, Gilfson said:

but why would you show up to an appointment high as a kite without asking if that was okay.

He's a selfish prick, and it's not OK. I hope you get an apology, at least. Unless you really like him in some way, he would qualify as a cancel for me.

[+ PhileasFogg]

8 hours ago, Gilfson said:

Which is exactly why I refuse to do drugs or drink in excess when I’m with clients. It’s not safe for me. And it doesnt turn me on

Good for you!  Professionalism = Prosperity. 

[Obsidian]

Situations like this are why I'd never host from my home.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Same thing happened to me - guy rolled a joint as soon as he came, insisted on smoking it on my balcony, and spent a good chunk of the session on his back on the floor (to clarify, that's not the position I wanted him in). A little sh!t.

Drug use among providers is very very common - among bodybuilders, steroids and other juice are pretty much certain. I've only had three (the one above, a meth user, and a roid rager) where the drugs actually caused problems during a session.

[mistermouthyla]

On 6/29/2025 at 3:35 PM, Gilfson said:

So I hosted a client yesterday and we start fooling around. I’ve seen this guy once before. And I told him my roomate was home so I’d appreciate it if we could keep the volume to a normal level and he agreed that was cool. So we start playing and he’s moaning so loud…. Like overly loud and I’m like reminding him to be quiet and he’s not really responding to what I’m saying.. then he falls asleep. Not once …. Not twice…. But 4 times. So I’m like dude did you take something. And he goes why and got an attitude. He ended up telling me he took g. Which is fine but he never told me he would be high for our session and honestly it turned me off… but why would you show up to an appointment high as a kite without asking if that was okay.

How else do you expect me to have sex with some a you ugly goons?!?! Sober!? Absolutely not girl. Lmao

[mistermouthyla]

On 6/29/2025 at 7:16 PM, marylander1940 said:

PNP and escorting are an explosive combination, and it usually doesn't end well. 

 

Yeah if someone could show me the map please with the destination being out of this train wreck hole i would xoxo 4ever

[marylander1940]

On 6/30/2025 at 6:24 PM, DrownedBoy said:

Same thing happened to me - guy rolled a joint as soon as he came, insisted on smoking it on my balcony, and spent a good chunk of the session on his back on the floor (to clarify, that's not the position I wanted him in). A little sh!t.

Drug use among providers is very very common - among bodybuilders, steroids and other juice are pretty much certain. I've only had three (the one above, a meth user, and a roid rager) where the drugs actually caused problems during a session.

Unfortunately name clients enable this kind of self-destructive behaviors 

[Nightowl]

As a client, I wouldn’t use drugs and wouldn’t want to meet my provider and find he was high either.  I want us both to be present for the experience.  If he showed up at my house stoned I’d send him away.  What @Gilfsonexperienced was rude on so many levels.

[Gilfson]

8 hours ago, mistermouthyla said:

How else do you expect me to have sex with some a you ugly goons?!?! Sober!? Absolutely not girl. Lmao

I mean he was the client I was the provider and I was sober lol I wouldn’t say I’m an ugly goon

[mike carey]

8 hours ago, mistermouthyla said:

How else do you expect me to have sex with some a you ugly goons?!?! Sober!? Absolutely not girl. Lmao

If ever you needed it, here is 'How to attract clients 101'. 

[soloyo215]

On 6/29/2025 at 6:35 PM, Gilfson said:

but why would you show up to an appointment high as a kite without asking if that was okay.

To some people the use of mood altering substances is part of the fun. I know of some who cannot feel comfortable having sex with another man without using alcohol or drugs for "courage". Sadly, providers are the ones who have to deal with that nonsense.

Not condoning him at all, he was quite disrespectful to you in many ways, one of them assuming that it's ok for him to get high without you knowing about it.

Sorry you went through that. At least he wasn't one of those who gets violent when drugged or drunk.

[+ PhileasFogg]

I don’t do drugs, but alcohol makes sex as much fun as trying to play pool with a rope 😂
 

[Thelatin]

I always thought G was just an occasional party type drug.  Sadly I have a friend that is completely addicted.  He can’t go 2 hours without a dose.  Hides it, denies it, has spent every last dime on it. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 7/3/2025 at 2:31 AM, mistermouthyla said:

How else do you expect me to have sex with some a you ugly goons?!?! Sober!? Absolutely not girl. Lmao

For those of you interested in hiring this eloquent young man, he claims to be this working man: 

 

 

Edited July 5 by Vegas_Millennial

[guru68]

4 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

For those of you interested in hiring this eloquent young man, he claims to be this working man: 

 

 

Honesty is the best policy - unless you're in the business of selling a fantasy, of course.

That said, I'm sure that statement scratches someone's kink. Not mine - as I've often said, I can generally get hot guys to treat me like dirt for free.

[italianboyph]

A few things to say. G is something that you really have to be careful with or it could be dangerous. Him falling asleep while on it, is a form of "falling out". Him not disclosing to you prior to him see you that he was on G, is a red flag, he needs to be honest. When someone is on G and they're falling out, you can't let them fall asleep. I've had clients who've messaged to book me and then after we finalize it, ask if I'm providing party favors. I will flat out say no I do not, and to them it's a complete deal breaker.  A lot of times when people PNP they want someone on their level. If someone is gonna use any form of drug, they need to be transparent for both parties.