Bareback

[sky]

17 hours ago, Scott Carroll said:

So I read through this thread and I am still unsure that I understand.  Is it common for a bottom provider to take it bareback and allow one to unload in them and is there an surcharge for both of those actions??

I feel if escorts didn't allow bareback as a bottom they would be limiting what they can make.  Whether or not they are on prep is their choice but the job of the escort is to offer the client a "fantasy".  For many clients that might mean an escort that is willing to bareback as part of the experience.  I also feel that escorts should set their rate and shouldn't charge extra.  Is there a risk the escort faces barebacking?  Yes, but they have it in their control to help minimize the risk.  

[DMonDude]

1 hour ago, sky said:

I feel if escorts didn't allow bareback as a bottom they would be limiting what they can make.  Whether or not they are on prep is their choice but the job of the escort is to offer the client a "fantasy".  For many clients that might mean an escort that is willing to bareback as part of the experience.  I also feel that escorts should set their rate and shouldn't charge extra.  Is there a risk the escort faces barebacking?  Yes, but they have it in their control to help minimize the risk.  

Plenty of escorts do just fine financially without barebacking. It's not the necessity in the experience you think it is. Also just because Escorts work to fulfill a clients fantasies doesn't mean they are obligated to cater to all fantasies. They have it in their control to not take on certain risks if they choose not to.

Edited September 27, 2025 by DMonDude

[+ Jamie21]

I’m always surprised when the client wants to top me bare and he asks if I’m on prep. I am of course, and I’m fine to get fucked bare, but me being on prep should be of no interest to the client. I tell him, it’s protecting me, the important question is are you on prep. Amazingly some aren’t on prep yet they’re happy to bareback. What they should ask is how frequently I get tested. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 5/12/2025 at 5:38 AM, ApexNomad said:

Unless his ad specifically states “Bareback only,” go out and buy them! Let’s not be cheap and selfish. (I’m also paying for his Uber to/from.)

And on the alternate end of the conversation, if the escort lists "ask me", I always ask before hiring if bareback is okay.  Better to double check before the meeting than to arrive with different expectations.

Edited March 16 by Vegas_Millennial

[Tajoki]

Funny enough — I had a provider tell me BB usually comes at a higher rate.

His reasoning was just “better experience,” but it also felt like something he could leverage to charge more.

I remember laughing and going,
“okay… but you’re enjoying it more too, right?”

Because it never really feels like a one-sided upgrade.

[hungry4darkmeat]

51 minutes ago, Tajoki said:

Funny enough — I had a provider tell me BB usually comes at a higher rate.

His reasoning was just “better experience,” but it also felt like something he could leverage to charge more.

I remember laughing and going,
“okay… but you’re enjoying it more too, right?”

Because it never really feels like a one-sided upgrade.

It’s not uncommon in my experience for providers to charge more for special requests and if they don’t normally do BB they charge more if they’re willing to make an exception.

[Jay17403]

I remember when you almost always got two quotes, one for safe and one for bareback.  I think that has changed with prep since most guys seem ok with it know. I always ask to make sure like someone else said just make sure there are no surprises. 

[+ Pensant]

Even those who proclaim “safe only” have been known to go bare with little prompting, a little birdie told me.

[Wings246]

On 3/18/2026 at 5:24 PM, Pensant said:

Even those who proclaim “safe only” have been known to go bare with little prompting, a little birdie told me.

I can attest to this with my personal experiences.  A provider who was listed as "Safe Only" was BB during my entire encounter with him.  Neither one of us mentioned/suggested/requested/asked about the use of condom before, during, or after.

Edited yesterday at 01:51 AM by Wings246

[ChiTwnPaul]

I am new to all of this. Gay/Bi-sex, escorts etc.. As a bottom, is there a noticable different between bareback and a condom?

[theplayerking]

4 hours ago, ChiTwnPaul said:

I am new to all of this. Gay/Bi-sex, escorts etc.. As a bottom, is there a noticable different between bareback and a condom?

Absolutely, but I would say even more so from the top. For the bottom, there’s much less friction, and it feels a lot better. Then, of course, this is the psychological thrill of taking a man’s cum inside your body.