Is it Worth Flying A Provider to NYC for the Weekend?

[FaustOust]

I am considering hiring someone to come to NYC for a weekend with me.  However, I realize there are many options among providers based in NYC.  My experience in NYC  with local providers has only been for a few hours at a time or an overnight, at most.  It seems to be the maximum time that most advertise.

Do local providers do all-weekend appointments in NYC?  Or is it better, in my case, just to hire a regular to fly to NYC, if I am planning to be with one person for the weekend?  The guy I am considering has been hired in NYC (he’s not someone I picked up at the local filling station) but is not based there.

I am also open to the possibility that I am doing this all wrong, and, when in NYC, I should just line up multiple providers to construct the range of experiences that one could have in a single weekend BFE, thereby not even trying to hire one local to spend his entire weekend with me. (But that seems like a lot of work for me to discern and line-up someone for dinner, someone for f*cking, someone for the theatre, someone for conversation, etc.)

I welcome your suggestions and experience.

[ShortCutie7]

I think you’re overthinking it- I would just reach out to an NYC provider you’ve hired before regardless of what he advertises… I’m sure many would be happy to be booked for a full weekend!

[+ nycman]

52 minutes ago, FaustOust said:

I am considering hiring someone to come to NYC for a weekend with me.

I have to admit, this strikes me a little bit like carrying coals to Newcastle. 

Nonetheless, if there’s a particular bloke who really strikes your fancy, a NYC get away could be fun for you both. 

[NYXboy]

I would suggest the same as @ShortCutie7 

Even if they are not available they may be able to suggest local talent that would be suitable for all those activities. 

 

[NYXboy]

1 minute ago, nycman said:

I have to admit, this strikes me a little bit like carrying coals to Newcastle. 

this made me nearly cry with laughter. 

[Alchemy]

I've done it both ways. I visit NYC frequently. I have my favorite regular I'm flying to NYC for a multi-day trip together in a few weeks. We travel together regularly, and I enjoy his company. But I also have hired several NYC-based escorts. Most were for hotel time but one was for a full evening: dinner out, the theatre, intimacy. He was an entertainment professional -- fun and insightful. The rates come into play for some of us. My regular charges a lower per-day travel rate than most guys' overnight rates so it's more affordable to fly him there than hire a local for overnights. There are so many options in NYC. You might enjoy the variety.

 

Edited March 28 by Alchemy

[BrickBuilder]

With the variety of men in NYC I would say enjoy the local offerings.  There is someone for everyone there.  I would think a local would be a better on your expenditure outlay if you are trying to manage to some cost limit.

If you truly have your eye on meeting someone that is not local to NYC, think about taking him somewhere there might not be a much variety. Or to a place you have always wanted to explore.  Again you may have a better return for your expenditure by going somewhere not quite as costly as NYC.

If you are looking to "show off" some arm candy, that is more of a non-quantifiable that is purely up to your discretion.

Me, personally, I like to treat NYC like going to a Brazilian Steakhouse.  A lot of different meat is offered to me at my table that I can accept or decline depending on my hunger at the moment.  And I can certainly sample more than one.

[DznNYC]

On 3/27/2025 at 4:48 PM, FaustOust said:

Do local providers do all-weekend appointments in NYC?  Or is it better, in my case, just to hire a regular to fly to NYC, if I am planning to be with one person for the weekend?  The guy I am considering has been hired in NYC (he’s not someone I picked up at the local filling station) but is not based there.

 

Local providers will do all-weekend appointments in NYC!!

Just sayin'... 😏

[soloyo215]

On 3/27/2025 at 4:48 PM, FaustOust said:

I am considering hiring someone to come to NYC for a weekend with me.  However, I realize there are many options among providers based in NYC.  My experience in NYC  with local providers has only been for a few hours at a time or an overnight, at most.  It seems to be the maximum time that most advertise.

Do local providers do all-weekend appointments in NYC?  Or is it better, in my case, just to hire a regular to fly to NYC, if I am planning to be with one person for the weekend?  The guy I am considering has been hired in NYC (he’s not someone I picked up at the local filling station) but is not based there.

I am also open to the possibility that I am doing this all wrong, and, when in NYC, I should just line up multiple providers to construct the range of experiences that one could have in a single weekend BFE, thereby not even trying to hire one local to spend his entire weekend with me. (But that seems like a lot of work for me to discern and line-up someone for dinner, someone for f*cking, someone for the theatre, someone for conversation, etc.)

I welcome your suggestions and experience.

I can't comment on the multiple providers experience, but I think that you have choices. If it's about finding the right provider, where he's based shouldn't matter if he's willing and able to cater to you for the weekend. Seems like it's more about finding the right provider and experience and less about where the provider lives.

[+ JamesB]

6 hours ago, AtlTopGuy said:

Me, personally, I like to treat NYC like going to a Brazilian Steakhouse.  A lot of different meat is offered to me at my table that I can accept or decline depending on my hunger at the moment.  And I can certainly sample more than one.

Look what you've done! Now I'm hungry and horny! 😂

Edited March 29 by JamesB

[Ali Gator]

As everyone has pointed out, there is someone for everyone in NYC - you just have to search them out on the available sites. IF, for some reason, no one wants to do a two-dayer, then hire two different guys. You won't believe the fun you could potentially have and return to in future trips. 

[Cretus]

On 3/27/2025 at 1:48 PM, FaustOust said:

I am considering hiring someone to come to NYC for a weekend with me.  However, I realize there are many options among providers based in NYC.  My experience in NYC  with local providers has only been for a few hours at a time or an overnight, at most.  It seems to be the maximum time that most advertise.

Do local providers do all-weekend appointments in NYC?  Or is it better, in my case, just to hire a regular to fly to NYC, if I am planning to be with one person for the weekend?  The guy I am considering has been hired in NYC (he’s not someone I picked up at the local filling station) but is not based there.

I am also open to the possibility that I am doing this all wrong, and, when in NYC, I should just line up multiple providers to construct the range of experiences that one could have in a single weekend BFE, thereby not even trying to hire one local to spend his entire weekend with me. (But that seems like a lot of work for me to discern and line-up someone for dinner, someone for f*cking, someone for the theatre, someone for conversation, etc.)

I welcome your suggestions and experience.

I do this somewhat often , but with providers I met in their own city first, and have been able to trust/build a strong rapport with. 
 

You should really only do it with guys you (1) are very interested in seeing and (2) seem trustworthy.

 

 

[aiseeya]

If $$$ is not a problem, just fly in whoever you fancied. It really is not a novel idea. 

Hiring someone local will prolly bring down total costs (eg flight tickets). 

Providers rarely advertise multiple days hire rate (RM only provides up to 'overnight' option), but that is not to say they will not be opened to it. Just ask them.

I have had multiple days hire with local, fly provider into my state/city, fly out to visit provider at his state/city, went on multi days trips with provider out of city/state - IMO, there is no right or wrong ways. All depend on how much $$$ you would be willing to splurge. Unlike overnight or hourly, multi days hire can get pricey very quickly.

Edited March 30 by aiseeya

[dbar123]

NYC is an escort buffet. Definitely sample more than one entree

[+ Gar1eth]

You can do either. One thing to consider is that NYC escorts have a tendency to be pricey. Who knows what they might want for a weekend? On the other hand-it may all come out in the wash considering  for a non-NYCer you'd have to pay for transportation to NYC. Whichever way you go-it would be nice if you get a guy with a really good reputation on here. But I'll admit that's  definitely more difficult these days with not having a current review  site. 
 

Another thing to consider is are you hosting at home-or will you be in a hotel?

[DunwoodyGuy]

It's like bringing a bag of Lender's frozen bagels to New York.

[LookingAround]

On 4/16/2025 at 8:07 AM, DunwoodyGuy said:

It's like bringing a bag of Lender's frozen bagels to New York.

This. Do not fly someone to nyc. Enjoy the many offerings there. 

[+ ApexNomad]

On 3/27/2025 at 4:48 PM, FaustOust said:

I am considering hiring someone to come to NYC for a weekend with me.  However, I realize there are many options among providers based in NYC.  My experience in NYC  with local providers has only been for a few hours at a time or an overnight, at most.  It seems to be the maximum time that most advertise.

Do local providers do all-weekend appointments in NYC?  Or is it better, in my case, just to hire a regular to fly to NYC, if I am planning to be with one person for the weekend?  The guy I am considering has been hired in NYC (he’s not someone I picked up at the local filling station) but is not based there.

I am also open to the possibility that I am doing this all wrong, and, when in NYC, I should just line up multiple providers to construct the range of experiences that one could have in a single weekend BFE, thereby not even trying to hire one local to spend his entire weekend with me. (But that seems like a lot of work for me to discern and line-up someone for dinner, someone for f*cking, someone for the theatre, someone for conversation, etc.)

I welcome your suggestions and experience.

Another option to consider is traveling to the provider’s city. If you’ve found someone you really like and they’re based in a city you’ve never explored, that could be a fun opportunity. You could have them show you around a bit—maybe start with dinner or a show (depending on the location and what they’re into)—and stay in a hotel of your choosing so it feels more neutral and comfortable for you. Do a little research on the city ahead of time and plan something that feels easy and enjoyable. Sometimes being in their comfort zone helps create a more relaxed, natural vibe too.