Aaron 90 Posted March 10 Posted March 10 Anyone else like to reverse roles? After establishing a good visiting relationship, I like to ask sometimes if they would want to receive a massage and to be pleased in anyway. It usually works out well 🔥 + robear 1
+ robear Posted March 10 Posted March 10 Although I get the concept, I'm way too lazy for that! As always with massage providers and "extras," willingness to swap roles will vary and you just have to ask and be prepared for a polite "no." Plus there's the issue of what that client-provided massage might entail, again the details will vary with the provider. Aaron 90 1
+ FrankR Posted March 10 Posted March 10 1 hour ago, Aaron 90 said: Anyone else like to reverse roles? After establishing a good visiting relationship, I like to ask sometimes if they would want to receive a massage and to be pleased in anyway. It usually works out well 🔥 Nothing wrong with asking. If they love the craft they may even be willing to offer some advice. Ive done this many times. My first time was actually with a traveling “masseuse” while living in Washington DC - he was very pretty to look at but had no mentionable skills. So I suggested to him, in a nice way, that I would show him how it was done. We both had a great time and he was a regular of mine for years. As with all things, the golden rule applies: “Have a dick, don’t be a dick!” 😉 Aaron 90, Whippoorwill and + robear 2 1
+ poolboy48220 Posted March 10 Posted March 10 I've had some offer it, as in "Would you like to massage me for a while?" Sometimes I'm interested, sometimes (like @robear) I'm too lazy to want that. + robear, Aaron 90 and Ali Gator 1 1 1
Aaron 90 Posted March 10 Author Posted March 10 27 minutes ago, FrankR said: Nothing wrong with asking. If they love the craft they may even be willing to offer some advice. Ive done this many times. My first time was actually with a traveling “masseuse” while living in Washington DC - he was very pretty to look at but had no mentionable skills. So I suggested to him, in a nice way, that I would show him how it was done. We both had a great time and he was a regular of mine for years. As with all things, the golden rule applies: “Have a dick, don’t be a dick!” 😉 Exactly right. Sometimes it's nice to learn some skills from them and in the process help them destress. They will usually compensate in other ways 😋😆. Luv2play and Whippoorwill 2
Aaron 90 Posted March 10 Author Posted March 10 39 minutes ago, robear said: Although I get the concept, I'm way too lazy for that! As always with massage providers and "extras," willingness to swap roles will vary and you just have to ask and be prepared for a polite "no." Plus there's the issue of what that client-provided massage might entail, again the details will vary with the provider. Very true, it depends in what mood each one is in.
nate_sf Posted March 11 Posted March 11 Though I don’t offer massage, I’ve had a couple of clients give me an impromptu massage at the end of an escort session. I thought it was a nice gesture and certainly enjoyed it. + Vegas_Millennial, Aaron 90, Luv2play and 1 other 3 1
+ Jamie21 Posted March 11 Posted March 11 I’ve had a few clients ask me to lay on the table during the session so they can work on me. It’s fine by me. Quite unusual though. Then there’s the ones who ask me to bend over the table 😂… + Vegas_Millennial, + robear, + FrankR and 6 others 1 2 1 5
Simon Suraci Posted March 11 Posted March 11 I get this request from time to time. I entertain clients wanting to massage me and I do it for my hourly massage rate. I decline requests for me to do this for free, however. I am not volunteering for unskilled people to work on my body and - let’s be honest - most of them get tired or bored of the whole thing and give up after ten minutes or less anyway. Or they just want to jerk me off for free, which 1) is unpleasant for me 2) interferes with my ability to perform for clients, or 3) interferes with my personal sex life. This is not community service. Pay sex work rates for my cum, or at least pay massage rates for time to indulge your “touch a sexy masseur” fantasy (sans cum). When I get a massage, I prefer a skilled man going the entire time, so I hire a professional. Sometimes I trade massage time with other masseurs. Never has it crossed my mind to seek out a client to massage me. Aaron 90, Luv2play, Whippoorwill and 1 other 3 1
Aaron 90 Posted March 11 Author Posted March 11 46 minutes ago, Jamie21 said: I’ve had a few clients ask me to lay on the table during the session so they can work on me. It’s fine by me. Quite unusual though. Then there’s the ones who ask me to bend over the table 😂… If I could help relax the ones who help me and to give them a break occasionally during a session, I would feel good. I cant blame them wanting to😆 but I wouldn't expect that 😊
Aaron 90 Posted March 11 Author Posted March 11 30 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said: I get this request from time to time. I entertain clients wanting to massage me and I do it for my hourly massage rate. I decline requests for me to do this for free, however. I am not volunteering for unskilled people to work on my body and - let’s be honest - most of them get tired or bored of the whole thing and give up after ten minutes or less anyway. Or they just want to jerk me off for free, which 1) is unpleasant for me 2) interferes with my ability to perform for clients, or 3) interferes with my personal sex life. This is not community service. Pay sex work rates for my cum, or at least pay massage rates for time to indulge your “touch a sexy masseur” fantasy (sans cum). When I get a massage, I prefer a skilled man going the entire time, so I hire a professional. Sometimes I trade massage time with other masseurs. Never has it crossed my mind to seek out a client to massage me. I can entirely see you view., very true. As long as the price is agreed upon, and they're comfortable with it.
Nightowl Posted March 11 Posted March 11 As enticing as reversing the client-masseur roles might be, I’d be insulting him if I implied that my skills were as good as his. Maybe I’m just too respectful of his experience. But if he’s strictly rub and tug, he’s not really a masseur and my decades of experience could probably match his… Aaron 90 1
Rudynate Posted March 11 Posted March 11 I have thought about it. The idea gets me pretty hot actually - having a well-built man letting me explore his body for an hour or so. Hot4latin and Aaron 90 1 1
Aaron 90 Posted March 11 Author Posted March 11 59 minutes ago, Rudynate said: I have thought about it. The idea gets me pretty hot actually - having a well-built man letting me explore his body for an hour or so. Exactly how I feel!!!
LaffingBear Posted March 11 Posted March 11 I never asked...it just sometimes developed. To be precise, I had very few sessions with guys hired as a masseur, rather than an escort. It never happened in any of those circumstances. Shoulder rubs to back rubs developing into full massage as a things heated up with an escort? ... sure, that happened.
CuriousByNature Posted March 11 Posted March 11 What would the donation for YOUR time be to reciprocate? LOL soloyo215 and Aaron 90 2
soloyo215 Posted March 12 Posted March 12 On 3/10/2025 at 9:09 AM, Aaron 90 said: Anyone else like to reverse roles? After establishing a good visiting relationship, I like to ask sometimes if they would want to receive a massage and to be pleased in anyway. It usually works out well 🔥 One of my providers told me that he does reverse roles. I think I'm not good at giving massages, so the idea of me requesting that never crossed my mind. That reminds me that yesterday my super hot Cuban therapeutic masseur told me that he himself needs a massage, and I asked him "who could be worthy of massaging you, with your superhuman massage skills? [In my mind I added 'and that hot body of yours']". He told me that his wife is also a physical therapists and she gives great massages. Masseurs need love too, I guess, Aaron 90 1
Aaron 90 Posted March 12 Author Posted March 12 17 minutes ago, soloyo215 said: One of my providers told me that he does reverse roles. I think I'm not good at giving massages, so the idea of me requesting that never crossed my mind. That reminds me that yesterday my super hot Cuban therapeutic masseur told me that he himself needs a massage, and I asked him "who could be worthy of massaging you, with your superhuman massage skills? [In my mind I added 'and that hot body of yours']". He told me that his wife is also a physical therapists and she gives great massages. Masseurs need love too, I guess, I should have tried it last night but I enjoy my regular routine. Next time I'm trying it. Consider asking for something new to try to enlighten the experience. soloyo215 1
jawjateck Posted March 15 Posted March 15 I did it once for a young guy (hot college golfer.....yummy!). It was pre-arranged to be apart of our session. After he finished working on me, he jumped on his table, and I worked him over front and back. He loved it, hard cock, arched back, lifted butt, spread legs, everything. He knew exactly what he wanted and when to make it happen. 😈 Aaron 90, + nycman and + poolboy48220 1 2
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