Requesting to massage the masseur/therapist

[Aaron 90]

Anyone else like to reverse roles? After establishing a good visiting relationship,  I like to ask sometimes if they would want to receive a massage and to be pleased in anyway. It usually works out well 🔥

[+ robear]

Although I get the concept, I'm way too lazy for that! As always with massage providers and "extras," willingness to swap roles will vary and you just have to ask and be prepared for a polite "no." Plus there's the issue of what that client-provided massage might entail, again the details will vary with the provider.

[+ FrankR]

1 hour ago, Aaron 90 said:

Anyone else like to reverse roles? After establishing a good visiting relationship,  I like to ask sometimes if they would want to receive a massage and to be pleased in anyway. It usually works out well 🔥

Nothing wrong with asking. If they love the craft they may even be willing to offer some advice. Ive done this many times.
 

My first time was actually with a traveling “masseuse” while living in Washington DC - he was very pretty to look at but had no mentionable skills. So I suggested to him, in a nice way, that I would show him how it was done. We both had a great time and he was a regular of mine for years. As with all things, the golden rule applies: “Have a dick, don’t be a dick!” 😉

[Guest]

Recommend Miami massage therapist? 

[+ poolboy48220]

I've had some offer it, as in "Would you like to massage me for a while?"  Sometimes I'm interested, sometimes (like @robear) I'm too lazy to want that. 

[Aaron 90]

27 minutes ago, FrankR said:

Nothing wrong with asking. If they love the craft they may even be willing to offer some advice. Ive done this many times.
 

My first time was actually with a traveling “masseuse” while living in Washington DC - he was very pretty to look at but had no mentionable skills. So I suggested to him, in a nice way, that I would show him how it was done. We both had a great time and he was a regular of mine for years. As with all things, the golden rule applies: “Have a dick, don’t be a dick!” 😉

Exactly right. Sometimes it's nice to learn some skills from them and in the process help them destress. They will usually compensate in other ways 😋😆. 

[Aaron 90]

39 minutes ago, robear said:

Although I get the concept, I'm way too lazy for that! As always with massage providers and "extras," willingness to swap roles will vary and you just have to ask and be prepared for a polite "no." Plus there's the issue of what that client-provided massage might entail, again the details will vary with the provider.

Very true,  it depends in what mood each one is in.

[nate_sf]

Though I don’t offer massage, I’ve had a couple of clients give me an impromptu massage at the end of an escort session. I thought it was a nice gesture and certainly enjoyed it. 

[+ Jamie21]

I’ve had a few clients ask me to lay on the table during the session so they can work on me. It’s fine by me. Quite unusual though. Then there’s the ones who ask me to bend over the table 😂…

[Simon Suraci]

I get this request from time to time. I entertain clients wanting to massage me and I do it for my hourly massage rate. I decline requests for me to do this for free, however. I am not volunteering for unskilled people to work on my body and - let’s be honest - most of them get tired or bored of the whole thing and give up after ten minutes or less anyway.

Or they just want to jerk me off for free, which 1) is unpleasant for me 2) interferes with my ability to perform for clients, or 3) interferes with my personal sex life. This is not community service. Pay sex work rates for my cum, or at least pay massage rates for time to indulge your “touch a sexy masseur” fantasy (sans cum). 

When I get a massage, I prefer a skilled man going the entire time, so I hire a professional. Sometimes I trade massage time with other masseurs. Never has it crossed my mind to seek out a client to massage me.

[Aaron 90]

46 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

I’ve had a few clients ask me to lay on the table during the session so they can work on me. It’s fine by me. Quite unusual though. Then there’s the ones who ask me to bend over the table 😂…

If I could help relax the ones who help me and to give them a break occasionally during a session,  I would feel good. 

I cant blame them wanting to😆 but I wouldn't expect that 😊

[Aaron 90]

30 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

I get this request from time to time. I entertain clients wanting to massage me and I do it for my hourly massage rate. I decline requests for me to do this for free, however. I am not volunteering for unskilled people to work on my body and - let’s be honest - most of them get tired or bored of the whole thing and give up after ten minutes or less anyway.

Or they just want to jerk me off for free, which 1) is unpleasant for me 2) interferes with my ability to perform for clients, or 3) interferes with my personal sex life. This is not community service. Pay sex work rates for my cum, or at least pay massage rates for time to indulge your “touch a sexy masseur” fantasy (sans cum). 

When I get a massage, I prefer a skilled man going the entire time, so I hire a professional. Sometimes I trade massage time with other masseurs. Never has it crossed my mind to seek out a client to massage me.

I can entirely see you view., very true.  As long as the price is agreed upon, and they're comfortable with it. 

 

[Nightowl]

As enticing as reversing the client-masseur roles might be, I’d be insulting him if I implied that my skills were as good as his.  Maybe I’m just too respectful of his experience.  But if he’s strictly rub and tug, he’s not really a masseur and my decades of experience could probably match his…

[Rudynate]

I have thought about it.  The idea gets me pretty hot actually - having a well-built man letting me explore his body for an hour or so.

[Aaron 90]

59 minutes ago, Rudynate said:

I have thought about it.  The idea gets me pretty hot actually - having a well-built man letting me explore his body for an hour or so.

Exactly how I feel!!!

[LaffingBear]

I never asked...it just sometimes developed.  

To be precise, I had very few sessions with guys hired as a masseur, rather than an escort.  It never happened in any of those circumstances.  

Shoulder rubs to back rubs developing into full massage as a things heated up with an escort? ... sure, that happened.   

[CuriousByNature]

What would the donation for YOUR time be to reciprocate?   LOL

[soloyo215]

On 3/10/2025 at 9:09 AM, Aaron 90 said:

Anyone else like to reverse roles? After establishing a good visiting relationship,  I like to ask sometimes if they would want to receive a massage and to be pleased in anyway. It usually works out well 🔥

One of my providers told me that he does reverse roles. I think I'm not good at giving massages, so the idea of me requesting that never crossed my mind.

That reminds me that yesterday my super hot Cuban therapeutic masseur told me that he himself needs a massage, and I asked him "who could be worthy of massaging you, with your superhuman massage skills? [In my mind I added 'and that hot body of yours']". He told me that his wife is also a physical therapists and she gives great massages. Masseurs need love too, I guess,

[Aaron 90]

17 minutes ago, soloyo215 said:

One of my providers told me that he does reverse roles. I think I'm not good at giving massages, so the idea of me requesting that never crossed my mind.

That reminds me that yesterday my super hot Cuban therapeutic masseur told me that he himself needs a massage, and I asked him "who could be worthy of massaging you, with your superhuman massage skills? [In my mind I added 'and that hot body of yours']". He told me that his wife is also a physical therapists and she gives great massages. Masseurs need love too, I guess,

I should have tried it last night but I enjoy my regular routine. Next time I'm trying it. 

Consider asking for something new to try to enlighten the experience.  

 

 

[jawjateck]

I did it once for a young guy (hot college golfer.....yummy!). It was pre-arranged to be apart of our session. After he finished working on me, he jumped on his table, and I worked him over front and back. He loved it, hard cock, arched back, lifted butt, spread legs, everything. He knew exactly what he wanted and when to make it happen. 😈

[+ 7829V]

Have you ever massaged the masseur?

I’ve given plenty of massages to guys from the apps, but not really to actual masseurs. With the app guys, most of the time it ends up leading to sex. I think I have a decent sense of how to give a proper massage, I use professional massage lotion,  have hot stones, silicone cups, hot towels, a massage gun, and of course a massage table. Most guys are impressed because they expect it to just be a 5 min rubdown, and more of an excuse to hook up, but no, I actually enjoy giving a real massage sensual/erotic massage. It relaxes me... and if there’s a connection, then sex can happen after.

That said, I’ve almost never given a massage to a masseur I’ve hired. I’m curious if this is common and if others have done it. Personally, I’d like to try it with a few of my regular masseurs I have a strong connection with. I think it could add another level of intimacy and closeness.

What do you think? Have you done it?

[MikeBiDude]

I’ve done it with at least a half dozen “pros”. It’s helped my technique, which has become fairly decent. I’ve used massage as an intro to “more fun” with many, many more meets via social media, etc. Here too, many are surprised it’s more than a 5 min rubdown.

I always use Biotone massage lotion.

[+ 7829V]

1 minute ago, MikeBiDude said:

I’ve done it with at least a half dozen “pros”. It’s helped my technique, which has become fairly decent. I’ve used massage as an intro to “more fun” with many, many more meets via social media, etc. Here too, many are surprised it’s more than a 5 min rubdown.

I always use Biotone massage lotion.

I usually pay attention to what the “masseurs” do with me and then watch YouTube videos to pick up some of other movements. The part I find more challenging is getting the body positioning right for stretches, I really need to practice those.

Biotone is my go-to as well.

I also have a towel warmer, but honestly I’m not a big fan. I’m not sure it’s all that useful for me… or maybe I just don’t know how to make the most of it.

Have you ever done this with a “mostly therapeutic” masseur, the kind who’s right on the edge of going sensual? And by you giving the massage, you end up moving that line a little further?

[MikeBiDude]

1 minute ago, 7829V said:

Have you ever done this with a “mostly therapeutic” masseur, the kind who’s right on the edge of going sensual? And by you giving the massage, you end up moving that line a little further?

Yes, I had one who offered the bare sensual elements, but allowed me to massage him. I was able to push his envelope a bit…didn’t necessarily lead to more happening when he was massaging me, but it created a great bond.

[Muscleking]

44 minutes ago, 7829V said:

Have you ever massaged the masseur?

I’ve given plenty of massages to guys from the apps, but not really to actual masseurs. With the app guys, most of the time it ends up leading to sex. I think I have a decent sense of how to give a proper massage, I use professional massage lotion,  have hot stones, silicone cups, hot towels, a massage gun, and of course a massage table. Most guys are impressed because they expect it to just be a 5 min rubdown, and more of an excuse to hook up, but no, I actually enjoy giving a real massage sensual/erotic massage. It relaxes me... and if there’s a connection, then sex can happen after.

That said, I’ve almost never given a massage to a masseur I’ve hired. I’m curious if this is common and if others have done it. Personally, I’d like to try it with a few of my regular masseurs I have a strong connection with. I think it could add another level of intimacy and closeness.

What do you think? Have you done it?

I’ve also done it a handful of times, I quite like the idea of the Masseur and I massaging each other.