Erbenle Posted January 28 Posted January 28 Is it typical or expected for an escort to ejaculate during a session, or does that depend on individual preferences and boundaries? I would place this in the this a first time meeting world. I’ve always suspected that since it’s “all about me” that I shouldn’t expect it, but I get really surprised with how many of my new providers cum, so I’m curious what your experiences may be. As always, many thanks. Love you guys! italianboyph 1
Oakman Posted January 28 Posted January 28 I will only book a provider (talking escort, not massage) if he agrees to cum. That’s a big part of what I want out of the experience. SometimesBi, + Pensant and Billj 3
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 28 Posted January 28 1 hour ago, Erbenle said: Is it typical or expected for an escort to ejaculate during a session, or does that depend on individual preferences and boundaries? I would place this in the this a first time meeting world. I’ve always suspected that since it’s “all about me” that I shouldn’t expect it, but I get really surprised with how many of my new providers cum, so I’m curious what your experiences may be. As always, many thanks. Love you guys! Here is a great thread on this subject. To find more, use the Search 🔎 function at the top of this page. I searched for "cum" in "this forum" and found plenty of pertinent discussion. + azdr0710 1
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted January 28 Posted January 28 If you want something specific, let him know beforehand. rvwnsd, pubic_assistance, Whippoorwill and 5 others 8
Erbenle Posted January 28 Author Posted January 28 38 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said: If you want something specific, let him know beforehand. Oh, certainly. I’ve confirmed prior to appointments and I’ve never been disappointed. my point is more about the fact that I think I may have learned about expectations in a way that makes me think I should never expect it…. + BenjaminNicholas 1
+ Jamie21 Posted January 28 Posted January 28 I get massage clients asking me to cum. It’s not unusual. Some want it on specific body parts or in their mouth. Always happy to oblige. If you want it, ask them. + Drew Collins, Whippoorwill, + Pensant and 1 other 1 3
Erbenle Posted January 28 Author Posted January 28 41 minutes ago, Jamie21 said: I get massage clients asking me to cum. It’s not unusual. Some want it on specific body parts or in their mouth. Always happy to oblige. If you want it, ask them. But outside of being asked, should a client assume the provider will cum or not? Because I go into each appointment assuming they will NOT cum. Just curious. Yukon21 and + Kevin Eagle 1 1
whatdoidowiththisagain Posted January 28 Posted January 28 i'm nowhere near experienced in this, but to me it seems like there is an understanding that the client cumming is the objective and the provider is optional. Of course there are people who are into seeing the other guy cum- sub bottoms like myself, for example. In which case i suspect you should request before hand that you want to see him cum. + azdr0710, Boaxxx, Your Man in Arlington and 1 other 2 2
+ azdr0710 Posted January 29 Posted January 29 Your Man in Arlington, Norcalbidad, Njguy2 and 5 others 1 1 1 5
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 29 Posted January 29 1 hour ago, Jamie21 said: I get massage clients asking me to cum. It’s not unusual. Some want it on specific body parts or in their mouth. Always happy to oblige. If you want it, ask them. I'd like to request for you to cum on my right tonsil and on tooth#31, please. Much obliged. + Kevin Eagle, + azdr0710, + Pensant and 1 other 1 3
+ Jamie21 Posted January 29 Posted January 29 1 hour ago, Vegas_Millennial said: I'd like to request for you to cum on my right tonsil and on tooth#31, please. Much obliged. Only if you swallow it. liubit, Whippoorwill, + DrownedBoy and 2 others 1 4
+ Jamie21 Posted January 29 Posted January 29 1 hour ago, Erbenle said: But outside of being asked, should a client assume the provider will cum or not? Because I go into each appointment assuming they will NOT cum. Just curious. Their focus is on you. I’m quite happy not to cum (tbh it’s much easier if the client isn’t bothered about me cuming). If it’s clear to me that he really wants me to cum then I will (or I’ll try) but if it’s up to me, then I won’t cum. The other guys I know who do this job have the same approach. I think you’re right to assume they won’t cum unless asked. marylander1940, + Vegas_Millennial, Norcalbidad and 2 others 3 2
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 29 Posted January 29 9 minutes ago, Jamie21 said: Only if you swallow it. Of course. I wouldn't let your DNA go to waste 😋 + Jamie21, + Act25, liubit and 2 others 1 1 3
Erbenle Posted January 29 Author Posted January 29 11 minutes ago, Jamie21 said: Their focus is on you. I’m quite happy not to cum (tbh it’s much easier if the client isn’t bothered about me cuming). If it’s clear to me that he really wants me to cum then I will (or I’ll try) but if it’s up to me, then I won’t cum. The other guys I know who do this job have the same approach. I think you’re right to assume they won’t cum unless asked. Thanks so much! That’s what I thought. You’re the best. Be well. + Jamie21 1
Trick Posted January 29 Posted January 29 (edited) 2 hours ago, Jamie21 said: Only if you swallow it. There is no other way, but can I swish before swallowing? Edited January 29 by Trick + DrownedBoy 1
pubic_assistance Posted January 29 Posted January 29 4 hours ago, Erbenle said: ...outside of being asked, should a client assume the provider will cum or not? Because I go into each appointment assuming they will NOT cum. Just curious. An escorts job is to make YOU cum. Period. If you enjoy seeing your partner ejaculate, then I suggest you discuss that with him prior to the session's play time. Yukon21, marylander1940, + Pensant and 3 others 4 2
Trick Posted January 29 Posted January 29 1 minute ago, pubic_assistance said: An escorts job is to make YOU cum. I see it differently. The escort’s job is to satisfy. I’m not fully satisfied until I’m swishing his cum in my mouth. + Vegas_Millennial and AtticusBK 1 1
Boaxxx Posted January 29 Posted January 29 Unless specifically discussed/requested I don't expect the provider to cum but when he does (or they do) I consider it an added bonus. A few times I've been fortunate enough that the provider has cum more than once. I find the odds of a provider cumming are greater (based on my own personal experience) if the appointment is late morning or early afternoon before he has had too many other appointments. Definitely not a guarantee but it has worked in my favor. + ApexNomad 1
jackcali Posted January 29 Posted January 29 While I don't specifically ask the escort to cum in our sessions, I am frequently less happy with the session if he doesn't. Something about it being (ahem) harder to maintain the fiction that the escort is enjoying his time with me. SometimesBi, + ApexNomad, whatdoidowiththisagain and 1 other 3 1
Erbenle Posted January 29 Author Posted January 29 44 minutes ago, jackcali said: While I don't specifically ask the escort to cum in our sessions, I am frequently less happy with the session if he doesn't. Something about it being (ahem) harder to maintain the fiction that the escort is enjoying his time with me. That’s a great point…I’ve always looked at it like with an earlier appointment he may try to save it for the rest of the day, but that’s a great point. Thanks.
Your Man in Arlington Posted January 30 Posted January 30 I don't ask for it, nor expect it, but I'd say more than half of the guys cum during our session. Could be the hook-up/bfe vibe I go for, or they just have a physical need to ejaculate after an long period stimulation? Some guys ask me if I want them to cum after I've gotten off, but being empathetic to their situation, I always let them save it unless they really want to get off.
+ Pensant Posted January 30 Posted January 30 Most of mine will cum. I love when we can cum together!
SirBillybob Posted January 30 Posted January 30 On 1/28/2025 at 9:17 PM, Vegas_Millennial said: I'd like to request for you to cum on my right tonsil and on tooth#31, please. Much obliged. But on #31 doesn’t quite represent wisdom according to dental associations. + Alabastrine 1
AtticusBK Posted January 30 Posted January 30 I just asked a provider about cumming and he said he usually doesn’t bc he needs to keep working. I assume that it’s probably more likely w later sessions.
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted January 30 Posted January 30 2 hours ago, SirBillybob said: On 1/28/2025 at 4:17 PM, Vegas_Millennial said: I'd like to request for you to cum on my right tonsil and on tooth#31, please. Much obliged. But on #31 doesn’t quite represent wisdom according to dental associations. I know. My #32 was removed long ago. Hence my propensity to do stupid things with my mouth open 👄
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