to sugar or not to sugar…?

[DznNYC]

General aesthetic poll here.  Hopefully any associated controversy will be lighthearted.  

As a vers/often-bottom provider I’ve been maintaining a fully sugared ass for a few years now, with the help of @thesugardaddy.bsky.social.  (Highly recommended if you go for that kind of thing.)  

But lately I’ve been getting some feedback that something more natural is preferred, so I’ve let it grow back in.   

Is there a consensus for how a provider maintains the bullseye when it comes to hair?

[+ ApexNomad]

1 hour ago, DamizzonNYC said:

General aesthetic poll here.  Hopefully any associated controversy will be lighthearted.  

As a vers/often-bottom provider I’ve been maintaining a fully sugared ass for a few years now, with the help of @thesugardaddy.bsky.social.  (Highly recommended if you go for that kind of thing.)  

But lately I’ve been getting some feedback that something more natural is preferred, so I’ve let it grow back in.   

Is there a consensus for how a provider maintains the bullseye when it comes to hair?

You’ll definitely get different answers to this, as you know. Speaking as a bottom, I’ve tried it all—but I stick with sugaring now because I feel it’s the nicest all around. I’m smooth, but I’ve had a few regulars over the years, interestingly enough, mention they wouldn’t mind if I grew it out. At the end of the day, tastes vary. What matters most is working with what you have, feeling confident, and above all, enjoying the connection with your partner. The hair (or lack thereof) is just one detail. It’s the moment you create together that counts.

[BrickBuilder]

What I find visually appealing as well as physically comfortable run hand in hand.

Naturally smooth is nice.

Naturally fuzzy, lightly hairy, and lightly trimmed is also nice.

Lots of hair down there can at times I find be a bit chaffing for the top...also I sorta have a sympathetic feeling for guys that are excessively hairy down there that have to clean up a lot of silicone lube.  I know it is not a simple task.

Stubbly is definitely neither a good look nor a good feel.

I also believe that the "quality" of removal can have a definite impact on the visual appeal.  I have seen both good and botched jobs.  Whether they were spa or DIY jobs I cannot attest to, but the better the visuals can make an impression.

But, everyone has their views on this matter.

[Your Man in Arlington]

I prefer natural, which seems to be the almost non-existent days, and I chalk my preference up to a generational shift. I really do miss the bush in general.

[TorontoDrew]

I love to eat ass.  Too much hair can be a problem but I like a furry ass.

[d.anders]

8 minutes ago, TorontoDrew said:

Too much hair can be a problem

+1

[big-n-tall]

I don't mind either way. IMHO the only downside to being hairy is the occasional loose hair caught in the mouth or once... between the teeth.

Honestly, I say do what you want. You have a great ass. Who'd turn it away if were hairy or hairless? I certainly don't.

[marylander1940]

4 hours ago, DamizzonNYC said:

General aesthetic poll here.  Hopefully any associated controversy will be lighthearted.  

As a vers/often-bottom provider I’ve been maintaining a fully sugared ass for a few years now, with the help of @thesugardaddy.bsky.social.  (Highly recommended if you go for that kind of thing.)  

But lately I’ve been getting some feedback that something more natural is preferred, so I’ve let it grow back in.   

Is there a consensus for how a provider maintains the bullseye when it comes to hair?

wax it! Smooth is better!

[Boaxxx]

I'm a fan of a smooth ass and balls but that just me. You can never satisfy everyone so just focus on what you prefer personally.

[FaustOust]

I think some hair is preferable, especially when eating.  In my opinion, it’s difficult to have too much.  It’s not a deal-breaker, but I have never been a big fan of hairlessness down there on men or  pre-prubescent twinkishness.  But I am usually not a top.

[rvwnsd]

I'm a bottom who loves to eat a guy's ass and my preference is hairy - the harrier the better. That said, I wouldn't shy away from a naturally smooth guy. 

On 1/10/2025 at 4:52 PM, big-n-tall said:

I don't mind either way. IMHO the only downside to being hairy is the occasional loose hair caught in the mouth or once... between the teeth.

To me, that's a sign of a job well done!

[+ Pensant]

I’m not that hairy, but occasionally I have my balls and crack sugared. I just love the smooth feel, as do my providers. I see an excellent trans person who’s so skilled that I barely feel a thing. And I’ve never had a skin reaction from it. Since I do a lot of road biking and mountain biking, I also occasionally have my legs sugared. Smooth is best with tight Lycra!

[viewing ownly]

Consistently, most men when a survey is taken prefer a completely smooth ass. I feel fortunate to have the luxury of having four different looks, as I can custom what pleases who I see the most. A fur carpet, entirely smooth, a hairy look with a cheeks spread smooth surprise, or a look that the late Brett Mycles (porn star, not singer) perfected, a smooth tush with a very hairy surprise when cheeks are spread. The in-between look either way is a selective preference.

Keep doing what you're doing, in my opinion, unless heading to a bear fest or something like that, where hair is king. Currently, I'm rocking a smooth arms, back, legs, and cock with an entirely hairy rump in a swim brief design, with hairy chest and stomach. Weird and sexy-ish at the same time.

[+ Summerson]

Speaking only for myself, I do prefer a more natural look, but trimming/waxing/sugaring/etc. aren't dealbreakers. Perhaps Your Man In Arlington is correct and it's at least partly a generational thing. I also spent the first 18 years of my life on a farm in the middle of rural Pennsylvania, so not a lot of manscaping happening around those parts during my formative years. 

Edited January 15 by Summerson

[+ ThroatCummer]

Clean, smooth, bleached, shaved. 

You know when you sit into a brand new car in a dealer showroom and it has that NEW CAR SMELL leather that's nice and clean and new?

THAT. 

Sadly, that also means it's not beat up from years of partying and drugs and a 100,000 cocks. That's a little harder to find. Although I actually love the professional power bottoms who get railed by BBCs. It's more loose like a pussy which I love. I don't like guys who are tight and don't get topped often... it hurts my dick. 

Edited January 15 by ThroatCummer

[Chien Andalou]

SMOOTH. I love to eat ass and, according to the feedback, I’m really good. Individual tastes vary, of course, but I absolutely love smooth ass. The smoother the better. I do care what a guy’s hole looks like, and it is very much a factor when I’m deciding who to hire. I personally find a hairy, scruffy asshole disgusting. I have decided not to hire otherwise attractive guys because of it. The same holds true for the crotch. I think the old joke is, “I want to suck a dick, not floss my teeth.”

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I generally prefer a trimmed but natural crotch and butt. Completely hairless crotches are a turn off.

Since I’m mostly a bottom, I keep my dick and balls trim, but since my butt is only lightly furry I’ve never touched it. I felt like if I started shaving, waxing, etc it would grow in thicker. 

I’ve had a few very uncomfortable instances of hairy men who had shaved and had significant stubble. It’s like having sexy with a porcupine. 

[caramelsub]

I started lasering my butt and hole again. I now get treated using the candela laser. It does seem to be working great so far. But takes multiple treatments to work.

[+ Jamie21]

On 1/15/2025 at 6:46 PM, ThroatCummer said:

I don't like guys who are tight and don't get topped often... it hurts my dick. 

I saw a client recently whose hole was very hairy and very tight. Neither is my preference. It was an escort session and he wanted to get fucked but first time I tried it was like breaking into the Bank of England. Eventually I got in but it was a struggle. Later on in the session he’d loosened up so it was easier to go back in a couple of times more. I should charge extra for all the lube. It’s so much simpler with a smooth hole, less lube needed, no hairs in your mouth, and I think visually more appealing. 

[d.anders]

On 1/10/2025 at 2:26 PM, DznNYC said:

lately I’ve been getting some feedback that something more natural is preferred, so I’ve let it grow back in.

I would love to see the results, and offer my feedback. Some men have beautiful ass crack hair. Hair also absorbs more scent, and the scent is a bit different when compared to fully shaved. In the end, all of it needs to be tested by a connoisseur to know for sure.

[DznNYC]

45 minutes ago, d.anders said:

I would love to see the results, and offer my feedback. Some men have beautiful ass crack hair. Hair also absorbs more scent, and the scent is a bit different when compared to fully shaved. In the end, all of it needs to be tested by a connoisseur to know for sure.

Well, I’m on the au naturel end of the spectrum these days.  And you’re absolutely right!  You can’t know without testing.

I’m in New York all weekend.  And available for connoisseurs to test.  😏 

[+ ThroatCummer]

On 8/6/2025 at 3:10 AM, Jamie21 said:

I saw a client recently whose hole was very hairy and very tight. Neither is my preference. It was an escort session and he wanted to get fucked but first time I tried it was like breaking into the Bank of England. Eventually I got in but it was a struggle. Later on in the session he’d loosened up so it was easier to go back in a couple of times more. I should charge extra for all the lube. It’s so much simpler with a smooth hole, less lube needed, no hairs in your mouth, and I think visually more appealing. 

You sir, are a champ. Did you give him poppers or was he open to that? That's the only other way to get into some guys like that. LOL  

Edited 14 hours ago by ThroatCummer

[+ Jamie21]

45 minutes ago, ThroatCummer said:

You sir, are a champ. Did you give him poppers or was he open to that? That's the only other way to get into some guys like that. LOL  

Thanks! He arrived with poppers…I guess he knew what would work. I agree, they do help. They do nothing for me though, I find if I take them my cock goes soft.