Legit Sugar Daddies?

[LukePhx]

Hey guys,

Are there any legit sugar daddies out there? We'd like to find a couple willing to give us some sugar, lol.

Every time I get a text from a "daddy" it's a scammer - what's their end game? I now know not to even reply to them!

Thanks

LukePhx & NoahPhx

 

[+ FrankR]

1 hour ago, LukePhx said:

Hey guys,

Are there any legit sugar daddies out there? We'd like to find a couple willing to give us some sugar, lol.

Every time I get a text from a "daddy" it's a scammer - what's their end game? I now know not to even reply to them!

Thanks

LukePhx & NoahPhx

 

Yes, we are out there! 😁 Scammers will try anything to get your information so they can try to monetize it. Always meet in a public place - I meet the young men for lunch before we reach any agreements. If they are unwilling to meet in person or a video call - scammer.

Biggest problem daddies have: out of date photos. Check your pics - if they are more than a year old…they need updating! 

Good luck with your search.

Edited October 26, 2024 by FrankR

[+ PhileasFogg]

Looking for a daddy as a couple?  Is that polyamory? 
 

And ditto what @FrankR says, it’s about chemistry and connection.  It doesn’t just happen in a meetup

Edited October 26, 2024 by PhileasFogg

[+ nycman]

So you want a hot husband….AND a sugar daddy to pay both your expenses?

I wish you luck, but I’m afraid that’s not generally how any of this works. 

[caliguy]

8 hours ago, LukePhx said:

Hey guys,

Are there any legit sugar daddies out there? We'd like to find a couple willing to give us some sugar, lol.

Every time I get a text from a "daddy" it's a scammer - what's their end game? I now know not to even reply to them!

Thanks

LukePhx & NoahPhx

 

Me too! I'm still looking for my sugar Daddy that will just pay my bills.  Remote would be nice.  Maybe come into town and take me to dinner every now and then at a classy Restaurant though to renew our relationship.

Let me know if you find some guys. 

Edited October 26, 2024 by caliguy

[+ Charlie]

36 minutes ago, caliguy said:

Me too! I'm still looking for my sugar Daddy that will just pay my bills.  Remote would be nice.  Maybe come into town and take me to dinner every now and then at a classy Restaurant though to renew our relationship.

Let me know if you find some guys. 

Sounds like you want a patron or a sponsor rather than a sugar daddy, who expects more in return from his sugar baby.

[+ ApexNomad]

The whole sugar daddy thing cracks me up. At that point, why not just go all in? Let’s be a couple! Screw it! We could start planning our retirement together—I’ll handle the bingo cards, and he can bring the energy drinks! The transactional vibe of sugar daddy relationships feels a bit too clinical for me; it’s like taking the client/escort dynamic and just slapping a “relationship” label on it. If we’re both getting what we want, let’s make it real instead of keeping it transactional!

[BonVivant]

59 minutes ago, caliguy said:

Me too! I'm still looking for my sugar Daddy that will just pay my bills.  Remote would be nice.  Maybe come into town and take me to dinner every now and then at a classy Restaurant though to renew our relationship.

Let me know if you find some guys. 

Me too. In addition to all that, it has to be platonic and I need mentorship and investment in my new, latest business/project/venture. 

Edited October 26, 2024 by BonVivant

[+ PhileasFogg]

1 hour ago, caliguy said:

Remote would be nice.

You sound like my ex-wives!  🤣

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, ApexNomad said:

The whole sugar daddy thing cracks me up. At that point, why not just go all in? Let’s be a couple! Screw it! We could start planning our retirement together—I’ll handle the bingo cards, and he can bring the energy drinks! The transactional vibe of sugar daddy relationships feels a bit too clinical for me; it’s like taking the client/escort dynamic and just slapping a “relationship” label on it. If we’re both getting what we want, let’s make it real instead of keeping it transactional!

The difference between a sugar daddy agreement and an escort date is the same as a long term lease on a car and a daily or weekend rental. The rented car is dropped off at the end of the period on the agreement but the leased vehicle is yours to house, feed, maintain and generally take good care of until the lease expires. 
 

 Some people fall in love with their leased vehicles and buy them at the end of the lease. Others get dumped in better or worse condition. Same with sugar daddy relationships. 

[big-n-tall]

One of the guys I see on occasion had a sugar daddy. "Had: being the operative word. Basically the SD wanted more and more of the escort's time. Problem is the escort also had a day job and a boyfriend. He couldn't devote as much time to the SD as he wanted.

The problem is when the sugar daddy is no longer into escort or bothered by the escorts choices... the relationship ends abruptly. So if you find a SD that is willing to start something with you, don't get dependent absolutely on the money he supplies.

[BonVivant]

1 hour ago, big-n-tall said:

One of the guys I see on occasion had a sugar daddy. "Had: being the operative word. Basically the SD wanted more and more of the escort's time. Problem is the escort also had a day job and a boyfriend. He couldn't devote as much time to the SD as he wanted.

The problem is when the sugar daddy is no longer into escort or bothered by the escorts choices... the relationship ends abruptly. So if you find a SD that is willing to start something with you, don't get dependent absolutely on the money he supplies.

The SD and SB need to set clear expectations and boundaries. They should have a discussion and then reach agreement. 

[+ ApexNomad]

2 hours ago, Luv2play said:

The difference between a sugar daddy agreement and an escort date is the same as a long term lease on a car and a daily or weekend rental. The rented car is dropped off at the end of the period on the agreement but the leased vehicle is yours to house, feed, maintain and generally take good care of until the lease expires. 
 

 Some people fall in love with their leased vehicles and buy them at the end of the lease. Others get dumped in better or worse condition. Same with sugar daddy relationships. 

Except I don’t lease my cars—I own them outright. 😉

[+ DrownedBoy]

3 hours ago, ApexNomad said:

The transactional vibe of sugar daddy relationships feels a bit too clinical for me; it’s like taking the client/escort dynamic and just slapping a “relationship” label on it.

Agree. I just can't stand hypocrisy and bullsh!t. Your kept boy is not in love with you.

I have nothing against SBs, but I wouldn't slap the relationship label on it. I wouldn't even mind if they stayed in their relationship. To me, a SB is just an escort you paid to always be ready for right now. Preferably to be tag teamed by the SD and his real (not bought) partner.

[big-n-tall]

2 hours ago, BonVivant said:

The SD and SB need to set clear expectations and boundaries. They should have a discussion and then reach agreement. 

The escort SB had set boundaries with which the SD agree with. He knew about the boyfriend and the job. It’s just that over time he wanted more. When the escort wouldn’t acquiesce, the SD just stopped communicating and any funding.

Edited October 26, 2024 by big-n-tall

[Passionproject]

1 hour ago, ApexNomad said:

Except I don’t lease my cars—I own them outright. 😉

I take public transport. Everyone is welcome. 😜😈

[+ ApexNomad]

9 minutes ago, Passionproject said:

I take public transport. Everyone is welcome. 😜😈

Public transport? That’s cute! But I still prefer my cars—I decide who gets in, and I like my rides uninterrupted! 😉

[BuffaloKyle]

I'll be one once I win the lottery 😅

[Ali Gator]

16 hours ago, LukePhx said:

Hey guys,

Are there any legit sugar daddies out there? We'd like to find a couple willing to give us some sugar, lol.

 

If you're looking for a way to live financially free, set up an on-going GoFundMe page. Explain your financial hardships, and ask for 'generous, elder gay donors' to fund you. 

[guru68]

May we all find relationships/situations that work for us.

[Monarchy79]

On 10/26/2024 at 3:02 AM, LukePhx said:

Hey guys,

Are there any legit sugar daddies out there? We'd like to find a couple willing to give us some sugar, lol.

Every time I get a text from a "daddy" it's a scammer - what's their end game? I now know not to even reply to them!

Thanks

LukePhx & NoahPhx

 

Are you looking for an actual Sugar Daddy? Or a Finsub? 
 

Major difference between the two, and from your posting (and others) it appears that many of you are looking for the latter. 

[SunnyDay]

Two people who are genuinely committed to supporting each other’s personal and emotional growth can create a powerful relationship and connection whatever is the label. This supportive relationship flourishes when both guys actively engage in open and honest exchange about their needs and desires. For example, discussing what makes them feel loved, they can deepen their connection. This knowledge of what you want and makes you feel loved not only enhances the understanding of each other but also fosters an environment where both feel valued and appreciated. Ultimately, the key to a thriving partnership lies in this mutual encouragement, comradeship, and the willingness to explore and express what brings each person joy and fulfillment.

[surferguy_1]

On 10/26/2024 at 12:15 PM, ApexNomad said:

The whole sugar daddy thing cracks me up. At that point, why not just go all in? Let’s be a couple! Screw it! We could start planning our retirement together—I’ll handle the bingo cards, and he can bring the energy drinks! The transactional vibe of sugar daddy relationships feels a bit too clinical for me; it’s like taking the client/escort dynamic and just slapping a “relationship” label on it. If we’re both getting what we want, let’s make it real instead of keeping it transactional!

Well that's what a lot of sugar daddies/sugar babies are doing lately. Might as well cut the stress and slap a relationship label on i. 

[surferguy_1]

On 10/26/2024 at 1:29 PM, Luv2play said:

The difference between a sugar daddy agreement and an escort date is the same as a long term lease on a car and a daily or weekend rental. The rented car is dropped off at the end of the period on the agreement but the leased vehicle is yours to house, feed, maintain and generally take good care of until the lease expires. 
 

 Some people fall in love with their leased vehicles and buy them at the end of the lease. Others get dumped in better or worse condition. Same with sugar daddy relationships. 

I'm going to need you to expand. This was genuinely a fascinating read, especially since I know someone who was a sugar baby but ended up "falling in love" years into he arrangement. 

[+ keroscenefire]

Unfortunately I don't make enough money to be a Sugar Daddy. Would you settle for a Papa Stevia?