Mutual Respect and Privacy

[PileDriver]

Just want to say everyone should respect respect and privacy. As a consumer I respect providers. I couldn't do their job. There are a few who are exemplary in their service to us consumers. And a lot who do a really great job providing physical, intellectual.,social, emotional, etc satisfaction with ease and a smile and hug. Feeling Thankful!!! 

 

[ICTJOCK]

Well thanks very much for your kind remarks.   Certainly wise as well.    As a provider,  mutual respect is essential.    Respect by a provider is shown in numerous ways and it starts before the provider ever meets a client.    When the respect is mutual,  the end result is successful time spent by both parties (literally).

[Guest]

13 hours ago, ICTJOCK said:

Well thanks very much for your kind remarks.   Certainly wise as well.    As a provider,  mutual respect is essential.    Respect by a provider is shown in numerous ways and it starts before the provider ever meets a client.    When the respect is mutual,  the end result is successful time spent by both parties (literally).

I’m new to this - what are the best tangible and intangible ways for a client to show respect? Thanks!

[+ nycman]

3 hours ago, GCMan said:

I’m new to this - what are the best tangible and intangible ways for a client to show respect? Thanks!

$$$$, be on time, brush your teeth, and wash yer ass.

It’s simple really. 

[ICTJOCK]

4 hours ago, GCMan said:

I’m new to this - what are the best tangible and intangible ways for a client to show respect? Thanks!

We can all appreciate a polite approach,  professionalism shown by the client,  appreciation after and a tip if warranted and the client wants to do so.

To show flexibility and patience,  provided the provider does the same.    

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

6 hours ago, nycman said:

wash yer ass.

Let me add to that...

Wash your entire body.  Antibacterial soap.  Every nook and cranny.

[Jamie21]

13 hours ago, GCMan said:

I’m new to this - what are the best tangible and intangible ways for a client to show respect? Thanks!

I can tell from the first contact from the client if he is not respectful. Example: recently I had a message ‘fvck now’. What kind of opening contact is that? I ignored it. 

It’s simple really. Turn up on time, be clean, communicate clearly and openly, don’t haggle. It makes for a much better experience for you. I’m professional, I’ll respect you. If you’re not behaving respectfully I’m not interested in your custom. 
 

[SouthOfTheBorder]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

I can tell from the first contact from the client if he is not respectful

a first contact from client to provider should include a brief greeting, where you saw the ad, a request for hourly rate & if they do incall and/or outcall and the city they are located.  I then give them an idea of when I’m looking to hire and if not same day, I make that clear.  I’ll let them know what I’m looking to get from the session without getting graphic or sexting.  I’ll close with giving them my first name.  If they have an online presence and I’ve seen it, I’ll let them know.  

I find it usually requires only 2 texts from me max to get all the information I need to decide if I want to schedule.  Anything after that is just working out a time/place.

For providers that don’t respond within 2-3 hours, I probably wouldn’t hire bc they don’t seem customer focused in my view.  I also measure the tone & how how the provider responds - I’m looking for a professional that knows how to communicate & understands they are running a client service business.  one-word answers/evasive answers/ignoring relevant questions or pressure is an automatic no

I approach the men as busy professionals and I like to be treated as a valued client.  I’m also aware that most of the guys get inundated with inquiries that will never happen and many from people who just get off making contact.  My contact has to stand apart & show that I’m serious. Works every time.   

I don’t tend to hire or contact traveling providers because my experience has been it’s way too complicated. And I don’t want to be client #5 that day.
 

Edited January 26 by SouthOfTheBorder

[soloyo215]

Well, let me use this thread to express my gratitude and respect to providers. I would hug them, but I'm afraid that my hand will slip down to their butts.

Edited January 27 by soloyo215

[+ DrownedBoy]

I especially thank providers who act like gentlemen. That's how I try to act, and to see it returned means a good session is coming.

[nate_sf]

On 1/26/2024 at 3:49 PM, soloyo215 said:

I would hug them, but I'm afraid that my hand will slip down to their butts.

That's what we're here for... among other things 😛

[+ azdr0710]

it's really quite easy to be polite, respectful, and friendly........you got it or you don't......it comes naturally......

finger-snapping, loud, demanding, arrogant douchebags have something going on, mentally, that makes them that way.......

[Simon Suraci]

On 1/26/2024 at 3:31 PM, SouthOfTheBorder said:

I approach the men as busy professionals and I like to be treated as a valued client.  I’m also aware that most of the guys get inundated with inquiries that will never happen and many from people who just get off making contact.  My contact has to stand apart & show that I’m serious. Works every time.   

^Thank you for this.

Given this was for massage so a bit more straightforward than escort inquiries, but still was pleasantly surprised to have this brief, direct text exchange:

[address and details, photos]

[+ Pensant]

@Simon Suracithanks for posting this exchange. Very similar to my interactions with my providers. 

[Shawn Monroe]

Yeah it really isn’t hard on both sides. To add to what everyone has said, COMMUNICATE WHAT YOURE LOOKING FOR AND DONT LIE. (Coming off that thread last week).