Milo Janus Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 I'm down in L.A. I've never experienced this before. Maybe it's the Holidays, my budget, or the fact I'm 64 and heavy, but the men I've contacted by RM chat and even texts do not respond. Sheesh! Just say so if you're busy or not interested. Who do I have to blow to give them my wad? marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 What is your budget? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cany10011 Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 (edited) Do you state your budget in your intial communication? Money is a great equalizer. It must be the holidays.... Edited December 27, 2023 by cany10011 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Texasmuscle Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 How do they even know you are 64 and heavy? Are you finding that they are inquiring about your appearance or are you simply volunteering this information to them? marylander1940 and Hot4latin 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 1 hour ago, Milo Janus said: I'm down in L.A. I've never experienced this before. Maybe it's the Holidays, my budget, or the fact I'm 64 and heavy, but the men I've contacted by RM chat and even texts do not respond. Sheesh! Just say so if you're busy or not interested. Who do I have to blow to give them my wad? Relax. It's all about perspective. Just a few days ago you posted that you had a RM conversation with a provider, and it was YOU who were "afraid to commit". Remember that you have successfully met with providers in the past, and follow the formula of what works. Brief conversations. Keep discussions to date, location, and price. Don't pay in advance. If you're having conversations with providers via RM and are "afraid to commit", they may be blocking you. Not because of your age or weight, but because they don't want to waste their time on conversations for which they aren't being paid. + purplekow, acks0104, Dolman and 6 others 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 8 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: Keep discussions to date, location, and price. Exactly, my typical approach is this, plus maybe something about what I’m like. I’m so and so, I offer 1000 for 4 hours, clean and easy to get along with. I’ve never had this not work. + azdr0710, SouthOfTheBorder, + Vegas_Millennial and 2 others 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milo Janus Posted December 27, 2023 Author Share Posted December 27, 2023 All is not lost! I have a date tonight with a beautiful man. It is confirmed! Will report later. SouthOfTheBorder, thomas, Becket and 4 others 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Becket Posted December 27, 2023 Share Posted December 27, 2023 2 hours ago, Milo Janus said: All is not lost! I have a date tonight with a beautiful man. It is confirmed! Will report later. We want all the details. Tell all!!! + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 $1000 for four hours is below the going rate for the most in demand escorts in LA. Who get more than that for two hours. But it might work for others. + nycman, + BenjaminNicholas and + Pensant 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rvwnsd Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 14 hours ago, Milo Janus said: I'm down in L.A. I've never experienced this before. Maybe it's the Holidays, my budget, or the fact I'm 64 and heavy, but the men I've contacted by RM chat and even texts do not respond. Sheesh! Just say so if you're busy or not interested. Who do I have to blow to give them my wad? It happens. My guess is it has very little to do with you. FWIW, typically, I send a note describing what I am looking for and ask if the provider thinks we are a match. If so, I inquire about his rate and decide whether or not to schedule an appointment. I don't include my budget when inquiring because it really doesn't matter to the escort what I am willing to spend. When he states his rate, I can make that determination. 12 hours ago, Milo Janus said: All is not lost! I have a date tonight with a beautiful man. It is confirmed! Will report later. Glad to hear it! Like I said, it's them not you. Jope you have/had a great time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milo Janus Posted December 28, 2023 Author Share Posted December 28, 2023 (edited) I GAVE IT AWAY! Finally, after a three+ year drought, I finally got to do what I do best with Brogan! AMAZING! He was one lucky man! Edited December 28, 2023 by Milo Janus steve10025, samhexum, + m_writer and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JayinHKNYC Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 2 hours ago, Milo Janus said: I GAVE IT AWAY! Finally, after a three+ year drought, I finally got to do what I do best with Brogan! AMAZING! He was one lucky man! He does show it all in his hot X (Twitter) account. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 8 hours ago, goosh69 said: $1000 for four hours is below the going rate for the most in demand escorts in LA. Who get more than that for two hours. But it might work for others. My invite might come with other perks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sync Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 9 hours ago, goosh69 said: $1000 for four hours is below the going rate for the most in demand escorts in LA. Who get more than that for two hours. But it might work for others. I did not realize how far out of the loop I am. For me, a provider fee upwards of $500/hr. is laughable. + cougar, samhexum, SouthOfTheBorder and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 1 hour ago, sync said: I did not realize how far out of the loop I am. For me, a provider fee upwards of $500/hr. is laughable. $1000/(4) hrs = $250/(1) hr Confirmed, 250/hr is below the going rate for the more in demand men in LA. My understanding: LA is $300+, and a lot of them $350+. LA folks feel free to correct me. $500+/hr is still laughable in most markets, but it’s out there. Those guys typically do not derive their primary income from in-person provider work. I’m even lower: $1000/(5) hrs = $200/hr, but then again it’s all a matter of perspective on value, what your budget is, and how long you want to hire for. Some clients see an excellent value in hiring me for 4-5 hrs for that price. $200/hr is a steal when you’re prepared to hire for multiple hours. Others (more commonly) are paying me $300-$500 for just one or two hours. Walt 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas_Belgium Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 2 hours ago, sync said: ...a provider fee upwards of $500/hr. is laughable. For me that idea is a turn on, one of my fetishes or whatever what you want to call it. marylander1940 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sync Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 1 hour ago, Simon Suraci said: $1000/(4) hrs = $250/(1) hr Confirmed, 250/hr is below the going rate for the more in demand men in LA. My understanding: LA is $300+, and a lot of them $350+. LA folks feel free to correct me. $500+/hr is still laughable in most markets, but it’s out there. Those guys typically do not derive their primary income from in-person provider work. I’m even lower: $1000/(5) hrs = $200/hr, but then again it’s all a matter of perspective on value, what your budget is, and how long you want to hire for. Some clients see an excellent value in hiring me for 4-5 hrs for that price. $200/hr is a steal when you’re prepared to hire for multiple hours. Others (more commonly) are paying me $300-$500 for just one or two hours. Yes, thank you, I'm aware of "$1000/(4) hrs = $250/(1) hr," my "upwards of $500/hr." is based upon the statement within the posting to which I responded which reads "$1000 for four hours is below the going rate for the most in demand escorts in LA. Who get more than that for two hours." samhexum and peter831 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, sync said: For me, a provider fee upwards of $500/hr. is laughable at $500 per hour - I’d rather fly to Barcelona & spend the long weekend in/out of Sauna Thermas. Yes, it’s way more in total - but I’d rather indulge completely. $350 is my top ceiling in the US. Beyond that it’s ridiculous, inflation or not. Funny how inflation for providers is not a thing in Europe ? Edited December 28, 2023 by SouthOfTheBorder + sync, + Vegas_Millennial, samhexum and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thelatin Posted December 28, 2023 Share Posted December 28, 2023 Part of my thinking is yes, they could make more per hour, but they might have to meet multiple clients. If I’m not demanding, in decent shape, clean, reliable etc. Good chances of being a return client, perhaps travel etc. I’m probably the safer bet. Dolman 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ goosh69 Posted December 29, 2023 Share Posted December 29, 2023 (edited) The guys who are down low actual fashion models (like with actual ads and such), reality stars, top professional bodybuilders, or just plain top IG/OF types , etc., easily ask for and get $500 to $800 an hour. Because they either are in enough demand and/or can make more money online than in person. I’ve stumbled across a few over the years (I’ll delete and block someone who DMs me asking about getting in touch with whomever - I’m NOT a pimp.) Edited December 29, 2023 by goosh69 la_connor 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 29, 2023 Share Posted December 29, 2023 15 hours ago, Milo Janus said: I GAVE IT AWAY! Finally, after a three+ year drought, I finally got to do what I do best with Brogan! AMAZING! He was one lucky man! Link to ad or social? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
big-n-tall Posted December 29, 2023 Share Posted December 29, 2023 58 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said: Link to ad or social? I think he means this Brogan. Broganxbrogan - Male Escort, Gay massage - West Hollywood | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Broganxbrogan Gay Escort in West Hollywood, California, available for Gay Escorting,Erotic... + goosh69 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walt Posted December 29, 2023 Share Posted December 29, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, goosh69 said: The guys who are down low actual fashion models (like with actual ads and such), reality stars, top professional bodybuilders, or just plain top IG/OF types , etc., easily ask for and get $500 to $800 an hour. Because they either are in enough demand and/or can make more money online than in person. The prices have gotten so out of hand. 😞 I think the primary reason is that prices are no longer listed publicly on ads/web sites -- and therefore consumers are unable to do easy comparison shopping and finding which provider is a better value. There needs to be a feedback loop to create allow prices more weight when clients are shopping. An opportunity for a foreign owned website? An opportunity for some information graphics that represents cost without violating laws? An opportunity for clients/providers together to use Mr. Number in a creative new way by listing fees there? Edited December 29, 2023 by Walt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milo Janus Posted December 29, 2023 Author Share Posted December 29, 2023 3 hours ago, big-n-tall said: I think he means this Brogan. Broganxbrogan - Male Escort, Gay massage - West Hollywood | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Broganxbrogan Gay Escort in West Hollywood, California, available for Gay Escorting,Erotic... Yes, sorry. This Brogan!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 29, 2023 Share Posted December 29, 2023 9 hours ago, Milo Janus said: Yes, sorry. This Brogan!! Very sexy! I hope you had that tongue of yours in your profile pic all over him! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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