Jamie21 Posted December 18, 2023 Share Posted December 18, 2023 1 hour ago, soloyo215 said: The holiday season seems to be rough on some people, though, so some clients might be extra needy. Yes I agree. I also find that immediately afterwards there’s a demand spike. As if having spent time with family or unwillingly been exposed to solitude people want a little escape. soloyo215 and Simon Suraci 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dbar123 Posted December 18, 2023 Share Posted December 18, 2023 Seems unnecessarily needy to expect availability on Christmas or Thanksgiving. + Pensant, + DrownedBoy and + BOZO T CLOWN 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted December 18, 2023 Share Posted December 18, 2023 18 hours ago, Whippoorwill said: When I was young and picking up tricks in bars, I always found Thanksgiving night and Christmas night to be easy pickings. People had spent all day with family and were ready to put a bullet through their brain or a c__k up their a__. Now that I am past the tricking age and in the hiring age, I would expect there are likewise many clients desiring relaxation after a stressful day with family. But of course, completely up to providers to decide if they are working or not. That's the nice thing about being an independent provider. Yes 💯, when I know I'm going to spend a day with difficult extended family, I will treat myself to an Escort the morning of Thanksgiving and/or Christmas. Some of my most memorable lays have been on Christmas mornings. If an escort says he is not available that morning, I move on and find someone who is. I even had an escort reach out to me the following year to ask I wanted to book again for the morning of that holiday. So obviously there are some ready and willing to meet on Christmas. Simon Suraci 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keenan Posted December 18, 2023 Share Posted December 18, 2023 On 12/17/2023 at 12:52 PM, BuffaloKyle said: I hope though you don't tell your family you can't come to a family xmas function to take a client instead. I have worked places where I was able to get pretty much unlimited overtime at this time of year but I realized money is not the be all end all and it was important to have some downtime and make time for family. Actually when hired my family knows. I typically spend the day with family and then take bookings for late afternoon evening of Christmas Day. Christmas Eve I seem to always get one booking by someone who is alone without family on Christmas Eve. I've found even before escorting when I danced at a strip club for a few years Christmas Eve and evening of Christmas Day I'd be working. My family has gotten used to it. Your Man in Arlington, Trevor, MikeBiDude and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XIX Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 I'm surprised people wants to hire during the Christmas period. I'd wait until January when the madness is over. Walt, + Pensant and Your Man in Arlington 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 15 minutes ago, XIX said: I'm surprised people wants to hire during the Christmas period. I'd wait until January when the madness is over. I like having sex with Christmas 🌲 music playing in the background 🎵🎶 + DrownedBoy, Walt, BuffaloKyle and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 27 minutes ago, Vegas_Millennial said: I like having sex with Christmas 🌲 music playing in the background 🎵🎶 I don't like any music during sex I don't know if I could get hard at all with xmas music. + Pensant, Your Man in Arlington, + DrownedBoy and 1 other 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 (edited) I spend Christmas and Thanksgiving with family and always enjoy it, but lately I like being back at my house by early evening and listening to Bach’s Christmas Oratorio. I find that quite delightful! If I’m not busy, a booking on NYE can be fun. In 2020, I spent it with the now retired Dancing Twink, who spent the night. The next morning I made breakfast and we enjoyed a bottle of Veuve. Most pleasant! Edited December 20, 2023 by Pensant BonVivant, Simon Suraci and Marc in Calif 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mike carey Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 2 hours ago, Pensant said: I spend Christmas and Thanksgiving with family and always enjoy it, but lately I like being back at my house by early evening and listening to Bach’s Christmas Oratorio. I find that quite delightful! If I’m not busy, a booking on NYE can be fun. In 2020, I spent it with the now retired Dancing Twink, who spent the night. The next morning I made breakfast and we enjoyed a bottle of Veuve. Most pleasant! The widow always makes for a pleasant time! liubit, + DrownedBoy, Luv2play and 1 other 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Pensant Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 1 hour ago, mike carey said: The widow always makes for a pleasant time! I had to Google that one, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keenan Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 15 hours ago, XIX said: I'm surprised people wants to hire during the Christmas period. I'd wait until January when the madness is over. What about those who don't have family in the area or are alone during the season? Some of them also want companionship. + WstVlgChris, Walt, BonVivant and 2 others 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 14 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said: I don't like any music during sex I don't know if I could get hard at all with xmas music. Are you actually saying that "Deck the balls" and "Don we now our gay apparel" do NOT get you hard? 🎄 TorontoDrew, + Pensant, soloyo215 and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 1 hour ago, Marc in Calif said: Are you actually saying that "Deck the balls" and "Don we now our gay apparel" do NOT get you hard? 🎄 Mainly it's picturing those "Nine ladies dancing" & "Eight maids a milking" in my head that ruin it for me! 😅 TorontoDrew, NJF and Marc in Calif 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 BuffaloKyle and soloyo215 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted December 20, 2023 Share Posted December 20, 2023 3 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said: Mainly it's picturing those "Nine ladies dancing" & "Eight maids a milking" in my head that ruin it for me! 😅 10 Lords a Leaping better? + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BuffaloKyle Posted December 21, 2023 Share Posted December 21, 2023 30 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said: 10 Lords a Leaping better? MikeBiDude and Bargara Leatherboy 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted December 21, 2023 Share Posted December 21, 2023 6 hours ago, Pensant said: I had to Google that one, Just by coincidence I gave a bottle of Veuve Cliquot to each of my siblings this Christmas. + Pensant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted December 21, 2023 Share Posted December 21, 2023 1 hour ago, Luv2play said: Veuve Cliquot Please add another "c" -- Clicquot It means widow's little clit? ☺️ + BenjaminNicholas and Simon Suraci 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ JEC Posted December 21, 2023 Share Posted December 21, 2023 I think both Clients and providers should do what's best for them individually. If providers want to prioritize time with family and friends that should be respected, at the same time many clients may be lonely on the holiday and may want the company. liubit, Walt and + APPLE1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted December 21, 2023 Share Posted December 21, 2023 I have a Christmas Eve client this year, a regular. He was respectful, reaching out a few days before. He is a caretaker for his husband who is mentally and physically out of it and it drains him, even though he does it with love. The client getting out and enjoying some time focused on him himself is a big treat and relief from the sadness of holiday times for him. I am happy to provide. Luv2play, + DrownedBoy, liubit and 5 others 2 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted December 24, 2023 Share Posted December 24, 2023 (edited) On 12/17/2023 at 8:07 AM, ICTJOCK said: Thoughts on this and for those clients, how do you approach the holiday? This week I'm on holiday in Palm Springs. Today I reached out to a known provider (known to me), and inquired about his availability around Christmas. He said he was busy, but we set something up for later in the week. I then contacted two unknown (to me) providers and booked one for Christmas Eve Day and one for Christmas Day. I am on holiday alone, so it's nice to look forward to human touch each day via a massage, before heading to the bars and socializing. Merry Christmas 🎄 to everyone! Edited December 24, 2023 by Vegas_Millennial Jamie21, marylander1940, Bargara Leatherboy and 3 others 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bargara Leatherboy Posted December 24, 2023 Share Posted December 24, 2023 Not everyone celebrates the holidays - or wants to do it with family and friends if they have them. I know that if I was alone - it would be a nice thing to hire around the holidays. the beauty of this business is that providers can manage their own time and availability. Simon Suraci and TorontoDrew 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted December 24, 2023 Share Posted December 24, 2023 I was in NYC for a three day holiday trip years ago. I had one provider on Christmas Eve, two on Christmas Day, and one on the 26th. Why waste the trip, right? I contacted them almost a month prior. Everyone said they were okay booking clients on those days. One even said “It’s just another day.” If you doubt my story, ask AlexSanz, Eric Hassan, Alexx, and Arye. Eric even gave me a bottle of poppers as a holiday gift. If French Olivier did not flake on me, I would have had five. TorontoDrew, Simon Suraci, + Vegas_Millennial and 1 other 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted December 24, 2023 Share Posted December 24, 2023 (edited) 10 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said: This week I'm on holiday in Palm Springs. Today I reached out to a known provider (known to me), and inquired about his availability around Christmas. He said he was busy, but we set something up for later in the week. I then contacted two unknown (to me) providers and booked one for Christmas Eve Day and one for Christmas Day. I am on holiday alone, so it's nice to look forward to human touch each day via a massage, before heading to the bars and socializing. Merry Christmas 🎄 to everyone! Christmas alone and hiring working boys, that's sad to me! Back to subject, I'm sure many escorts are technically available today and tomorrow, but I hope they'll try to be free to at least have dinner with folks closer to them whether they're relatives or friends. Maybe it's just me but I would feel guilty of texting someone today and ask "are you available 8 to 9?", I would rather hire someone at 6 so he can make $ today and go see his loved ones after. Edited December 24, 2023 by marylander1940 Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SouthOfTheBorder Posted December 24, 2023 Share Posted December 24, 2023 I think one of the important things for me is hiring under the right circumstances. I don’t hire because I’m lonely or to cover-up some other problem. And I prefer being alone on Holidays when I can - no pressure, no drama, no travel & no fuss. It’s a luxury. I wouldn’t hire on Christmas Eve/Christmas - but more power to those clients & providers that make it happen. Simon Suraci and + Vegas_Millennial 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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