pubic_assistance Posted January 11 Share Posted January 11 A line grabbed from another thread that was "off topic".... I would like to ask how many members ultimately felt they CHOSE their sexual orientation as opposed to having it assigned ? For me ....I have been completely bisexual throughout my life from the time I was a child an my mother needed to explain to me that I was "supposed to" be attracted to girls but only "like" boys as friends. ( It never quite worked out that way for me ). Ultimately I needed to "Pick a team" to have a serious relationship. ( Not really a believer in the thrupple concept ). So married my female bestie who I share the commonality of a long history of bisexual exploration. It's interesting to me that so many gays are in complete denial of the ability to choose. I'm sure there are as many gays who can't as straights who can't but I am always feeling a bit left out when the gays pretend that NONE of us make a choice. WHO ELSE CHOSE THEIR LIFESTYLE ? + WilliamM and musclestuduws 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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