Guest Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 (edited) 12 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: You've made your antiquated point over and over and over..... Yeah, I keep bringing up more and more scientific insight into the question, and I keep waiting for you to bring up an iota of factual data to support your point. Zzzzzzzz Ironic that while you call my point "antiquated," you bring up old theories from the early 20th Century by Freud, and ignore the mountains of actual scientific analysis which has addressed the subject over the last 3 to 4 decades. Edited January 19, 2023 by Unicorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Marc in Calif Posted January 18, 2023 Share Posted January 18, 2023 4 hours ago, Unicorn said: ... I keep waiting for you to bring up an iota of factual data to support your point. Perhaps not everyone studied ancient Greek? 😎 + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 19, 2023 Author Share Posted January 19, 2023 13 hours ago, Lucky said: So you can tell @Unicorn to "let it go" but when I say that to you it's harassment? You are playing victim now. I started the thread, genius. Marc in Calif and + WilliamM 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 19, 2023 Author Share Posted January 19, 2023 13 hours ago, Unicorn said: Ironic that while you call my point "antiquated," you bring up old theories from the early 20th Century by Freud, and ignore the mountains of actual scientific analysis which has addressed the subject over the last 3 to 4 decades. I never quoted Freud. You can stick to your antiquated scientific studies from the 80s. The fact of the matter is that current psychological theory embraces the idea of human sexuality as far more fluid than your charts from my childhood are showing. More importantly young people in their 20s are PRACTICING sexual fluidity and tossing out the labels. Nobody identifies as just "gay" anymore. It's all about bi / poly / and fluid. Where's your chart from 2022 ? musclestuduws and + WilliamM 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 6 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: I started the thread, genius. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 Give me an hour on my massage table with the straightest of straight guys who is so straight he is straighter than a ruler for drawing straight lines….and I’ll have him legs apart begging for his hole to be used 😂😂😂. spidir, Rod Hagen, liubit and 8 others 2 1 1 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mds1 Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 19 minutes ago, Jamie21 said: Give me an hour on my massage table with the straightest of straight guys who is so straight he is straighter than a ruler for drawing straight lines….and I’ll have him legs apart begging for his hole to be used 😂😂😂. I’d pay to see this video!!! musclestuduws, liubit, Jamie21 and 1 other 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 Just now, mds1 said: I’d pay to see this video!!! It’ll be on my justforfans….so yes you will pay! wsc, musclestuduws, pubic_assistance and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 On 1/18/2023 at 4:19 AM, pubic_assistance said: The thread isn't about you. Neither is this thread about you. The creator of a topic in these forums may have started it. But it's not "about" him. And he doesn't "own" the topic's content and cannot control the responders. Medin and LookingAround 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misterhumphries Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 20 hours ago, pubic_assistance said: ...Nobody identifies as just "gay" anymore. It's all about bi / poly / and fluid. Where's your chart from 2022 ? So you've polled EVERY person on the planet to state that nobody identifies as "just" gay? Why is being gay referred to in such dismissive tones as if there is some vital aspect to one's sexual identity that is missing? Sexuality has always run along a spectrum to my knowledge and experience. I can state that I am gay, gay, gay. I can't even imagine having sex with a woman. Besides, the new fluidity could be based on the principle that one's sexuality is not the be-all, end-all in terms of experience or identity. LookingAround, Marc in Calif, pubic_assistance and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 20, 2023 Author Share Posted January 20, 2023 2 hours ago, misterhumphries said: So you've polled EVERY person on the planet to state that nobody identifies as "just" gay? Yes. Every last one. Are you always pompous and condescending or only when you drink ? Marc in Calif and + nycman 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LookingAround Posted January 20, 2023 Share Posted January 20, 2023 3 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: Yes. Every last one. Are you always pompous and condescending or only when you drink ? Talk about projection. Medin, AroiDee, Marc in Calif and 2 others 1 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AroiDee Posted January 21, 2023 Share Posted January 21, 2023 On 1/19/2023 at 10:22 PM, LookingAround said: Talk about projection. why are people here so mean? musclestuduws 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 22, 2023 Share Posted January 22, 2023 4 hours ago, AroiDee said: why are people here so mean? Well, there's a difference between ridiculing what a person says, versus who they are. We try to attack the idea, not the person. There are plenty of people here with whom I agree much of the time, but sometimes they say stupid stuff, too. But the moderators can get upset about strings which go "off-topic," so if you really would like an answer and discussion of that question, I suggest you start a new string. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rod Hagen Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 The Gen Z hubris makes me shake my head. Really? Really? Same sex relationships have existed since the beginning of animal, then human, life, but you, you progressive darlings, you are the age of fluidity? Right. NJF, Jamie21 and Marc in Calif 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marc in Calif Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 44 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said: The Gen Z hubris makes me shake my head. Really? Really? Same sex relationships have existed since the beginning of animal, then human, life, but you, you progressive darlings, you are the age of fluidity? Right. Fluidity in human sexuality has also existed since the beginning of animal, and then human, life. + José Soplanucas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rod Hagen Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 57 minutes ago, Marc in Calif said: Fluidity in human sexuality has also existed since the beginning of animal, and then human, life. Nobody said it didn't, my implicit question was why do Zillenials and young Millenials act as if they reinvented the sexual Wheel? + nycman and Marc in Calif 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 23, 2023 Author Share Posted January 23, 2023 55 minutes ago, Rod Hagen said: why do Zillenials and young Millenials act as if they reinvented the sexual Wheel? The young people I know don't seem to claim to have "reinvented" anything but they do always seem opposed to strict gay/straight labels. Even when I say I'm bisexual they will counter with "but what does that mean" ? My understanding is that "picking a team" to have a relationship is very last century. The "poly" concept for many young people is about keeping their possibilities open at all times and never settling down. Let's see how that looks when they're 40. I do enjoy the more open minded attitude about liking the person, not the parts. I was always wired that way, but had absolutely no role models for how to manage that socially. I wandered around in the dark until I figured things out. These kids are all rather supportive of the "you do you" concept and don't judge any combination of sexual adventures. thomas, + WilliamM and + José Soplanucas 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ WilliamM Posted January 23, 2023 Share Posted January 23, 2023 1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said: The young people I know don't seem to claim to have "reinvented" anything but they do always seem opposed to strict gay/straight labels. Even when I say I'm bisexual they will counter with "but what does that mean" ? My understanding is that "picking a team" to have a relationship is very last century. The "poly" concept for many young people is about keeping their possibilities open at all times and never settling down. Let's see how that looks when they're 40. I do enjoy the more open minded attitude about liking the person, not the parts. I was always wired that way, but had absolutely no role models for how to manage that socially. I wandered around in the dark until I figured things out. These kids are all rather supportive of the "you do you" concept and don't judge any combination of sexual adventures. I totally agree, but when you write the kids are all rather supportive, could you be more specific I was a caseworker in my early 30s. One of my clients was very attractive; most people thought he was gay - partly because he walked around in his underwear. Now I have known him for over 30 years. Just because I wanted to fuck him - I knew he wasn't gay pubic_assistance and thomas 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted January 24, 2023 Author Share Posted January 24, 2023 (edited) I was a wrestler in High School. I wanted to fuck most of the guys on the team. But in my mind - sporty guys aren't gay...so.i never dreamed of making a move on one of them. Many years later one of my team mates came out of the closet and declared himself "gay" after being married to a woman for decades and raising two kids. I asked him how long he felt he was gay...He answered "since high school". I questioned that response saying I would have never guessed ! He said "oh yeah, I hooked up with a lot of guys in high school". Again I found this surprising and asked "with who"? He answered me and said he'd sucked off half the boys on the wrestling team !!! 😱 Edited January 24, 2023 by pubic_assistance + WilliamM, + azdr0710, MikeBiDude and 5 others 4 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rod Hagen Posted January 24, 2023 Share Posted January 24, 2023 Posted this before and this thread needs it as well. + José Soplanucas, NJF, wsc and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rudynate Posted January 26, 2023 Share Posted January 26, 2023 On 1/12/2023 at 5:39 PM, WilliamM said: There is no time limit on articles In the sciences, articles more than 2 or 3 years old are considered dated. pubic_assistance and + WilliamM 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ José Soplanucas Posted January 26, 2023 Share Posted January 26, 2023 On 1/23/2023 at 2:58 PM, Rod Hagen said: Nobody said it didn't, my implicit question was why do Zillenials and young Millenials act as if they reinvented the sexual Wheel? Do you not think all generations did the same? I mean, pretending to invent something they were just reinventing? Like the sexual revolution from the 60s? the post modernism from the 80s? This conversation has much of another pattern. Older generations complaining about the youngins. A classic. thomas, musclestuduws, + Lucky and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 26, 2023 Share Posted January 26, 2023 3 hours ago, Rudynate said: In the sciences, articles more than 2 or 3 years old are considered dated. Not really. At some point, certain matters become settled. Science can open new questions, and take questions to another direction. Obviously, if studies are continuing in one subject matter, more recent studies need to be taken into account. At a certain point, however, there are certain matters which are accepted as established for any given question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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