How Many Guys Have You Had Sex With?

[Smurof]

It was fun to figure it all out, but my total is nine. However odd as it may be, only two were "me in them AND them in me" encounters! I appear to be a bi bottom by a hair.

[pubic_assistance]

There were evenings I spent at group sex events where I had sex with at least 30 people in one night...and in NYC these were common...so my list must be in the thousands.

 

[Phlmuscle]

I have belonged to several BDSM clubs in Philadelphia and NYC plus regular visits to the baths as well as on line hookups and fuck buddies,  I would say the estimate is somewhere around 1500. 

[CuriousByNature]

Still zero - LOL

 

[Rudynate]

I actually have no idea.  All my life I have alternated between long periods of very little sex and shorter periods of being a real pig.   I also have spent a lot of time in bathhouses and sex clubs.  A visit to a bathhouse or sex club usually involved several contacts - maybe as many as 5.    The first time I visited San Francisco in the 70s, I stayed for nearly 3 weeks.  When I got home, I went to the VD clinic.  When the intake nurse asked me how many contacts I had had in the previous month, I told her "about 30."   I think it could be in the hundreds, just not sure though because of a lot of dry periods  that occasionally lasted months.

[Epigonos]

I stopped counting years ago but probably a thousand plus.  I've actually keep a photographic album of most of the guys I've really enjoyed and they alone number fifty.   

Edited March 31, 2022 by Epigonos

[MscleLovr]

I’m a serial monogamist so I have only had numerous boyfriends in the intervals between partners.
 

I’ve no idea of the actual number. But like @Epigonos I keep photos as a record. I have digital photos of about 140 guys. 

[maninsoma]

The number of guys I've hired is in the low hundreds.  Outside of that, I really have no idea.  I stopped keeping track in my 20s when I reached 50.  I've never been particularly sexually active outside of relationships, so my number is probably a lot lower than many other guys here -- maybe a total of a few hundred.

[KnutDC]

I started as a precocious lad in the pre-plague days of the 1970s, so likely upwards of 1,200.  

[EZEtoGRU]

To quote a former POTUS, my answer "depends on what the definition of sex is".  If it's considered to be sexual intercourse, I would say 25-40 in my lifetime.  I have always been much more into oral sex than penetrative sex.  If oral sex is included, then my number would be over 1000.  So many trips to Brazil saunas...including living in Brazil for 2 years pushed the number up.  Also, during undergrad and grad school, I was a regular at the university bathrooms that had gloryholes.  So much good action there with young attractive guys.  I did six straight years of giving/getting BJ's in those bathrooms.  It's amazing how much oral sex was going on in university tea-rooms in the 70's/80's.  I wonder if that still goes on today?  

Sad fact:  In the last 2 years, I have had only one sexual encounter.  I gave one blowjob to a guy in my hotel room (not a hire).  It has been my choice.  I have purposely had minimal contact with people during COVID.

[+ Billsboy4]

Too many to count🤣

[Rudynate]

15 hours ago, EZEtoGRU said:

To quote a former POTUS, my answer "depends on what the definition of sex is".  If it's considered to be sexual intercourse, I would say 25-40 in my lifetime.  I have always been much more into oral sex than penetrative sex.  If oral sex is included, then my number would be over 1000.  So many trips to Brazil saunas...including living in Brazil for 2 years pushed the number up.  Also, during undergrad and grad school, I was a regular at the university bathrooms that had gloryholes.  So much good action there with young attractive guys.  I did six straight years of giving/getting BJ's in those bathrooms.  It's amazing how much oral sex was going on in university tea-rooms in the 70's/80's.  I wonder if that still goes on today?  

Sad fact:  In the last 2 years, I have had only one sexual encounter.  I gave one blowjob to a guy in my hotel room (not a hire).  It has been my choice.  I have purposely had minimal contact with people during COVID.

I would argue that oral sex IS penetrative sex - it's a dick going into a hole.

[dutchal]

When this thread makes it to the top, just under the "The Race to 2 Million", it makes for an eye-catching juxtaposition,.

Edited April 4, 2022 by dutchal

[EZEtoGRU]

3 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I would argue that oral sex IS penetrative sex - it's a dick going into a hole.

Good point!!

[Luv2play]

When I once read that the guy who authored the detective series Maigret, a Belgian I believe, had had sex with over a thousand women, I stopped counting my encounters. I was already over 1000 at that point.

[+ Tygerscent]

Some unimaginable number for me… more of my DNA out there globally then Genghis Khan, (or at least a close runner up…)~ More mind boggling to think about is how many individual sperm that equates to~ Each tiny Pearl a pale blue dot…   
 I feel a Carl Sagan moment coming on: Billions and Billions… in some hungry butts~ The only home they’ve ever known~  😳🙈

Edited April 5, 2022 by Tygerscent

[+ Tygerscent]

On 4/3/2022 at 6:18 PM, EZEtoGRU said:

To quote a former POTUS, my answer "depends on what the definition of sex is".  If it's considered to be sexual intercourse, I would say 25-40 in my lifetime.  I have always been much more into oral sex than penetrative sex.  If oral sex is included, then my number would be over 1000.  So many trips to Brazil saunas...including living in Brazil for 2 years pushed the number up.  Also, during undergrad and grad school, I was a regular at the university bathrooms that had gloryholes.  So much good action there with young attractive guys.  I did six straight years of giving/getting BJ's in those bathrooms.  It's amazing how much oral sex was going on in university tea-rooms in the 70's/80's.  I wonder if that still goes on today?  

Sad fact:  In the last 2 years, I have had only one sexual encounter.  I gave one blowjob to a guy in my hotel room (not a hire).  It has been my choice.  I have purposely had minimal contact with people during COVID.

That’s pretty hot actually… (Men’s quarters limbo fest). I  tend to think there is much less of that these days… (for a number of reasons).

[+ Tygerscent]

On 4/3/2022 at 9:57 AM, MscleLovr said:

I’m a serial monogamist so I have only had numerous boyfriends in the intervals between partners.
 

I’ve no idea of the actual number. But like @Epigonos I keep photos as a record. I have digital photos of about 140 guys. 

I was historically a serial monogamist before becoming an Escort.
 Had one arranged marriage type thing that involved no sex beyond kissing and innocent, limited groping… Had some orgy type playful sex with kids in my neighborhood that didn’t involve anything oral, penetrative or cumming but, did involve some limited nudity… (innocent growing up stuff with consenting peers).  
  Had three long term monogamous relationships with women… then four monogamous relationships with men, (random limited encounters in between them), before becoming an Escort… 
 The rest is all a blur but, my recall of them is pretty clear and interestingly enough, has never been boring or redundant~ It’s endlessly fascinating.  

[jeezifonly]

Not exactly the number for many of you.

Not nearly enough? 
(That is not true. There is little left to surprise this old bird)