How Many Guys Have You Had Sex With?

[RuffLeatherPig]

850+

[+ Lucky]

I have had sex with 5 women. You?

[KrisParr]

In the hundreds for sure. And a few women as I recall, when I was in my experimental phase.

[+ SundayZip]

I haven't kept count but I just did a quick, back-of-the-envelope estimate: more than 50 and less than 100.

[+ keroscenefire]

I feel like if maybe since I can't remember them all, it must be a pretty large number. I'd say at least in the low hundreds. I used to live in Washington DC and absolutely hated it for romance and friendship (and in general). But it was a very good city for finding hookups as a young 20s dude. I only lived there 2 years but I probably got nearly 100 just in that time.

[KrisParr]

Now if I count having sex with myself, rough guess is at least 10K episodes. Seriously. I had quite an addiction in my younger days. But I finally got a grip on it. Hard to let go. I relapse now and then. Like during pandemics.

[CuriousByNature]

But I finally got a grip on it.

Please tell me this was an intentional play on words ?

[Lchnsf]

My goal b4 30 is 100 guys

I’ve easily had 100 before 30, maybe another 100 or more in my 30’s and much fewer than that since 40.

[Becket]

I cannot even begin to give an accurate answer. But not thousands. More in the early hundreds I would guess. So not so much. I can however provide an exact number, name, and face of every woman. Nine times. Well, nine women.

 

Just like the line in the movie "Ferris Buehler's (sic) Day Off." Niiiiiine Tiiiiiimes.

 

My claim to personal fame: One of those was the daughter of a Best Actor Oscar winner.

 

.....the roads we have trod........

[+ poolboy48220]

Probably about 400. My hire list is not-quite 200, and I could be quite the slut in the gym steamroom or the bathhouse.

 

2 women.

[+ Charlie]

When I was 22, and could still remember them all, I made a list, and there were 74. For about 20 years after that I was pretty active, because the whole gay sex scene opened up--clubs, baths, etc.--and I didn't bother with names; I would guesstimate about a hundred in an average year. Then everything came to a screeching halt with the arrival of AIDS, and after that the numbers have been pretty small, perhaps ten in a really active year, dwindling down to nothing for the past decade. Probably around 2000-2500 since #1, "Michel," who introduced me to all the basics (he claimed to be 18, but I'm now convinced that he had to be older).

[Merboy]

When I was 22, and could still remember them all, I made a list, and there were 74. For about 20 years after that I was pretty active, because the whole gay sex scene opened up--clubs, baths, etc.--and I didn't bother with names; I would guesstimate about a hundred in an average year. Then everything came to a screeching halt with the arrival of AIDS, and after that the numbers have been pretty small, perhaps ten in a really active year, dwindling down to nothing for the past decade. Probably around 2000-2500 since #1, "Michel," who introduced me to all the basics (he claimed to be 18, but I'm now convinced that he had to be older).

I've discovered that there's a lot of gay men that really have gone without for so long. So far this whole century seems to be much less sexy than the previous one.

[keefer]

Not enough...

[+ pdxleo]

Probably 36 gents or so- relationships, hookups and commercially. Ladies, 8- never paid for a lady tho!

[Stormy]

Over 500 I’d say. But lost count.

[azhiker]

Being the engineering type who loves spread sheets, I kept track since 1996 when I was 40.

758 guys, but the total has not increased during the current pandemic. ;-(

[Bargara Leatherboy]

I have had sex with 5 women. You?

 

Now that is a figure I can accurately report on!!

 

ZERO

 

Never touched a woman’s breast, nor explored any other part.

[Maximiliam]

Now that is a figure I can accurately report on!!

 

ZERO

 

Never touched a woman’s breast, nor explored any other part.

I've touch breast and butt but vagina scare me ?

[marylander1940]

I've discovered that there's a lot of gay men that really have gone without for so long. So far this whole century seems to be much less sexy than the previous one.

 

before there were cruising areas, parks, bars, bathhouses, gyms, etc. where we would go to get laid. Later on internet personals, manhunt and finally Grindr. Folks used to go to a place for a reason, find someone and have fun, now it's all at the tip of your fingers and it might be easier but at the same time many guys go online just wondering or while multitasking.

[Kippy]

Now that is a figure I can accurately report on!!

 

ZERO

 

Never touched a woman’s breast, nor explored any other part.

"Touch a breast or pick it up and all day long you'll have bad luck!"

 

Kipp

[liubit]

I have had sex with 5 women. You?

Grand total 3, but I have never, never, never licked pussy. Last time with a woman, almost 30 years ago.

[+ Archer]

Not enough. Would like many, many more.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

This thread got me thinking, I had an interesting trip down memory lane last night, i wrote down a list of all my hires, and i got to 110 sessions. I counted multiples with different providers, but they bulk were one of‘s.

 

Two gents I have seen 4 times, a couple 3 times a couple twice.

 

Some of the names eluded me, but i remembered them geographically, it was a fascinating walk down memory lane of the last 32 years

[harlow]

No way I could figure that out

[+ honcho]

No way I could figure that out

 

I (shamefully) don't remember all the guys I've had sex with but I could come up with an estimate, given how often I went to the tubs, or attended SM Play Parties over 40 some-odd years. My guess would be somewhere between 500-700 men.