Colton
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Colton got a reaction from + FreshFluff in Hanging out in Queens
If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, please call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (formerly known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline). The hotline offers 24/7 call, text and chat access to trained crisis counselors who can help people experiencing suicidal, substance use, and/or mental health crisis, or any other kind of emotional distress. People can also dial 988 if they are worried about a loved one who may need crisis support.
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Colton got a reaction from ICTJOCK in Hanging out in Queens
If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, please call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (formerly known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline). The hotline offers 24/7 call, text and chat access to trained crisis counselors who can help people experiencing suicidal, substance use, and/or mental health crisis, or any other kind of emotional distress. People can also dial 988 if they are worried about a loved one who may need crisis support.
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Colton reacted to + José Soplanucas in I pissed this escort off
Plus, if I were the escort (not this one), I would appreciate knowing why this potential client is not taking my business.
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Colton got a reaction from liubit in Locking up
I’m interested in locking myself up down there. Basically I want to make it harder to masterbate. Does anyone have any tips or lessons they can share?
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Colton got a reaction from marylander1940 in Balancing the risk and rewards of sex
Shameful that our puritan country doesn’t label such tests as preventive care without co-pay. If cost is an issue for someone, check out Planned Parenthood which offers free and discounted testing based on ability to pay.
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Colton reacted to MaybeMaybeNot in Balancing the risk and rewards of sex
I've been struggling with this, and I thought I'd reach out to you all for perspective and insight.
I didn't start having sex of any kind until I was 32. I didn't come out to myself until I was 40. Although I have had my share of sex, I've never had a really regular schedule of sex. I have an older partner whom I adore but takes meds that have killed his sex drive. We were never really compatible anyway (both are sides, he doesn't like to suck).
I am not on prep (not really into anal very much, worried about the side effects of the drug). I am pretty conservative sexually. I like kissing, touching, and getting sucked. In the past couple years, it's been harder to vet out possible partners. Last year, I met up with a guy after a dry spell, and he wanted me to 69. He was nice, good-looking, and I obliged. I never got his cum in my mouth, but I caught oral gonorrhea. I got really sick, not realizing I caught it, and had pain in my knees until I went in for routine testing. After I was all clear for that, I thought I learned my lesson. I went to a bar in the area where they have a "play" space. I ended up making out with two guys. I had a few other vanilla partners, and I got oral gonorrhea again just from kissing. (As the health provider said, "You have to kiss pretty deep," to which my response would be, "That's when it's fun.") I am pretty sure I got it from a guy who later talked about blowing a guy on a cruise ship a couple weeks before.
I am now very nervous about sex of any kind (I also got an STD about 7 years ago from a guy I should have followed my instinct in . . . his house was disgusting). My partner is understanding, but it's very embarrassing to go to a straight urgent care doctor and explain what happened, and it's embarrassing to tell my partner (who has anxiety around health issues).
How do you guys, who hire and have much more active sex lives, mitigate the health risks of your hobby and sex in general when consistent sex partners is almost impossible. I am meeting up with a guy who I met in the bar above tomorrow night for some naked cuddling, and after seeing a few guys suck on his cock in the bar, I'm not comfortable going too far when I really want to. Any insight would be appreciated.
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Colton got a reaction from SirBillybob in On what grounds can clients be reported on RM?
This sucks, but these are issues that many businesses face. Even back in the 80s, people would call in a pizza delivery order and send an order to a prank address.
I think the fool me once, shame on you, fools me twice, shame on me tule applies.
Have you tried working with RM to get the user banned?
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Colton got a reaction from TonyDown in Hanging out in Queens
If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, please call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (formerly known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline). The hotline offers 24/7 call, text and chat access to trained crisis counselors who can help people experiencing suicidal, substance use, and/or mental health crisis, or any other kind of emotional distress. People can also dial 988 if they are worried about a loved one who may need crisis support.
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Colton got a reaction from DWnyc in Hanging out in Queens
Surely it’s possible to do that without making light of a suicide. Personally think this thread should be deleted.
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Colton reacted to marylander1940 in When A Former Coworker turns up with an ad
Did you have a crush on him?
I would take him out for a drink instead of a coffee and ask "what's new with you lately?'. I don't think he'll be embarrassed to share his new career considering he openly displayed his face pic in the ad.
I've never even heard of a situation like this.
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Colton reacted to + purplekow in Interest or "microagression"?
Death by a thousand cuts. Each, individual, inconsequential. Cumulatively destructive.
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Colton reacted to jvanchicago in Spas in NYC
Hey guys,
Back to NYC next week and looking to line up some massage time. Tried out HK Men's Spa and had Felippe (was fine) and Serge (was phenomenal). Any other suggestions you guys might have? Going to try to book with Serge again, but since I'm only in a couple days want to have some other ideas. He was definitely what I was looking for, so anybody have suggestions like him, feel free to PM me!
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Colton got a reaction from jgoo in Porn stars I wish I could hire
he isn’t a porn star but I think this guy looks like Sean Ford:
LoveAngelxoxo - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Montreal, Quebec | RentMen
RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Montreal, Quebec - LoveAngelxoxo: Young twink looking for some fun 😉
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Colton got a reaction from marylander1940 in Hanging out in Queens
If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, please call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (formerly known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline). The hotline offers 24/7 call, text and chat access to trained crisis counselors who can help people experiencing suicidal, substance use, and/or mental health crisis, or any other kind of emotional distress. People can also dial 988 if they are worried about a loved one who may need crisis support.
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Colton reacted to CuriousByNature in 2023 Best Gay Vacation Locations in US and Canada for Single Men?
Alberta has lots of oil so it's surprising the US hasn't invaded yet
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Colton got a reaction from + augustus in Hanging out in Queens
If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, please call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (formerly known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline). The hotline offers 24/7 call, text and chat access to trained crisis counselors who can help people experiencing suicidal, substance use, and/or mental health crisis, or any other kind of emotional distress. People can also dial 988 if they are worried about a loved one who may need crisis support.
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Colton reacted to nate_sf in Hanging out in Queens
I think the reference to bad taste was in reference to the original post and the title of the thread. REALLY bad taste. And to use someone’s suicide as so-called “click bait” … jeeeez.
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Colton got a reaction from marylander1940 in Hanging out in Queens
What is the point of this thread?
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Colton got a reaction from CarolinaRen in Hanging out in Queens
If you or someone you know is at risk of suicide, please call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (formerly known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline). The hotline offers 24/7 call, text and chat access to trained crisis counselors who can help people experiencing suicidal, substance use, and/or mental health crisis, or any other kind of emotional distress. People can also dial 988 if they are worried about a loved one who may need crisis support.
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Colton got a reaction from + Lucky in Hanging out in Queens
Surely it’s possible to do that without making light of a suicide. Personally think this thread should be deleted.
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