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I have to say I am kind of blown away by how good some escorts are.  
My first hire ever was a little less than a year ago. Not sure what I was looking for but expectations weren't high. There were a handful of guys I met who were good, fair, average, and some not great. But I met one dude and when the connection is there and they're good at what they do, HOLY FUCK.  He and I have since traveled out of the country together, etc.  This man really set the bar in my mind so high it was going to be unbreakable. I'm not even talking about just good sex, but he makes me want to be a better person. When I am ready to get off the bike or don't want to do another rep, picturing this guy makes me stay on the treadmill for another few minutes or push through the last few reps a little harder. Love it. 
So last night in a random city, I did the usual homework and hired someone else and it was another version of the first guy above. Just absolutely incredible. This isn't just some of the best sex I have had in my life, or 'paying for sex' but a real high in every way possible. 
Here are some notes on what I have learned: 
Do your homework on providers. The more thorough and well-written their profile is, the better. The time and energy they put into their online persona is directly correlated to the time and energy they will put into you as a client.  Reviews are everything. Both of these guys have 5.0 across the board. One has 60-70 reviews, all five stars. The other has over 120 reviews, again all 5.0. Not 4.7, 4.8, or even 4.9. I'm talking 5.0. If they can pull that off, they are doing something fucking awesome. It's not even up for debate.  Be nice. Be upfront. Explain what you want and approach with respect always.  If you're just looking for quick sex, find a hot guy and have a blast. Sure. That's sort of easy, right? But if you're open, there is so much more you can get from these transactions. Just open your mind and fully figure out what you want and need. 
That's all for now. Later guys.

@FrancisCA some here consider name changing an immediate “red flag”. I do not consider it so…thanks for updating us! 

If there's water left, you always make sure you're in shower/toilet 10mins or so after you do it, or how ever long it takes to push out. You may think it's all out , but it's also  better to be safe. If you get too deep you're gonna wanna make sure you're in there until it comes out. It's a process and you don't wanna rush it, so take your time. 

If there's water left, you always make sure you're in shower/toilet 10mins or so after you do it, or how ever long it takes to push out. You may think it's all out , but it's also  better to be safe. If you get too deep you're gonna wanna make sure you're in there until it comes out. It's a process and you don't wanna rush it, so take your time. 

Just ask them. I do all the time for facial hair.
Just word it nicely. Like: "I saw your ads, and your hair is different in each photo, so can you let me know how your body hair is now?"

I don't mind it. I'd rather suffer a little hurt feelings and get turned down than pay someone who can't rally after seeing me. Then my feelings are hurt AND I'm out a bunch of money. 

PLUS: I've seen many pictures of said person by now. It's only fair in my mind for said person to see a couple of me. In fact, I'll sometimes offer to send a picture if I've had a good phone conversation. I will not send a picture after just a brief text exchange. 

No doubt they have that right, but chances are their business won't do well imo. 

No doubt they have that right, but chances are their business won't do well imo. 

Exactly, I think that's just part of it and that's why it's not for everyone. I don't think providers should demand to see a picture of a client.

I think there’s no good reason for requiring a picture. It’s just because he’s being picky about who his client is, and that is a sign he’s doing the work as a way to earn a bit of money from his sex life. So beware if you’re asked for a pic.
There are ways of getting around the recognition issue of buzzing in to a secured building. Many intercoms don’t have video anyway. Just give the client a password to say. And if meeting in a hotel lobby I usually just tell my client what I’m wearing and where I’m sitting and they find me. 
I saw a client recently at a hotel and sent him a description of what I was wearing once I’d arrived in the lobby. He texted back with his attire. Was easy to find each other. Only once I’d sent the text did I realise that I couldn’t really be missed…I had my portable massage table next to me 😂
 

Some might, but I've never ask for pics for the simple reason is a lot of men lien privacy and discretion, which I completely understand 

I like it when providers have their rates and travel info in the automated messages. Helps reduce some of the texting back and forth.

Thanks to everyone.

This is a bit of an odd question but what is the ideal length to see a masseur/escort if you want to use their services on a regular or semi regular basis? I imagine there is no single answer but would like to see what the average is. 

Some RentMen clients (such as myself) explain exactly what they're looking for. It saves time to just text someone a link.
Most do not, though. And I (like most clients, I'm guessing) only hire when I want to.
Personally, I'd like to hold online auctions. I post my general address and what I'm looking for, and send it out for bids. Lowest bid that I find attractive wins RFP!.  

I was under the impression rentmen services were legal in Las Vegas.  Recently, I needed a massage badly.  One guy who noticed I visited their profile began messaging me.  When I arrived to the area he asked if I could pick him up from the airport & he would stay the night & other things I never mentioned.  Suspicious….It prompted me to delve further into the legalities in Vegas.  Discovered escorts have to have some form of card or business backing them & brothels cannot be in counties with more than 700,000 ppl making it illegal in Vegas. 
All that said…is it safe to get a massage from Rentmen in Vegas?  And wb Cali? How do I ensure I am staying within the confines of the law w/o freaking the guy out? 

When allllll the photos are model shots. 
 
when the most recently uploaded pic is 3 years old. 
 
when a provider gives enough details for me to ID one of their clients. 

I take offense (not personally) at referring to online dating apps as “thrift store”. There are plenty who would refer to the RM apps and both the providers and clients using them in certain ways that all of us on here might find offensive too.
The needs and outcomes of apps like Grindr are different from the RMs. You’re in serious business trouble if you think Grindr is your competition in any way. Time, inconvenience etc that comes from using those apps have low effective value to the demographic markets you describe.
Of course apps like Grindr affect how people communicate when it comes to arranging to meet. Just like Craigslist did before and gay bars did too once people didn’t have to hang out in public restrooms and behind the bushes in a park as the only way to meet. Engaging providers is not the default norm in how people seek intimacy, but the preserve of a few lucky folks.
And if people are assuming you are an extension of Grindr you need to assess that and cut them off quicker if it happens as much as you say and as it seems to affect you. Or perhaps think about how you are marketing yourself.
 

Honestly if RM allowed you to post the rates on there, I feel like it would help avoid all the back and forth. That way the price is already shown and if they can't do the price, they can move on.

Honestly if RM allowed you to post the rates on there, I feel like it would help avoid all the back and forth. That way the price is already shown and if they can't do the price, they can move on.

Honestly if RM allowed you to post the rates on there, I feel like it would help avoid all the back and forth. That way the price is already shown and if they can't do the price, they can move on.

Honestly if RM allowed you to post the rates on there, I feel like it would help avoid all the back and forth. That way the price is already shown and if they can't do the price, they can move on.

Honestly if RM allowed you to post the rates on there, I feel like it would help avoid all the back and forth. That way the price is already shown and if they can't do the price, they can move on.

Honestly if RM allowed you to post the rates on there, I feel like it would help avoid all the back and forth. That way the price is already shown and if they can't do the price, they can move on.

This guy includes in his RM page a video in which we hear him talk.    https://rentmen.eu/Hotbra  I think it’s a very effective marketing tool, but very few escorts do it. Any reason not to? Thinking of the voices of all of the escorts I’ve hired, their voices would make them even more attractive to potential clients.