KensingtonHomo

Not every sexual encounter ends in orgasm. This is more the case as we age. And some of us can orgasm without necessarily ejaculating.

This sounds like many of the friends I had in college who were obsessed with straight men. Most of them are now middle-aged and alone. They never had a significant relationship. The rest of us (straight and gay) met partners, some had kids, and now we're enjoying our success. These guys sometimes find married guys who let them blow them. But that's it. Very sad. I do agree that it can be easy to find straight men who are willing to let you pleasure them. One needs only to have no self-esteem or standards. Or get them very drunk, which is borderline SA. Men don't respect the slutty cheerleader. And comparing oneself favorably to a Jewish collaborator of the Gestapo who may have sent up to 3,000 of her peers to the camps before converting to Christianity and becoming an avowed anti-Semite is wild.

There are 6 guys who look exactly like him at 3 Dollar Bill every weekend. If you mean providers, I can look into it.

Again, you're mistaken. You made a bunch of homophobic comments. I pointed them out. It's not about you "hitting a nerve" or me "coping." I'm a very successful person, in a two-plus-decade relationship with a large family and friends. I just stand up when people are smearing my community. In the future, keep your nasty, homophobic comments to yourself.

This is kind of a unicorn you're looking for - few mature men are hairless. I agree @BonVivant that you should go on Rentmen and use the search filters.

I didn't offer you help, and no nerves were hit. I've long since deconstructed all the anti-queer and misogynistic ideas I grew up with. I hope the same for you.

Internalized homophobia is horrible. May you heal.

JFC

This just demonstrates a complete ignorance of history. There is no such thing as "intrinsic beauty." In heterosexuality, there are certain physical attributes that identify males and females are more likely to be fertile, whereas "blond surfer boy", which dates back to maybe the 1960s.

Are you this escort’s publicist? I don’t hate him. And I certainly do not feel inferior to or threatened by him. You make the mistake most men do, which is assuming that other people share your values, desires and priorities. You find this man attractive. I do not. 😂

I’m shocked. SHOCKED! That you - a person hypercritical of almost everyone’s appearance- was/is the exact type that was universally admired and found attractive in the late 1990. I mean, what are the odds that a blonde white man considers himself the pinnacle of attractiveness? So you benefited from white supremacy and colonialism which exported euro centric beauty ideals? See above comment about colonialism. But I’ve never denied that the majority of people find conventionally attractive people attractive. That’s literally why it’s a convention. it’s you who cannot admit that such conventions are largely manufactured by systemic oppression and marketing. Look at the emaciated status of most A List actresses. They’re trying to look a specific way because of fashion standards even though most straight men do not find extremely thin women attractive. 🤷🏼‍♂️

I regret that I've stumbled into a battle of wits with an unarmed opponent. Have a day!

I don’t think it would deter me. He kind of can’t leave a certain area.

No, not almost everyone else does. That guy would be hard-pressed to elicit interest in many of the NYC clubs outside of the Village or Hell's Kitchen. And who said they were sex trafficked because of their looks?

I don't find that type attractive and it's a really dated reference. And the former CEO was running a sex trafficking ring that abused a lot of young men.

No risk for me. Anyone who describes themselves as a “Abercrombie” type is a 🚩.

Update: We had Shawn over to massage my husband and me. He's a very sweet guy. Good technique - especially if you want your knots worked out. His body is as nice or better then the photos. Shawn's definitely down for extras but not "deli/full service."

Yes, we paid for the good Wifi! The cruise was in Greece - maybe that impacted it.

Do the apps work on these ships? When we were on a cruise the GPS necessary for the apps to locate people didn't work. You had to be in port to use them.

Nooooope.

It seems I'm the opposite of you. I find that I'm more selective with the type of person a provider is, rather than their looks. That said, I've always been attracted to men in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. I typically don't find men in their 20s attractive and really never have. Now that I'm the age I used to desire, I haven't really found a significant change - except perhaps I now find men in their 60s and 70s attractive as well. I generally think that the focus on youth = beauty is very much a creation of advertising and marketing. And particularly in our digital age, we're hyper-focused on appearance when that's really only one component of attraction. I've been with my husband for 24 years, and I find him just as attractive now as I did when we met. I feel like aging also lets people become more themselves. I imagine that's part of what you find attractive in women your own age. Assuming you're at least my age, I find that at this point, most women have stopped trying to impress other people; they have gravitas and know what they want. Perhaps you can see that in other men.

Curious if anyone has seen Luis yet.

Yeah. He's been around. I don't recall his previous screen name but I've seen him once and it was a good experience. It was a while ago so I don't recall the details. He goes by Shawn Ryan.

Just don’t hire him. He’s a hooker not your husband you wanted bury in a Jewish cemetery.

Maybe I’m very kissable but I’ve rarely had a provider who lists kissing not follow through.