KensingtonHomo

Okay, now I'm on to you. There have been a few long-time members who have recently stopped posting. I'm fairly certain you're one of them, as your writing style is nearly identical. A similar obsession with youth and beauty being the only currency in sex work. Why am I not a professional athlete? Maybe because I don't like sports. I also don't hire "Instagram models" because I don't find that type attractive.

He joined Rentmen like three weeks ago. He has a basic, white-guy gym body. Requesting stats probably means he wants to meet up with other "hot guys." My guess is that he lost his job and is trying to make money as an escort, but he probably isn't really cut out for it.

Girl, I don't know who you think you're talking to, but this response reads as a TROLL. You come in swinging on someone who is among the first to advocate for providers and - as said above - am happy to pay a reasonable deposit. You have totally gotten the wrong person. There may be people like that on here but I'm not one of them. Rather, I'm an excellent client with several regulars. This part, I believe. I'm an above-average-looking, fit, and fun guy of a similar age. So our experiences are bound to be different. "The top of the food chain..." is exactly the kind of toxic thinking that leads clients to treat providers poorly.

Not to open this can of worms, but you're new here, so I would say I'm happy to make a deposit to prove I'm serious. I am not willing to send more than $50. And that's assuming everything else has already checked out. Most people who are going to send $50 are serious. And the two times I've gone over that, the deposit was not returned even though I needed to change plans for reasons beyond my control. We're all human and there are excellent providers. I try to see them, give them reviews and, when possible, send them business. We recently had a great provider who was visiting from London. I recommended him to a friend who frequently goes to London for business, and he's seen him twice. Then there are shitty providers, who won't return a deposit when you need to change plans and it's 72 hours or more in advance. And the same applies to clients. But based on any time spent on Grindr, etc., I would guess clients flake a lot more than providers. Because I see how guys act when there's no money on the table.

I'm a paid subscriber. I leave reviews for nearly every guy we see, unless it's a mediocre or poor experience. I don't see the point in leaving bad reviews, though I haven't had many terrible experiences. I do mention bad experiences here.

He's a bit verbal, not overly so.

I have run into providers - particularly at nightclubs and bars - a few times at a concert. As others have said, we just acknowledge each other, chat briefly and move on. I don't find it awkward in the least. And it may also be the inherent anonymity of NYC, but if anyone asks, I just say, "Oh, he's a friend of friend I've hung out with a few times."

Finding a sugar daddy at 38 is a stretch but I wish him luck.

“High net worth” bottoms? 😂😂😂😂😂 He looks kind of roided up in his pics, which doesn’t appeal to me.

Literally just e-transfer when it’s over. 🤷🏻

To answer the question. We are pretty circumspect about who we tell. Mostly, it's very close friends who are extremely sexually liberal. They don't care. There's another level - also very small who know that we're "monogamish" (as we only see others together). We sometimes share our adventures (both hiring and not) without mentioning when we've hired.

We're missing the tone of how he was asking or mentioning it. Was it curiosity? Was it judgmental? If it was curiosity or intrigue, he may be worth seeing again, and also expressing that his focus on it was off-putting.

Nope. But it was a small price to pay to get rid of him.

Come on Madonna fan!

Can you tell us what your limits are? Like are you looking for someone into BDSM? Similarly, what are your button? You mentioned kissing but is it a big dick, oral, etc? I have a few guys in mind, but the best choice depends on what you're looking for.

I agree with others. Unless you can provide some additional context, it's hard to offer you any advice.

He's cute, but just the one face pic and his description is pretty vague. He's only been on RM for a month. I'm curious if anyone has seen him.

I saw him a few months ago. Nothing sensual at all and as other mentioned his art is all over the apartment so it smells like clay. It was distracting.

Yeah. A lot of guys just leave that on. Even when RM says "Provider is available for the next 6 hours", you can contact them and not get a response.

I don't carry cash so I use apps unless an escort explicitly asks for it. With the countless transactions occurring between people through all these apps, I don't have any concern about the digital trail. I also feel like if providers are willing to accept it, it's more likely they would run into issues having to explain all the transfers and yet they don't.

I guess. I was pretty fair. It was a single incident - I know it wasn't intentional. My discomfort stems from being pretty open with him in the moment. He apologized but didn't offer a discount or another session until it became a PR problem. Definitely a technique issue. Overenthusiasm. It happens - it's happened in my personal life.

I was commuting to work. At the first stop in Manhattan, a few people got on and said the World Trade Center had been struck by a plane. Being cynical NYers, most seemed to assume it was an accident. At the next stop, more people got on who were very distressed - closer to the WTC - which is when it began to click that something terrible had happened. When I got off in Midtown, I exited the subway, and there was no traffic and no one on the street. It was about 8:55 am in midtown NYC. It was like 28 Days Later. I walked into my usual bagel store and first saw the footage. It was horrifying. I had a flip phone but all the lines were clogged. At my office, everyone was in the boardroom watching CNN when the second plane struck. I ran to my office and started calling people I knew who lived or worked near WTC. All my closest were safe, but I would later learn that a cousin who was a firefighter died in the Towers. After a couple of hours, we were all sent home.

Fair enough but I think it’s bad form for a provider to contact me as this one did. I’m purposely not naming him here bc I think he’s a good provider. Not for me, but others have had good experiences, he has a lot of good reviews, and I’ve heard nice things from clients I’m friendly with.

Oh, I should have said the message was trying to guilt me. I didn't fall for it, hence the post.

A few weeks ago, I shared an experience where a provider injured me - unintentionally - during an encounter. Someone here either screen-grabbed it or sent the link to the provider in question. Last night, I received a multi-paragraph and fairly overwrought message from the provider saying how awful he felt, and he couldn't sleep, and could he make it up to me for free. Here's the problem. When it happened, I was bleeding. I told him I was bleeding and had to use his bathroom. The bleeding wasn't severe, and it's not my first time at the rodeo. Obviously, that was the end of the session, and I have no desire to see him again. He did not at that time offer me a free session to make up for it. Nor did he message me the next day to say he couldn't sleep. I also didn't leave him a bad review on Rent.men because while he was too aggressive I don't think he meant to hurt me. I only shared my experience here because someone was considering him, and I wanted them to know he got too aggressive with me. So to have that sent to him sucks. As for his message, it feels more like public relations than sincerity. Again, didn't offer to comp a session, took his full fee, etc. And, honestly, didn't seem that broken up by it at the time. Thanks to whoever made me relive a bad experience and then a guilt-inducing message from the person responsible.