KensingtonHomo

I agree with gist here but there were many ways to phrase this without insulting clients by suggesting we’re all less attractive or desirable than you are. I hire mostly for convenience. I’m perfectly capable of getting laid by very attractive men anywhere their 20s - rarely my type - to their 60s. But being married and enjoying threesomes with my husband complicates matters. And when together we tend to draw mostly twinks and bottoms. Again, not our preference. So rather then waste time on apps, which are annoying, or stay our past my bedtime, hiring is the most efficient means of getting who we want when we want him. it’s funny when we were in PV, we hired a couple oF guys but the best hook up we had was with another guest at our hotel. We met him at a club, started chatting, he was tall, lean and handsome. He was very sweet and naughty, kissing us on the dance floor. So we asked him back to our room, had a great languid shower, and then two hours of incredible sex. It reminded me of the great one night stands and flings I had when I was single in NYC before apps. You could meet a guy and talk for a couple of hours really enjoy their company and connect which always lead to really hot sex. It’s a bummer most millennials and younger don’t get that experience. Maybe more relevant to @BCMan original question. We tend to host at our home and I’m neurotic about that place being clean. It’s a working class thing I cannot get rid of. But I have gotten better at assuming I’ve done my job to assure a providers comfort and then I tell them what we want. 😈

They meet you with no deposit and you just leave if the vibe is off? That seems like you’re wasting their time TBH.

You and @Vegas_Millennial are so tedious. What part of I was being facetious did you not understand? I have never in my life had swamp crotch, bo or left over fecal matter in my ass because I know how to clean myself. But your own ignorance of STI transmission is wild. It's basic sex ed to not go ass to mouth or ass to vagina. Because microscopic organisms that cause STI can be transmitted that way. But, by all means, enjoy the Giardia.

I was being somewhat facetious. The issue isn't cleanliness, it's just a desire for fresh breath. They could pop a mint too.

I think anyone who’s given a great rim job can use some mouthwash especially if they want to kiss me.

It's kind of sad that you don't see how much internalized bullshit you've swallowed to feel this way. Like, does this painting an average man in his 70s really provoke disgust in you? He seems totally normal and, if we're lucky, someday we'll look like that. I'm not sure I'd hire someone who looked like that or that someone at that age would even want to do sex work. But if my husband looks like that in his 70s, I wouldn't be remotely put off.

Have you picked an expiration date for yourself? I believe we're close in age so how many years do we have before too grossly old or ugly? Like is 70 the cut off? 80? I do agree with Kyle in that I'd rather know in advance if someone isn't actually an escort but just monetizing their sex life, but most of the escorts I know and we see post here are much more concerned with hygiene, kindness and having good customers than how "hot" they are.

People who hire sex workers shouldn't be blaming them for being selectively prosecuted by DHS for simply entering the country. Most of our elites belong to a pedophile protection ring but you want some escort held accountable for violating a stupid fucking law. People should have the same rights to cross borders as capital does.

Yes, there has been targeted development but the overall pipeline is extremely small and a lot of it is backed by government funding. Yes, there has been targeted development, but the overall pipeline is extremely small, and a lot of it is backed by government funding.

Yes. He's great. Actually, he's based in DC but comes to NYC a few times a year.

Yup. I work in this area and treatment resistant strains of gonarhea are on the rise. Another guy I know got a treatment resistant UTI (sexually transmitted). And no one is developing new antibiotics because there’s no money in it. That’s not to harsh people’s buzz but staying up to date on testing is important.

This is one of my favorite things to do (get done). I had a really good time with https://rent.men/BiDomVerbal and my husband taking turns. My endurance was quite impressive, according to him. More recently, Sam was pretty good at it, but it wasn't the focus: https://rent.men/SweetMascMan Oh and SeamusOfIreland is great too.

If this is the case, then those people cannot afford to have you travel to them to provide your services.

Even if I'm the bottom in a threesome, I keep wet wipes at hand so dicks can easily be wiped off between asses or going from ass to mouth. It's not remotely a mood killer. I've been to a few sex parties, and it's very common to see guys just kneel in front of someone and start sucking their dick. After I watched many of them top other guys, there was no chance I was going to just blow them. I did notice some guys going and washing themselves between partners but it didn't seem consistent. I work in infectious disease and have no desire to end up deathly ill from a GI STI.

I agree with this. I do consulting and public speaking, and if the client expects me to travel outside of my city, they cover my travel and lodging expenses. That's part of the contract agreed upon upfront.

This is very important. I'm not sure if it's only premium members, but on RM, you can look up a reviewer's profile and see their other reviews. I like this because you can easily tell who is real and who is suspicious. People were recently asking about how to evaluate a new provider. Well, if they're reviewed by someone on RM with a bunch of reviews that are solid, that's as good - to me - as someone on here. And I did recently end up hiring someone despite their having one bad review out of three, because the client had given EVERYONE bad reviews.

Speaking the truth about someone who was enormously influential in destroying the New Deal era economy which has led to precarity not seen in this country since the Giffed Age, is not tacky. Lionizing someone who largely created the dot com Bubble and the 2008 housing crisis which managed to enrich the wealthy while impoverishing the middle class is just keeping the record clear. Death does not absolve someone of their life’s work.

Incorrect. The great period of economic expansion is 120 months from 1991 to 2001. https://www.forbes.com/sites/davidmarotta/2020/01/21/longest-economic-expansion-in-united-states-history/ Greenspan is also widely considered to be one of the people most responsible for the 2008 financial crisis. https://content.time.com/time/specials/packages/article/0,28804,1877351_1877350_1877331,00.html I'd say more but we cannot discuss politics.

Honestly couldn’t be happier to see this ghoul finally shuffle off this mortal coil. That said, he died from pneumonia, which is a largely preventable infection.

This is an incredibly simple explanation of a much more complex topic. But, masculinity is indeed culturally constructed, reliant on a context of binary gender and subjective. The way most A List actors of today exercise, groom themselves, and get plastic surgery, would be considered extremely feminine by the standards of Marlon Brando’s generation. I suspect you’re under the spell of some incredibly narrow and harmful construction of masculinity that unbeknownst to you was constructed in an advertising boardroom.

Not only is it subjective. It varies greatly across cultures and throughout history. Look at the representations of masculinity from Don Draper to Andrew Tate to Prince William. Many would argue that only Tate is truly representative of masculinity, when he's a vile misogynist and human trafficker. Others would say Prince William, with his kindness and athleticism, is a positive example, while Tate and Draper are "toxic." And that subjectivity is just within the Western world. Reading is free.

As a bottom, if there’s even a bit of a mess, I’d have to stop and clean up again

I generally prefer to be with men taller than me. I'm 5'11", so that rules out like 60 percent of US men. But it's a preference, not an absolute. I've had lots of fun with men of various heights. I had a great time with a 5'7" Venezuelan guy in PV. Obviously, if someone is significantly shorter or taller than me, it can limit what we do in certain positions. But a skilled lover and good communication can make nearly any height differential work. My ideal height is 6'2"-6'5". We recently spent a lovely time with a guy who was 6'5." Bottoming for him was so easy and natural because he could easily kiss me, talk to me, and so on.

I was a big pothead in my teens and sex was the last thing on my mind when I was high. I can't imagine that it would impact desire or an erection. That said, lots of guys like to smoke a joint and fuck, so who knows

I'm not sure it's common but we've done it with several guys. Can't hurt to ask.