KensingtonHomo

I'm not sure it's grainy from being old so much as using one of the filters that make photos look like polaroids. His other pics look very recent and aren't grainy.

The only one I've been with is BGFO and he's incredible. It's hard to recommend without knowing what you're looking for or like. Ronan is on my wish list, but the timing thus far hasn't worked out. I believe he took a break for a while so that played a role.

Avoid him at all costs. I made a deposit (not $500). Then he started insisting on wanting a longer session, which I did not. I repeatedly told him that I do not like haggling as it's a huge turnoff. But he kept going. Then, he wanted to change the time. I let him know I was no longer interested and would appreciate my deposit back. He insisted he wanted to keep the appointment. He's incredibly entitled and irritating to interact with. Thankfully, I had never given him my address or my real number because he continued to contact me long after I cancelled. Eventually, I had to block him on my phone and Rent.men. I have no idea how many people he rips off with this game he plays, but I wouldn't go anywhere near him.

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I wouldn't want you to put yourself in danger. I, though, am not afraid of these wannabe Christians.

Oddly like you @pubic_assistance I generally read and consume media from outside the US for the same reasons you states. However, you’re assuming that @NipLuvr212 has created an echo chamber because he said he uses his values to guide his consumption. He may value news with little editorial interference. Or he may value reading a paper like the Financial Times like I do. I do not agree with the pro-capitalist editorial stance of FT, but their reporting is very good. The same could be said of the Wall Street Journal. For American sources, I tend to trust AP and Reuters for just the facts or breaking news as they tend not to editorialize. Then I read the Guardian, Le Monde, and FT. And I follow commentators who analysis I trust and who make clear that “X” is a fact about which the have “Y” opinion.

Why would anyone go to this horrible place? They have enslaved people working in construction. Human trafficking of women and girls. They’re vile and corrupt. They also hate queer people. Why not spend your money in counties that protect and support us? (Also don’t come to the US if you can avoid it.)

If someone’s is trying to get you to convert to a faith that brutally punishes same sex intimacy would you let them believe that you agree?

He’s a piss top; meaning he will piss on you. Yes, a massage gun can be helpful if you have an area that’s bothering you but I’ve never had a good massage that included one. It typically means the guy doesn’t know what he’s doing.

This happened 6 years ago. The NY Post is a mouthpiece for the NYPD, who are lamenting that weed was decriminalized. They exploited this poor girl’s murder to ratchet up a culture war issue. There hasn’t been a murder in that park since. This is a horrible tragedy but the number of white girls killed by men they knew dwarfs this one instance.

This is literally racist language. Who is this Columbia girl? Is she a fantasy in your head? I used to buy from black guys in Bushwick when I was a teenager. A very gay teenager. Never had an issue. Meanwhile a girl I grew up with was stabbed to death by her white drug dealer boyfriend in our white neighborhood.

Most of his reviews on Rentmen over the past 5-10 years describe someone you will not want to meet.

He has “findom” in his profile. That’s an immediate 🚩 for me.

We saw Jacob in Provincetown and he’s really wonderful. Easy to communicate with to set things up. Showed up on time. He’s got a great friendly energy to him. We chatted for a while. He’s very easy to talk to. Then the sex itself was fun and easy. For his age, his firmness was impressive. (It would be impressive for a 19-year-old.) Good kisser. Oral top with a lot of passion and a bit of Dom energy. I imagine he could dial that up if it’s your scene. Definitely recommend.

If you’re serious about your faith, you can say that you know he’s excited about his own faith but your prefer to keep religion out of your relationship. If he can’t respect that boundary, I’d find someone else.

I run a nonprofit and before that I was a fundraiser for many years. I have certainly offered advice to people looking to do the same. Usually, they’re really looking to create a service or solve a problem in their community. Within reason, I’m happy to provide some pointers because I had a lot of help when I was launching mine. To me, it’s very different than someone who’s looking to create a profit-based business. Because of the particular sector I work in, like @Ali Gator I’m a minor celebrity which also brings larger, for-profit entities knocking- wanting advice, me to speak to their staff, etc. I used to do it for cost, but then I realized I was selling myself short. So now I’ll still give advice to peers or those needing some mentorship but I charge all those who can really afford it. And I also serve on a couple of Boards for which I’m not paid.

No. I’ve dragged you for being needlessly cruel, fatphobic, perpetuating unrealistic body standards, and your virulence agism. I honestly do not care who you personally find attractive. While I have a broad palette, I also have a few types that really get me going. That’s cool. When people post providers I find attractive, I say do. When they post providers I do not find attractive, 95% of the time, I keep it to myself. On top of your harsh treatment of providers you regularly claim that most members here are old troglodytes who couldn’t get a hand job without forking over some cash. First, that’s not true. We’re in P Town right now and start off our week having a hook up with a gorgeous local bartender 20 years our junior who had an 8-pack. And we keep getting hit up by every twink in a 10 mile radius. Lots of younger gay man see into older guys. Second, internecine cruelty about age and appearance is horrible for our community. It reduces us to sexual commodities only as valuable as our abs or facial symmetry. And given that you’re not really part of the community, your toxic commentary is doubly irritating. Worst, you present your comments as if you’re proclaiming a brave truth against the “woke,” when you’re just perpetuating incredibly harmful stereotypes and marketing garbage meant to make people feel insecure. All you need to do in order to get people off your back is keep your negative opinions to yourself.

Girl, I have never once said “everyone is beautiful.” I have said I have a broad palette and rebuked you and others for being unnecessarily cruel when making nasty comments about others’ appearance or weight or age. Since you’re so OUT, post some pics of yourself and we’ll let you know what we think about your appearance. 😂😂😂

I haven’t really run into this. We’ve had one or two over 6 years of hiring that were slightly off, but nothing dramatic. I did once have a guy who was using someone else’s photos but he was also hot so it turned out okay.

The nature of my work doesn’t lend itself to providing assistance to providers. Still, we have one long time provider who I’ve offered General life advice and free back on his projects (he does film). We even saw a movie with him at one point. This has muddied the relationship. Now he’ll message us to “hang out”, which means hire him. The first time I thought he genuinely meant it and I suggested he join us for something. He then awkwardly made it clear that he was looking to be hired. To be clear, if we had hire him for his services, we’re happy to pay. I socialize with my hair stylist and some other people who also have some work for me. But those lines are pretty clear. He recently reached out to “get together.” I was direct and said money was tight following our anniversary trip. He didn’t respond after that. So now it just feels icky to me. 🤷🏻

Yes. They were. In fact, some of the earlier people fighting for our rights were gender nonconforming people - way back before Stonewall. And most queer people are harmed not for having gay sex but for not conforming to gender stereotypes. This was literally my senior thesis.

Again, you can only live in this fantasy because if I refute your claim with facts, I’ll be suspended.

Bingo.

There’s no way to refute your sunny version of events without violating the “no politics” rule of this forum. But we are very much under attack by the same reactionary forces that have alway hated us. They’re coming for all the gains we’ve made since the 1980s - from non discrimination in public accommodations to marriage equality.

Girl, your entire rant proves the points that were made about you by myself and others. But let me address what you have to say about me. I don’t care who is or isn’t willing to fuck you as long as it isn’t me. Putting aside that not everyone is everyone’s type, I’ve been out since I’m 16 and never once had difficulty dating the men I’m interested in. My husband of nearly 24 years is a former model and musical theater actor. He’s matured into such a silver fox in his 50s that I have to beat twinks off of him. Regarding my own looks, you “mistake” (or pretend to) my broad palette and general compassion for an admission that I’m physically subpar. I understand why you wish that were the case, but I regret to inform you that I’m very attractive. I went from a “heroin chic” twink in the 90s to a fit white collar professional in 2000s to my current status as a very handsome, fit middle-aged man with an ass most 30 year olds wish they had. I am generally mistaken for 10-15 years younger than my 52 years. Hell, I never even needed braces! if this site was about a different subject, I’d post photos just to gag you. Suffice it to say I look like the love child of Pierce Brosnan and Domhall Gleason. And I’ve chatted with several CoM members who can attest to that. Nevertheless, even if you are a “10”, that doesn’t give you license to disparage providers or clients. That you have the relentless need to suggests a deep insecurity that no amount of sex with perky assed twunks will ever alleviate. And for that you have my sympathy.