KensingtonHomo

He's not new. He's been on Rent.men for ages; kind of mixed reviews.

We generally don't hire beyond 2 hours. But often a provider will discount the second hour. So if their rate is $300/hour, they'll do 2 for $500.

Not to beat a dead horse, but you having a contract gives you more protections than an employee that’s “at will.” Without knowing more about this member’s situation it’s hard to say if he’s dealing with embarrassment or something more dangerous to his wellbeing.

Family is perhaps Jude embarrassment but we don’t know if he’s married or something that could cause a real upset. And because hiring is illegal - presuming he’s in the US - it’s possible that his employer finding out could cost him his job. If he’s not in a union or working for a government agency, most private employers are “at will” and can fire someone without cause.

Well now I feel empowered to insist on a certain length!

I have a preference for moderate to very hairy guys, so that's what I search for. I find that many providers have photos where they are shown with body hair in some and shaved/waxed in others. What I'm wondering is whether or not I should ask if the provider is current "natural" or shaved/waxed. I tend not to want a provider to feel pressured to change anything about themselves for me. And if they just shaved or waxed, there's nothing they can do to grow their hair back. I'm curious to know if clients ask about this and if providers are open to discussing it.

I reached out to him this week. After an initial chat, he asked to move to Telegram to share his face pics. That was fine. I said what and when we were looking for. I asked his for his rate and pics. He responded by saying he's "all top", which mostly means he doesn't give oral. I said that wasn't mandatory. That was 8/27. 8/28 - I asked how he was doing and that we'd like to see his face. He said he great and then went quiet. 8/29 - He said he was "sorry for the delay and happy to share" but before he does he wants to know a bit more about what we're looking for." I explained (again) and he responded saying he wasn't available at the time we had discussed three days earlier and asked if that was a "deal breaker." He never sent a face pic. I replied saying it was and it was likely for the best because he doesn't seem that into meeting. My take is he's not really so much a provider as someone who monetizes his sex life when it's convenient for him.

Are you talking about specific providers? Or just general experiences?

Ugh, that's the worst. $300 for 90 minute sensual massage that has upsells is ridiculous.

He's also on Rentmasseur so maybe more than therapeutic.

Co-signing Marcus and Wagner. They're both gorgeous, mature, kind and give really good, sensual/erotic massages.

I suspect you'll find a lot of variety here. Having a couple of nude videos that show how you look is great. Personally, I'm not interested in seeing videos of a provider having sex with other people. Very often the videos are poor quality. If the provider is vers, it's hard to tell who's who. In terms of search, I usually look for: Position Age (not really into guys under 30) Height (I prefer guys taller than me) And I agree with those who suggested filling out the "into" section. Some people definitely search on those terms and I look at them to see if there's a match in interests. It can also contain terms that I (and others) would avoid like "PNP."

Maybe an obvious question but did you try viagra?

This guy seems to be a nightmare but threatening to call ICE on him, when you don't even know if he's undocumented, is wild. Would you call the Gestapo on a Jewish person who wronged you? @Austin Lewis was horribly victimized by this asshole, but he's in touch with law enforcement, which is the appropriate response and I hope he's caught.

I get it. And I can totally see it being more meaningful when you're single. There was definitely a time outside of hiring where if the other guy didn't cum I felt like I'd failed or wasn't "hot" enough.

I always find this hilarious. I don't care if anyone (besides me) cums and I'm certainly not paying extra for it!

Did he share face pics? I'm quasi interested but he may be too big for me. 😵‍💫

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Throughout most of history, in all the towns, same-sex couples had a butch/femme dynamic. All you need to do to see this is read books and watch films. And it's not that EVT looks feminine in his photos, though his eyebrows are c*nt; it's that the only person on this thread who's met him said he wasn't masculine.

This is literally the definition of internalized homophobia. We have preferences, which I've stated repeatedly and are apparent if you look at the providers I've reviewed. We have a broader palette than you're very narrow one. But most of all, I do not feel the need to constantly shit on what other people find attractive or sexy. I also don't do "cheap psychoanalysis." I comment on the intersection of socio-economic and historical trends in gender and sexuality in Western culture because it's one of my areas of expertise. Femme boys were once the toast of the town and they're coming back into style. 🤣

I'm guessing this also isn't internalized homophobia with a dash of femmephobia and misogyny, right?

Did he send a face pic?

I do see a lot of $400/hour on here (particularly with the guys in their 20s), but I am still on a $300/hour with some regulars. Or we're doing $500 for two hours. And we tip - which I think helps keep the rate as they're generally getting another $50-$100.

Oh, so now you were a homosexual? The story just keeps changing. As the saying goes, you're entitled to your own opinions but not your own facts. You have repeatedly stated with your whole chest that you do not consider yourself part of the "alphabet soup" community. Now you are. Next week you won't be. I understand you're not accustomed to interacting with people who possess genuine moral and ethical frameworks that remain consistent over time. Girl, go try and bait someone who will take it. I'm immune to your faux civility and heteronormative BS.

I'm not sure if it's worth it or not. I don't understand how anyone in the neighborhood is going to find out. Is Ali Gator telling them? Is the stud? He's advertising where he's living.