KensingtonHomo

I have yet to meet him. It's funny because when I first looked at his prices ($300/hour) 2-3 years ago, it seemed so pricey. Now that's like the opening bid, so maybe I should reconsider.

This is why I try to leave a review for everyone we see, unless it was a negative experience because I'm not going to be dishonest.

I don't know. I usually book and then confirm the day of. But given that you've seen this person twice before, I feel like if they had a concern, they should have reached out to confirm with you. Most professionals will call to confirm an appointment that day before.

Is it Marcus_A from RM?

Yeah. Seems like he’s trying to monetize his sex life. Get paid for fucking hot guys. Why not start an OnlyFans?

Same here. I don’t usually tip bc they’ve set their price. If they go above and beyond or are not a clock watcher, I’ll tip. We had an amazing time with Seamus Sunday and I gave him an extra $50.

Always interesting when we agree. The Monsieur is not for me either. Rainer is closer but I'm not sure he's quite classically handsome.

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PS: He’s not from Ireland so don’t expect a brogue.

Seamus is simply great. My husband and I saw him tonight; he was excellent in every aspect. He was kind and engaging in conversation, took control while respecting boundaries, and is one of the best tops we've met. Seamus' body is even hotter in person with a large, beautiful cock. And he's a great kisser. We did a little bit of restraint with both cuffs and just his hands, which was hot. We will definitely see him again and probably book more time.

Having met him the once, this makes sense to me. He didn't read social cues particularly well. BUT, there are a lot of millenials and Gen Zers who self-diagnose as ND, in part - I think - because of poor socialization by their parents.

I suspect this is common thinking among providers. Most that I go to start in their underwear and them dropping it is the invitation to MT.

A deal killer meaning you won’t send it or the provider won’t see you?

Sure, but would you enter a home of someone you don’t know? Especially another man? Again, I’m not saying some providers aren’t screening and I do respect people’s desire for discretion. But if I put myself in a provider’s position, I’m confident I’d want to know who is coming over or who I am visiting. Plus, unless the client is using a burner phone, a provider can easily find out your name, address, etc.

Most millennials I know can't afford an apartment with those amenities. Several are in their 30s and still living with roommates. I cannot imagine them paying $350 for an escort while struggling to pay rent.

As a client, I sometimes feel like other clients minimize an escort's concern for safety. Sure, a texted face pic could be BS and doesn't guarantee safety. But, how many of us we welcome a stranger into our home or hotel room sight unseen? Of course, we don't want to feel like a provider is screening us out (though I often think that's for the best), but I'm sure providers also get cat fished and deal with nutty clients. So perhaps we can all be a bit more empathic?

I'm always very honest about my physical appearance and also that I'm not butch. On the one hand, I agree that providers have signed up to take on "all comers" but I want a good experience.

As I said, our texts have been really good. He sent face pics, so we're going to see him. I'll report back.

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It seems to me that @Jamie21 is on the right track. Would a provider I hire necessarily pick me up at a bar? Probably not. One, because I’m not single and approaching a couple can be intimidating. Two, our gay culture prizes youth, unrealistic bodies and toxic masculinity. Since I don’t fit most of those - though I look significantly younger than my age - hiring is much more convenient than wasting time on the apps. I’m either far more desirable than the average client or I’ve gotten Oscar-worthy actors as providers. Because most of the providers I’ve encountered do make me feel desired. I’m pretty selective but I’m also nice looking, funny and charismatic. I bring all that and a genuine desire to connect with a provider to our encounters. For the most part, if I see a provider more than once, the relationship grows and a desire - if not for my specific ass - but for me as someone they enjoy working with often arises.

Maybe... but if I want to leave a review, I tell the provide I'll let them know I have to send them a message on RM to leave one.

Not a provider, but I've seen them say that it's another thing they have to check. I'm assuming they can get push notifications but maybe it requires them to sign in? Like on this site, I'll get an email saying I have a message, but I have to log in to read it. It's an inconvenience.

I'm sorry for your loss. I agree with what others have said. If you don't post a face pic, people may insist on seeing one before they take the plunge. I've made one exception to that rule because that provider had stellar reviews on RM and here. I didn't regret it, and I see this provider regularly. But, I'm not comfortable inviting someone over if I don't know who to expect.

I haven't noticed that many to be honest. Occasionally, the pics are a bit out of date. But I also try to research guys as much as possible. Are the guys hairier than they're presenting themselves?

I feel like the NYC market has cooled a bit. I still see erotic at $200-$250, but the therapeutic and sensual ones seem back to $180-$200.