KensingtonHomo

I have him blocked for some reason.

Same. I have a trip coming up to Orlando and I’m not finding anyone that appealing.

I cannot emphasize this enough. Certainly there are some clients who are superficial and beguiled by physical beauty or are into muscle worship. But a provider’s ability to build rapport, find something attractive about a client, hold a decent conversation, and perform well sexually are all as important or moreso than perfect abs or 15 percent body fat. And the more mature I get, the more those qualities or lack thereof are what justifies the cost.

Some of just don't like facial hair. I can get past short and very well maintained facial hair, but anything long and bushy isn't visually appealing and I don't enjoy kissing those men either. But if you enjoy it, by all means, make out with Santa Claus.

I, too, would prefer their main city to be listed. I guess if someone travels regularly, you could note that. But it's easier to search for someone on here who is visiting your city by their handle than to wade through 30 posts only to discover that none of them are near you.

If a client arrived 30 minutes late to your appointment, would you forgo charging him for that time because he was with his family for Christmas?

We were just in the Carolinas, and the prices were really uneven. Some guys charge as little as $150 for an erotic massage, and others want $400 for "full service." We ended up getting very sexy massages from two guys who work together: 90 minutes for $195 and we tipped them both because they were great.

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I like 90 - especially for sensual/erotic. But I usually go for one hour the first time.

Second this. Mike is a doll. Sadly (for us), he's in NYC while we're out of town.

As a NYer, that is quite high for two hours. Most guys charge $350-$500 per hour and usually discount multiple hours. And unless you have a particular person in mind who does porn or has a huge OF, that's the range. Doing this hobby for about 7 years, I've never found paying more than that to be worth it.

Agreed. If you’re planning to pursue this hobby, spending a little two do research can be a smart investment.

I think he took exception to you inferring that providers are disposable as opposed to human beings who have good days and bad days. I’ve had providers struggle to maintain and erection as have I. A good seasoned provider will offer options to get you off. Toys, fingers, rimming. the only time a provider really annoyed me was when he pretended he wasn’t having an issue, by lying on his stomach the whole time. It was me and my husband looking over him at each other like 🤷🏼‍♂️. He’d been to a brunch and had some drinks - which are known to fuck with performance. So it just felt irresponsible.

Same. It’s fine is someone prefers text or to book in advance. I won’t contact someone for a same day if that’s their preference. It’s just when it gets too complicated, it reads as fussy and difficult. Also not responding to direct questions especially regarding availability and rate.

It’s a lot of energy for a mid looking British guy with a lot of muscles. 🤷🏼‍♂️ No shade but there’s 20 guys in NYC who could be his doppelgänger.

To give the devil his due, we’re looking in NC and many guys come into a filtered grid, only for us to see when we look at their profile that they’re actually in a different city. Like looking at Charlotte and they’re in Durham, which is 2-3 hours away.

Usually tops or vers.

Funnily enough, we're headed to the Carolinas, and the pickings are SLIM, though I'm sure some of it is holiday-related.

Despite being in NYC, which has a pretty big market, 15-20 percent has some appeal to me. As @NYXboy noted, I'm generally into older providers (30s and 40s). I'm not into twinks or guys who are selling their muscles as opposed to their skills, personality and emotional intelligence. I have a preference (though exceptions are made) for men who are 6' and taller. So that does lead to using filters and having to go through a lot of guys to find ones that really appeal to me.

So he's going to tell the police that you paid him for sex? That's him admitting to a crime.

In the United States, it’s possible but highly unlikely. There are different statutes of limitations depending on where you live or where you hired. But who would be reporting it and what would their evidence be?

That's bizarre.

That's a hard pass for me too.

I can think of a few but they're all in NYC.

I love to bake and when we have guys over, I offer them homemade cookies and ice cream.