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I go with whatever name they’d prefer. If they have a name in their bio, I use that, if not, I ask early on what I should call them. Oddly because I pay electronically I almost always find out their full names. I use my initials when I reach out. Then once we meet I tell them my name.

I just went back and reread the threat. Besides someone suggesting what you were asking for is "gossip," every single person has shared their perspective with you in a polite or neutral way. No one got "worked up," and no one saw it as a controversy. Some of us were explaining why we do or do not respond to requests for additional information. If you can point to someone getting worked up, I'd love to see it.

It really depends on what you mean by "missing details." I'm probably not going to detail how we shifted from doggie to reverse cowgirl because that's highly specific. Again, what is vague? A lot of guys are not going to get into extreme details for fear of law enforcement or agreeing to something in advance that they're not sure they can deliver. I don't either. And I do my homework. I also hate being ignored so I try to respond to people who reach out to me. It's also why I tend to find guys I vibe with and stick with them. We currently have 4-5 guys who we see regularly so we enjoy variety but also build trust and ease. I agree. But I think the best aspect of this site is helping us (and providers) avoid scammers, guys being duplicitous, surprising overcharging and so on. It's less useful in guaranteeing a particular experience from one client to another. I have a couple of guys from here whom I've gotten to know IRL. I'm much more likely to go into detail and ask for details from them. Because they're giving me an opinion not only informed by their experience with the provider but also informed by their knowledge of my tastes.

Okay, I generally leave reviews, though my usernames do not match. I do find it odd to be approached by another client via RMass for two reasons. 1) the degree of anonymity is even higher than here or RMen (where you can at least see each other's profiles), and 2) I've left my review. What else do you want to know? I've noticed one member here has a note in his signature that if he's reviewed someone, that's all you're getting, and don't DM him. I kind of understand where he's coming from. While I generally have a great memory, if I've only seen someone once or twice three years ago, I likely don't have much to add. I don't mind very specific questions, like does he kiss? But I'm not going to give a blow-by-blow (pun intended) run down of my experiences. It feels like I'm writing erotica. Lastly, the best we can get from this forum is whether a provider treats clients with respect, honors their prices, and matches their photos. All of that also indicates this provider is safe. But chemistry is unpredictable and I often feel like I'm being asked to reassure someone that they're going to have a good experience.

$550 an hour for a successful OF creator isn't unusual; that's why I don't even look at them. But it's a lot of money for your first time. I would not ask for a discount. That's his rate, and if his OF is successful, he can be choosy. I might wait for reviews if no one here has experience. There are lots of negative stories about people hiring OF creators. Some providers are open to filming but since his income is OF, he may not want free videos out there.

No. Because that’s an AI generated image closer to art than reality.

I agree with others who said you can send him a text restating your apologies, offering a deposit, etc., and his response to that is your final answer. But as someone who is also in NYC, there's a pretty big group to choose from so maybe just move on.

You're attacking an individual you've never engaged with; claiming he's "fat" and "obese," which is not what GovernorD said. He referred to him as "chubby." Your need to be cruel, not "honest," says a lot about you. Very sad.

Yeah, it also seems like he's looking for a sugar daddy: "Unlike other boys on here, I don't see multiple men per day as I am seeking intimacy rather than a quick pay day."

Perhaps ask yourself why you feel the need to be cruel in addition to talking about yourself in the third person? Depending on someone's height and proportions, 30 lbs can be significant or not. This guy is 6'3", so 30 extra pounds, depending on where it shows up, could look quite different than it would on a guy who is 5'8". "Chubby" doesn't have an age demarcation. Yes, it's associated with children but it means "slightly overweight, plump and rounded." It's certainly not the same thing as "obese."

I believe you have to subscribe to see the comments related to the number. I looked mine up once and someone said I flaked on him but it wasn't accurate.

Ridiculous. I'm not anti-deposit but all the money upfront suggests scam.

I texted with him recently. Told him what I was looking for. He said he was definitely interested in and gave his rate. Then I asked if he was willing to send a face pic and he never responded.

We debated reaching out to him when we were in NC, but I think the ads are just to get viewers to his OF.

I haven’t tried that. I’ll ask the next Dom I’m with.

It certainly can include those things but not mandatory.

I'm assuming this means tight. Dominance is not about getting fisted or be ran through. It's about a power exchange. You can be completely subbed out without being penetrated. For me, I'm more turned on being a sub to someone who wants to get their dick sucked well and good. You also want to discern if you're someone who gets off on being degraded or praised. I thought I would prefer being degraded (due to Catholicism), but over the past two years, I've noticed more and more that praise is what gets me going.

For the most part, regulars tend to get better over time. For context, me and my husband hire together so good providers learn better how to navigate our relationship and what we both like. It feels more like a fuck buddy situation if the provider is willing to share more about their lives. So the sex goes smoother, it's easier for me to relax as a bottom, and the pillow talk is more genuine. If there's no connection, then it's unlikely they will become regulars.

He probably paid him electronically. I can tell you what I paid most providers. I was interested in him but your description turned me off. 😑

There's a weird anti-tattoo obsession with some members here. I can understand if you're not into tattoos and someone is covered. But in a lot of circumstances, you could meet someone, find them hot, and then head back to their place before ever realizing they have one or more tattoos. If you met me in the fall or winter, none of my tattoos would be visible until I got undressed.

We have a similar dog situation. She sleeps with us and will not be deterred. So we have a neighbor watch her when we have gentleman callers. But we don't do sleep overs. I'm not sure what we'd do in that situation.

I also prefer clean-shaven men or a nice, tight beard or goatee. If a provider has a lot of looks in his profile, you can simply say, "I find you very attractive, but I prefer clean-shaven men. Since your profile includes photos of you clean-shaven and with facial hair, I'm curious if you're currently sporting facial hair."

We had a plan to kick off 2026 with a regular on Saturday but I came down with a cold! 🤧