So, I met with Lucatto this past weekend, and unfortunately, I have to give him an unfavorable review. This isn’t to say he’s a bad guy or even a bad provider; it’s simply that he did not give me what I had asked for.
I’m very into more sensual dom/sub relationships, where the exciting part for me is control rather than pain or roughness. I like it when a guy takes control of my body while also whispering in my ear that I’m a good boy as he rails me hard, then kisses me nice and deep as I look up at him with my puppy dog bottom eyes. I know this isn’t necessarily the typical BDSM experience, but it’s the particular itch I was looking to scratch. Because of that, I was specifically looking for providers who explicitly specialize in BDSM and dom/sub situations, and that’s how I came across Leo.
A few things concerned me from the get-go. First, he only responds to messages during very specific hours. Given his work schedule, I believe he generally responds either after 11 PM or earlier in the morning. As a result, it was difficult to establish that initial line of communication. Once I figured out his schedule, though, I gave him a fairly long and specific description of what I was looking for, including the things I mentioned above: a more sensual, bondage-oriented type of domination rather than traditional master/slave play.
He said he understood what I was looking for and said something along the lines of "Yes, it's very important to meet the right master for you " I also specifically asked whether he kissed, sucked, and rimmed, as I told him that kissing was very important to me, and he said that he did. He then had me pay a fairly hefty deposit, but because I was really looking to scratch this particular itch, I went ahead and paid it.
He then more or less went radio silent until the day of the appointment. I was planning to follow up with him that day, and if he didn’t respond, I was going to cancel. Fortunately, he did respond, said he was looking forward to meeting me, and sent me a questionnaire about my limits. The questionnaire has about 10 questions asking about my tolerance for pain, whether I wanted to be blindfolded or restrained, etc.
Given that level of detail, I became even more excited about the meeting since it seemed like he was going to cater the experience to my wishes. And when I arrived at his place, he actually seemed like a pretty friendly guy. However, once the session started, it turned into a fairly typical dom/sub experience that wasn’t what I had asked for. He blindfolded me (even though I told him I didn't want to be blindfolded) and started fondling me. I had previously told him that my nipples were my main weak spot and that I liked having them sucked, but he instead kept pinching them, even though I had told him I didn’t like pain. I asked him if we could take the blindfold off, but he just kept saying "Not yet." We also kissed only a little, and he fucked me for maybe five minutes.
All in all, it was a pretty underwhelming experience.
I think he has a very set routine for dom/sub play that falls into a more traditional type of domination. There’s nothing necessarily wrong with that, but it simply wasn't what I asked for. It felt like getting a decent cheesesteak when I asked for a hamburger. So while I think people are who are looking for a more traditional type of BDSM play would enjoy him, I personally did not.