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So, I met with Lucatto this past weekend, and unfortunately, I have to give him an unfavorable review. This isn’t to say he’s a bad guy or even a bad provider; it’s simply that he did not give me what I had asked for.
I’m very into more sensual dom/sub relationships, where the exciting part for me is control rather than pain or roughness. I like it when a guy takes control of my body while also whispering in my ear that I’m a good boy as he rails me hard, then kisses me nice and deep as I look up at him with my puppy dog bottom eyes. I know this isn’t necessarily the typical BDSM experience, but it’s the particular itch I was looking to scratch. Because of that, I was specifically looking for providers who explicitly specialize in BDSM and dom/sub situations, and that’s how I came across Leo.
A few things concerned me from the get-go. First, he only responds to messages during very specific hours. Given his work schedule, I believe he generally responds either after 11 PM or earlier in the morning. As a result, it was difficult to establish that initial line of communication. Once I figured out his schedule, though, I gave him a fairly long and specific description of what I was looking for, including the things I mentioned above: a more sensual, bondage-oriented type of domination rather than traditional master/slave play.
He said he understood what I was looking for and said something along the lines of "Yes, it's very important to meet the right master for you " I also specifically asked whether he kissed, sucked, and rimmed, as I told him that kissing was very important to me, and he said that he did. He then had me pay a fairly hefty deposit, but because I was really looking to scratch this particular itch, I went ahead and paid it.
He then more or less went radio silent until the day of the appointment. I was planning to follow up with him that day, and if he didn’t respond, I was going to cancel. Fortunately, he did respond, said he was looking forward to meeting me, and sent me a questionnaire about my limits. The questionnaire has about 10 questions asking about my tolerance for pain, whether I wanted to be blindfolded or restrained, etc.
Given that level of detail, I became even more excited about the meeting since it seemed like he was going to cater the experience to my wishes. And when I arrived at his place, he actually seemed like a pretty friendly guy. However, once the session started, it turned into a fairly typical dom/sub experience that wasn’t what I had asked for. He blindfolded me (even though I told him I didn't want to be blindfolded) and started fondling me. I had previously told him that my nipples were my main weak spot and that I liked having them sucked, but he instead kept pinching them, even though I had told him I didn’t like pain. I asked him if we could take the blindfold off, but he just kept saying "Not yet." We also kissed only a little, and he fucked me for maybe five minutes.
All in all, it was a pretty underwhelming experience.
I think he has a very set routine for dom/sub play that falls into a more traditional type of domination. There’s nothing necessarily wrong with that, but it simply wasn't what I asked for. It felt like getting a decent cheesesteak when I asked for a hamburger. So while I think people are who are looking for a more traditional type of BDSM play would enjoy him, I personally did not. 

So, I met with Lucatto this past weekend, and unfortunately, I have to give him an unfavorable review. This isn’t to say he’s a bad guy or even a bad provider; it’s simply that he did not give me what I had asked for.
I’m very into more sensual dom/sub relationships, where the exciting part for me is control rather than pain or roughness. I like it when a guy takes control of my body while also whispering in my ear that I’m a good boy as he rails me hard, then kisses me nice and deep as I look up at him with my puppy dog bottom eyes. I know this isn’t necessarily the typical BDSM experience, but it’s the particular itch I was looking to scratch. Because of that, I was specifically looking for providers who explicitly specialize in BDSM and dom/sub situations, and that’s how I came across Leo.
A few things concerned me from the get-go. First, he only responds to messages during very specific hours. Given his work schedule, I believe he generally responds either after 11 PM or earlier in the morning. As a result, it was difficult to establish that initial line of communication. Once I figured out his schedule, though, I gave him a fairly long and specific description of what I was looking for, including the things I mentioned above: a more sensual, bondage-oriented type of domination rather than traditional master/slave play.
He said he understood what I was looking for and said something along the lines of "Yes, it's very important to meet the right master for you " I also specifically asked whether he kissed, sucked, and rimmed, as I told him that kissing was very important to me, and he said that he did. He then had me pay a fairly hefty deposit, but because I was really looking to scratch this particular itch, I went ahead and paid it.
He then more or less went radio silent until the day of the appointment. I was planning to follow up with him that day, and if he didn’t respond, I was going to cancel. Fortunately, he did respond, said he was looking forward to meeting me, and sent me a questionnaire about my limits. The questionnaire has about 10 questions asking about my tolerance for pain, whether I wanted to be blindfolded or restrained, etc.
Given that level of detail, I became even more excited about the meeting since it seemed like he was going to cater the experience to my wishes. And when I arrived at his place, he actually seemed like a pretty friendly guy. However, once the session started, it turned into a fairly typical dom/sub experience that wasn’t what I had asked for. He blindfolded me (even though I told him I didn't want to be blindfolded) and started fondling me. I had previously told him that my nipples were my main weak spot and that I liked having them sucked, but he instead kept pinching them, even though I had told him I didn’t like pain. I asked him if we could take the blindfold off, but he just kept saying "Not yet." We also kissed only a little, and he fucked me for maybe five minutes.
All in all, it was a pretty underwhelming experience.
I think he has a very set routine for dom/sub play that falls into a more traditional type of domination. There’s nothing necessarily wrong with that, but it simply wasn't what I asked for. It felt like getting a decent cheesesteak when I asked for a hamburger. So while I think people are who are looking for a more traditional type of BDSM play would enjoy him, I personally did not. 

Any intel?

Lol what can I say? I like a good daddy 😂

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Haha no worries! Mike is like old faithful to me - if I can't find anyone new that I would like to try out, I might just hire him, if I'm honest 😅

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This is my exact gripe... 😔

Sorry, my review was not meant in any way to suggest that Colt pressured me! @CuriousByNature was correct in that, he helped me calm down by cuddling and just chit-chatting. Once I found my peace again, he asked if he could finish, which is when I was like sure! 
 
If anything, I would summarize my experience with Colt as chill. He seemed to be a really down to earth guy who just enjoyed having sex. There was no force or pressure. 

Sorry, my review was not meant in any way to suggest that Colt pressured me! @CuriousByNature was correct in that, he helped me calm down by cuddling and just chit-chatting. Once I found my peace again, he asked if he could finish, which is when I was like sure! 
 
If anything, I would summarize my experience with Colt as chill. He seemed to be a really down to earth guy who just enjoyed having sex. There was no force or pressure. 

I hired him maybe a year or two ago. GREAT kisser, very passionate, and he topped me. I had a weird bout of anxiety towards the end of our session, and I asked if we could stop. He was very attentive and sweet about it, and then said, "Um... so... you're ass is REALLY hot and tight... do you mind if I finish?" which got me over my anxiety and horny again, so he fucked me until he came which... yeah, was REALLY hot to see a provider get so into the session 😁 I would recommend!

Sorry, my review was not meant in any way to suggest that Colt pressured me! @CuriousByNature was correct in that, he helped me calm down by cuddling and just chit-chatting. Once I found my peace again, he asked if he could finish, which is when I was like sure! 
 
If anything, I would summarize my experience with Colt as chill. He seemed to be a really down to earth guy who just enjoyed having sex. There was no force or pressure. 

I hired him maybe a year or two ago. GREAT kisser, very passionate, and he topped me. I had a weird bout of anxiety towards the end of our session, and I asked if we could stop. He was very attentive and sweet about it, and then said, "Um... so... you're ass is REALLY hot and tight... do you mind if I finish?" which got me over my anxiety and horny again, so he fucked me until he came which... yeah, was REALLY hot to see a provider get so into the session 😁 I would recommend!

Sorry, my review was not meant in any way to suggest that Colt pressured me! @CuriousByNature was correct in that, he helped me calm down by cuddling and just chit-chatting. Once I found my peace again, he asked if he could finish, which is when I was like sure! 
 
If anything, I would summarize my experience with Colt as chill. He seemed to be a really down to earth guy who just enjoyed having sex. There was no force or pressure. 

I hired him maybe a year or two ago. GREAT kisser, very passionate, and he topped me. I had a weird bout of anxiety towards the end of our session, and I asked if we could stop. He was very attentive and sweet about it, and then said, "Um... so... you're ass is REALLY hot and tight... do you mind if I finish?" which got me over my anxiety and horny again, so he fucked me until he came which... yeah, was REALLY hot to see a provider get so into the session 😁 I would recommend!

Sounds like a great review! Was he a good kisser?

I hired him maybe a year or two ago. GREAT kisser, very passionate, and he topped me. I had a weird bout of anxiety towards the end of our session, and I asked if we could stop. He was very attentive and sweet about it, and then said, "Um... so... you're ass is REALLY hot and tight... do you mind if I finish?" which got me over my anxiety and horny again, so he fucked me until he came which... yeah, was REALLY hot to see a provider get so into the session 😁 I would recommend!

I hate to tell you this but D.Dan passed away this year. This is from LPSG:


Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

Saw a similar thread for a different porn star, so I figured I might give it a go. Does anybody know if there is a way to hire D.Dan? I have a huge thing for daddies and he is REALLY my type... 🤤 I remember reading on one of these threads that someone had the opportunity to hire him, so I think it may be possible. Does anybody have any leads?
 
 

Also to further clarify, if I were not fully comfortable and had said no, I don't think he would have pushed to continue. The situation was much more casual than I may have initially described it to be.

Sorry, my review was not meant in any way to suggest that Colt pressured me! @CuriousByNature was correct in that, he helped me calm down by cuddling and just chit-chatting. Once I found my peace again, he asked if he could finish, which is when I was like sure! 
 
If anything, I would summarize my experience with Colt as chill. He seemed to be a really down to earth guy who just enjoyed having sex. There was no force or pressure. 

Sorry, my review was not meant in any way to suggest that Colt pressured me! @CuriousByNature was correct in that, he helped me calm down by cuddling and just chit-chatting. Once I found my peace again, he asked if he could finish, which is when I was like sure! 
 
If anything, I would summarize my experience with Colt as chill. He seemed to be a really down to earth guy who just enjoyed having sex. There was no force or pressure. 

I hired him maybe a year or two ago. GREAT kisser, very passionate, and he topped me. I had a weird bout of anxiety towards the end of our session, and I asked if we could stop. He was very attentive and sweet about it, and then said, "Um... so... you're ass is REALLY hot and tight... do you mind if I finish?" which got me over my anxiety and horny again, so he fucked me until he came which... yeah, was REALLY hot to see a provider get so into the session 😁 I would recommend!

Also to further clarify, if I were not fully comfortable and had said no, I don't think he would have pushed to continue. The situation was much more casual than I may have initially described it to be.