KensingtonHomo

This guy was out of bounds. I run into providers from time to time. If they're regulars we might have a chat. We follow each other on Instagram, and in the contexts where I run into them (gay clubs, bars, concerts), it's easy to just know each other from the scene. Some of them are full SWs and open about it. Others are more discreet, so I am respectful and judge the situation by their response.

I looked myself up. Oddly I’ve never pulled a no show so curious who this was.

I'm not sure where you're located, but if it's a city of any size or a hotel of any size, seeing two men of different ages and looks is not unusual. We were in Mexico City in July and there were two men who I couldn't decide if they were father and son or a couple. The hotel staff couldn't care less. What to you feels like a scintillating experience is just Monday to them. Particularly if you're not engaged in any public displays of affection, IF they take notice - and that's a big IF - they will likely think your friends or colleagues.

I feel the same way. I don't even find 21-year-olds attractive. They're not done baking to me and are nearly always bad at sex. Plus in my experience, the younger, more ripped guys can act like they're doing you a favor. But I don't value youth, so I'm like "meh..." For me, guys in their mid-30s to 40s are ideal escorts. They tend to have been in the business for a while and have been successful enough to last a decade or more. Or, they're guys with other interests or work who escort because they love sex and having it with various people. Regarding @Jarrod_Uncut raising his prices, I think he should. Nearly everyone has experienced inflation and everything costs more. I've noticed that providers who lived near us and who we host don't really charge more but those who are visiting and paying for a hotel, etc, have raised their prices.

Was there a HE? Or just the massage?

Nothing like making assumptions... I run my place of employment, so that's not my concern. And, if such a photo was leaked, I'd say "yep, that's me. I have sex."Might that shock some people? Maybe. But I've never cared what others thought of me. Again, for someone who does or used to engage in this hobby you mostly project a very low opinion of those in the profession.

This post is mind boggling for two reasons. It's dehumanizing of providers when most of us would attest that our experiences are overall good and often great. If you think of all the famous women who have had exes or agents or photographers leak their photos, it doesn't seem we have to worry about escorts. Second, if you have social media (Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn), anyone can take a photo of you and claim anything about you. And in this era of deep fakes and AI-assisted video and graphic design, people with the right skills can copy your voice, etc. I wouldn't sweat someone having your picture.

He does nothing for me. He couldn’t pay me to be massaged by him. That you choose to pay more for a masseur without tattoos is fine. People pay more for youth, looks, musculature, etc. maybe it’s the NYC market but there are plenty of providers who don’t have tattoos. Why is it so hard for people in here to not “yuck other people’s yum?” If you don’t like tattoos, don’t get any and don’t hire guys who have them. What you do not have to do is post on here about how tattoos show that people are desecrating their bodies, showing they’re low class or any other moral or ethical judgment.

This entire paragraph is just confirmation bias. You follow some guys without tattoos and see they get good reviews but you have no control group, you have no way of discerning if their lack of tattoos is meaningful. I've already posted an actual study that shows you're in the minority, and that minority is growing as boomers die out and millennials and Gen Z make up more of the population. I'm not an escort so I don't know why you think I'd be angry or venomous about a minority of anonymous clients being opposed to them. Since most escorts have some tattoos it's more for me!

Go back and read what you wrote. If you said, "I don't care for tattoos", that's fine. But you called them disgusting an went on a complete diatribe about those of us who have them. I don't care for facial hair on 99% of men. Search this forum and see if you ever find me saying that beards are "disgusting, ruin people's face" or anything that is equivalent to your remarks.

Sure, as you can see the vast majority of people see tattoos as a non-issue. A minority of people find them unattractive or indicative of someone being less respectable. But, again, it's a minority. United States - perception of people with tattoos 2015 | Statista WWW.STATISTA.COM This statistic shows the results of a 2015 survey among adult Americans on the perception of people with...

You sound like MItt Romney. The vast majority of people like or are unfazed by tattoos, piercings and other body art. This relentless obsession that some of you have with wanting physical perfection (which is, of course, entirely subjective) is a huge boner killer. It makes you sound completely out of touch with most human beings.

I texted him twice to set up appointments and he never responded. I gave up after that.

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How do you know this? I don't see it in his profile.

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I suspect that the older porn stars (Gen X and older) were probably way more into sex than the millennials and Gen Z, who you often see with OF accounts and sky-high prices. Those generations have less sex than mine, having their first experiences later. So I suspect they're more inclined to want to do "collabs" with their friends and get anonymous people paying them than meet people IRL. Not necessarily because they think they're so much hotter but because they're not used to IRL connections.

Hey, I just want to say I'm not judging you at all. I have my own kinks. I grew up very poor so maybe that plays a role, plus as a bottom I want to the one who is desired; if that makes sense. So it's like the opposite of my thinking.

I know some people are very into this, but I'm not paying anyone so I can "worship" or blow them. Though I would think it should be cheaper than the full shebang.

In the pics with other guys I can't tell which one is him.

I won’t wait more than 5-10 minutes without contact. For me, communication is key. We’ve had guys run late and they text to say so, and it’s usually not a problem. If I’m running late, same thing.

Yeah, it's a big jump. I think the post earlier citing that many of the most in-demand escorts charging $500/hour had an unsaid component. I suspect many of those providers who have long-term clients are not charging all of them $500/hour. I suspect they may increase occasionally, but it's not unusual for in-demand professionals to use a higher rate for new clients as a form of screening. We have a few guys we see from time-to-time who have not increased what they charge us, but I suspect they are charging new clients more. Lastly, it's likely that the market will "correct." There's a lot of complaining on here about rates, so the middle-tier providers will likely drop back to $300-$350 an hour as the market cools. I can't speak to other cities but housing and food in NYC have skyrocketed. Those are costs that an escort has to pass on to clients.

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Well, that's the impact of the "male gaze." Straight women are subjected to it and gay men subject each other to it. Very sad.

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