KensingtonHomo

Same here. I'm usually honest to the extent I can be.

Does this gaslighting work in your real life? Do people fall for it? I'm curious how you find such easy marks.

Because 20-somethings are not of interest to us sexually. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Baby, you wish you were as hot, fun, and sexy as I am, given our similar ages. Never mind that my husband is model gorgeous. You often confuse me for those people you look down your nose at on here because "they have to PAY for sex." Because they're too old or too large or not conventionally attractive enough. We pay primarily for convenience and to find skilled partners. We could easily have a line of 20-somethings by just going on Grindr. And you're also wrong about women; probably because you don't have any women friends (except your wife). But vast, clear majorities of women in study after study prefer men with "dad bods" over ripped and chiseled bodies. The Unexpected Appeal of Men With Dad Bods | Psychology Today WWW.PSYCHOLOGYTODAY.COM The non-physical traits attributed to those bodies are the key. In praise of Olly Murs' before bod: why we don't actually fancy the ripped bods WWW.STANDARD.CO.UK What is a “dad bod” and what does the phenomenon reveal about our psyches and social worlds? Among Pubic's many virtues is his consistent misogyny, despite being married to a woman. It is, Blanche. It is. I have a challenge for you. Show how you write on here to any provider and let us know if he doesn't run for the door.

Oh, you're back. We thought someone had dropped a house on you. I don't eat fast food. So when I EAT I want to YUMMY food that is well prepared and plated well. If only you actually believed "to each his own," instead of insisting your penchant for hairless, 20-something twunks is the universal ideal of beauty. You're like those straight guys who couldn't believe women preferred the dad bod over the ripped bod.

I probably said earlier that I'm not generally drawn to "premium" or "Instagram" providers. Putting aside that abs and such don't really appeal to me, I find that personality, charm, and "being game" makes for the best providers. The guys we see regularly are attractive but probably not "Instagram" models. We generally aim for 30s and 40s age-wise but have good experiences with some guys in their late 20s. The latter is hit or miss because we may not have much in common. But it's really HOW they handle their clients that makes us repeat clients. Are they responsive when we reach out? Are they considerate and communicative? Do they show up sober, energetic, and ready to play? Are they kind? Of course, there are exception but we tend to find those things to be true among providers who are a bit older and more seasoned.

Okay, now I'm on to you. There have been a few long-time members who have recently stopped posting. I'm fairly certain you're one of them, as your writing style is nearly identical. A similar obsession with youth and beauty being the only currency in sex work. Why am I not a professional athlete? Maybe because I don't like sports. I also don't hire "Instagram models" because I don't find that type attractive.

He joined Rentmen like three weeks ago. He has a basic, white-guy gym body. Requesting stats probably means he wants to meet up with other "hot guys." My guess is that he lost his job and is trying to make money as an escort, but he probably isn't really cut out for it.

Girl, I don't know who you think you're talking to, but this response reads as a TROLL. You come in swinging on someone who is among the first to advocate for providers and - as said above - am happy to pay a reasonable deposit. You have totally gotten the wrong person. There may be people like that on here but I'm not one of them. Rather, I'm an excellent client with several regulars. This part, I believe. I'm an above-average-looking, fit, and fun guy of a similar age. So our experiences are bound to be different. "The top of the food chain..." is exactly the kind of toxic thinking that leads clients to treat providers poorly.

Not to open this can of worms, but you're new here, so I would say I'm happy to make a deposit to prove I'm serious. I am not willing to send more than $50. And that's assuming everything else has already checked out. Most people who are going to send $50 are serious. And the two times I've gone over that, the deposit was not returned even though I needed to change plans for reasons beyond my control. We're all human and there are excellent providers. I try to see them, give them reviews and, when possible, send them business. We recently had a great provider who was visiting from London. I recommended him to a friend who frequently goes to London for business, and he's seen him twice. Then there are shitty providers, who won't return a deposit when you need to change plans and it's 72 hours or more in advance. And the same applies to clients. But based on any time spent on Grindr, etc., I would guess clients flake a lot more than providers. Because I see how guys act when there's no money on the table.

I'm a paid subscriber. I leave reviews for nearly every guy we see, unless it's a mediocre or poor experience. I don't see the point in leaving bad reviews, though I haven't had many terrible experiences. I do mention bad experiences here.

He's a bit verbal, not overly so.

I have run into providers - particularly at nightclubs and bars - a few times at a concert. As others have said, we just acknowledge each other, chat briefly and move on. I don't find it awkward in the least. And it may also be the inherent anonymity of NYC, but if anyone asks, I just say, "Oh, he's a friend of friend I've hung out with a few times."

Finding a sugar daddy at 38 is a stretch but I wish him luck.

“High net worth” bottoms? 😂😂😂😂😂 He looks kind of roided up in his pics, which doesn’t appeal to me.

Literally just e-transfer when it’s over. 🤷🏻

To answer the question. We are pretty circumspect about who we tell. Mostly, it's very close friends who are extremely sexually liberal. They don't care. There's another level - also very small who know that we're "monogamish" (as we only see others together). We sometimes share our adventures (both hiring and not) without mentioning when we've hired.

We're missing the tone of how he was asking or mentioning it. Was it curiosity? Was it judgmental? If it was curiosity or intrigue, he may be worth seeing again, and also expressing that his focus on it was off-putting.

Nope. But it was a small price to pay to get rid of him.

Come on Madonna fan!

I agree with others. Unless you can provide some additional context, it's hard to offer you any advice.

He's cute, but just the one face pic and his description is pretty vague. He's only been on RM for a month. I'm curious if anyone has seen him.

I saw him a few months ago. Nothing sensual at all and as other mentioned his art is all over the apartment so it smells like clay. It was distracting.

Yeah. A lot of guys just leave that on. Even when RM says "Provider is available for the next 6 hours", you can contact them and not get a response.

I don't carry cash so I use apps unless an escort explicitly asks for it. With the countless transactions occurring between people through all these apps, I don't have any concern about the digital trail. I also feel like if providers are willing to accept it, it's more likely they would run into issues having to explain all the transfers and yet they don't.