KensingtonHomo

His ad reads more like he's looking for a sugar daddy.

Having self respect and agency isn’t a failure. If you need to objectify someone to get off, you need a therapist not a sex worker. Also regarding my “failures, you talk so much shit on here you would never say to my face and we all know it.

We’ve been approached by providers who see us review someone and - I assume - think they’d be a good fit. Occasionally we get on that is clearly just trying to drum up business. I don’t respond to those.

This is a hard no. For me, a sex worker is their own subject with their own agency. I do not seek to objectify them or treat them like a commodity. As an SA survivor, I want them to be comfortable and - to the extent possible given it’s a paid gig - enjoy themselves. Even if they wouldn’t pick us up in a bar, I minimally want them to enjoy us as clients. I did not enjoy being objectified when I was a 20-something twink and I don’t enjoy younger men objectifying me and my husband as “daddies.” There’s a myth that we have to treat each other as objected to get off. It’s very damaging to our sex and romantic lives. And it’s largely driven by marketing and advertising.

If you’re a citizen then a lot of what people have posted here may not be relevant. However, the basis of your status is under threat. I cannot say more because of forum “rules” that are applied unequally. That said, @Simon Suraci has given you the best advice of everyone here. From what you’ve posted, I do not think you’re cut out for being a provider. You want to he paid for “older men to service you.” That’s a pretty niche market. Based on your description of what you’re willing to do, your lack of desire to “get your foot in the door” for $200/hour (probably 6-10 times the average hourly pay in NYC), I doubt I’d hire you. Sadly, you will also likely attract clients who fetishize Asian men, which adds additional obstacles you’ll have to navigate.

I guess I'm not limber enough to do that while face down!

I agree with @d.anders. This seems highly suspect. The masseur literally has handprints from being spanked on his ass. What part of a massage is that? These are other incredibly stupid people or scammers or entrapment.

I'm not sure it's grainy from being old so much as using one of the filters that make photos look like polaroids. His other pics look very recent and aren't grainy.

The only one I've been with is BGFO and he's incredible. It's hard to recommend without knowing what you're looking for or like. Ronan is on my wish list, but the timing thus far hasn't worked out. I believe he took a break for a while so that played a role.

Avoid him at all costs. I made a deposit (not $500). Then he started insisting on wanting a longer session, which I did not. I repeatedly told him that I do not like haggling as it's a huge turnoff. But he kept going. Then, he wanted to change the time. I let him know I was no longer interested and would appreciate my deposit back. He insisted he wanted to keep the appointment. He's incredibly entitled and irritating to interact with. Thankfully, I had never given him my address or my real number because he continued to contact me long after I cancelled. Eventually, I had to block him on my phone and Rent.men. I have no idea how many people he rips off with this game he plays, but I wouldn't go anywhere near him.

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I wouldn't want you to put yourself in danger. I, though, am not afraid of these wannabe Christians.

Oddly like you @pubic_assistance I generally read and consume media from outside the US for the same reasons you states. However, you’re assuming that @NipLuvr212 has created an echo chamber because he said he uses his values to guide his consumption. He may value news with little editorial interference. Or he may value reading a paper like the Financial Times like I do. I do not agree with the pro-capitalist editorial stance of FT, but their reporting is very good. The same could be said of the Wall Street Journal. For American sources, I tend to trust AP and Reuters for just the facts or breaking news as they tend not to editorialize. Then I read the Guardian, Le Monde, and FT. And I follow commentators who analysis I trust and who make clear that “X” is a fact about which the have “Y” opinion.

Why would anyone go to this horrible place? They have enslaved people working in construction. Human trafficking of women and girls. They’re vile and corrupt. They also hate queer people. Why not spend your money in counties that protect and support us? (Also don’t come to the US if you can avoid it.)

If someone’s is trying to get you to convert to a faith that brutally punishes same sex intimacy would you let them believe that you agree?

He’s a piss top; meaning he will piss on you. Yes, a massage gun can be helpful if you have an area that’s bothering you but I’ve never had a good massage that included one. It typically means the guy doesn’t know what he’s doing.

This happened 6 years ago. The NY Post is a mouthpiece for the NYPD, who are lamenting that weed was decriminalized. They exploited this poor girl’s murder to ratchet up a culture war issue. There hasn’t been a murder in that park since. This is a horrible tragedy but the number of white girls killed by men they knew dwarfs this one instance.

This is literally racist language. Who is this Columbia girl? Is she a fantasy in your head? I used to buy from black guys in Bushwick when I was a teenager. A very gay teenager. Never had an issue. Meanwhile a girl I grew up with was stabbed to death by her white drug dealer boyfriend in our white neighborhood.

Most of his reviews on Rentmen over the past 5-10 years describe someone you will not want to meet.

He has “findom” in his profile. That’s an immediate 🚩 for me.

We saw Jacob in Provincetown and he’s really wonderful. Easy to communicate with to set things up. Showed up on time. He’s got a great friendly energy to him. We chatted for a while. He’s very easy to talk to. Then the sex itself was fun and easy. For his age, his firmness was impressive. (It would be impressive for a 19-year-old.) Good kisser. Oral top with a lot of passion and a bit of Dom energy. I imagine he could dial that up if it’s your scene. Definitely recommend.

If you’re serious about your faith, you can say that you know he’s excited about his own faith but your prefer to keep religion out of your relationship. If he can’t respect that boundary, I’d find someone else.

I run a nonprofit and before that I was a fundraiser for many years. I have certainly offered advice to people looking to do the same. Usually, they’re really looking to create a service or solve a problem in their community. Within reason, I’m happy to provide some pointers because I had a lot of help when I was launching mine. To me, it’s very different than someone who’s looking to create a profit-based business. Because of the particular sector I work in, like @Ali Gator I’m a minor celebrity which also brings larger, for-profit entities knocking- wanting advice, me to speak to their staff, etc. I used to do it for cost, but then I realized I was selling myself short. So now I’ll still give advice to peers or those needing some mentorship but I charge all those who can really afford it. And I also serve on a couple of Boards for which I’m not paid.

No. I’ve dragged you for being needlessly cruel, fatphobic, perpetuating unrealistic body standards, and your virulence agism. I honestly do not care who you personally find attractive. While I have a broad palette, I also have a few types that really get me going. That’s cool. When people post providers I find attractive, I say do. When they post providers I do not find attractive, 95% of the time, I keep it to myself. On top of your harsh treatment of providers you regularly claim that most members here are old troglodytes who couldn’t get a hand job without forking over some cash. First, that’s not true. We’re in P Town right now and start off our week having a hook up with a gorgeous local bartender 20 years our junior who had an 8-pack. And we keep getting hit up by every twink in a 10 mile radius. Lots of younger gay man see into older guys. Second, internecine cruelty about age and appearance is horrible for our community. It reduces us to sexual commodities only as valuable as our abs or facial symmetry. And given that you’re not really part of the community, your toxic commentary is doubly irritating. Worst, you present your comments as if you’re proclaiming a brave truth against the “woke,” when you’re just perpetuating incredibly harmful stereotypes and marketing garbage meant to make people feel insecure. All you need to do in order to get people off your back is keep your negative opinions to yourself.

Girl, I have never once said “everyone is beautiful.” I have said I have a broad palette and rebuked you and others for being unnecessarily cruel when making nasty comments about others’ appearance or weight or age. Since you’re so OUT, post some pics of yourself and we’ll let you know what we think about your appearance. 😂😂😂