KensingtonHomo

We've gotten hit a up a few times in the past week or two. I suspect people are hiring less because of all the uncertainty.

Yeah, I'm in NYC. Maybe he left early and that's why he blew me off. It doesn't matter. I wouldn't hire him for anything now.

Seems like I dodged a bullet. It’s funny that his English isn’t strong as he presents himself as British.

So he canceled on my 90 minutes before our appointment. Said he hadn’t slept and had a headache. That’s too flakey for me.

I’m seeing him tomorrow. He’s been easy to communicate with. That usually portends well.

Again, this is not remotely how human biology works. Neither douching nor bottoming "dries out" your butthole. Douching too often or too close to sex can remove some mucus, which can be beneficial. It's also why over-douching or using anything but water is not recommended. And if you expect a bottom to douche, then you also better expect to use lube for reasons previously mentioned. If you're going to have gay sex, please learn about how it works.

Sweat is not lube. Ya'll reaching for excuses for selfish and potentially injurious behavior.

This is delusional. But I sincerely hope you’re washing your dick when you pull it out of a guy’s ass before expecting him to suck you off. I’m an extremely confident bottom - with three decades of experience. And on behalf of my brethren, please know that what you’re interpreting as “confidence” is actually someone either ignorant of the risks you’re exposing them to or too desperate to say no.

The lack of basic sexual biology on display here is mind boggling. Rectums do not naturally lubricate. Asking someone to bottom without lube is not only selfish, it’s potentially harmful as you’re more likely to tear rectal and anal tissue.

We saw Elite in DC. He’s very tall and broad shouldered. His body is fit and as advertised. Very well endowed with an interesting curve. We found him to be quite charming, vey sexy and an all around sweetheart. He was also very communicative, unlike some guys who act like you’re annoying them. Definitely recommend.

I don't know how many gay guys you know (or straight ones, for that matter), but a fetish to be "used and abused" is pretty standard. I was raised Catholic and get off on power dynamics. My point is that for many of us reliving traumatic experiences while we ultimately retain control is cathartic. And if your profile photo is you; you're quite cute.

Yeah... I used to see girls and some boys on the West Side or Near Houston but probably not since the late 90s.

He looks 34 in his more recent pics. Most of the photos are seem over a decade old. Besides the older photos (some of which are clearly meant to suggest he was a high schooler), I don't see anything in his profile that suggests he's underage.

I don't do it with any great regularity. Maybe twice a month. I also tend to stick to a stable of regulars who are diverse enough that it doesn't get boring.

I know I could do it. I like sex and have a broad palate of what I find attractive. I also find being desired a huge turn on. I wasn't muscular - but I was a ginger twink with a great ass. I had offers in the early 90s - one from a high-end Madame with a stable of girls and boys. But as someone who is primarily a bottom, I didn't want to risk the chance of HIV.

Me and my husband are booking a Greek isle cruise on Virgin Voyages for this June. We're told is super gay friendly and generally 15-30 percent gay folks on board. I'm curious if anyone on here has been and what your experience was like.

I have never once said yes to an upsell. And I do not repeat with any provider who does it. I have noticed @parkneedler that guys who upsell tend to have bad skills. In my experience, they're usually very conventionally "hot" and act like they're doing you a favor. It's a complete turn off.

LOL - I should have said 98% of men have gross feet. I'm in the 2% that doesn't.

Most of my tattoos are memorial or directly related to my culture. So, no, they're not stupid. I honestly can't imagine caring if someone chooses to tattoo or not tattoo their body. Same with hair color, nail polish, etc. If you don't find something attractive, don't hire that person. Personally, I find 98 percent of men's feet to be gross. And when a provider puts his feet in his profile, I wince. But I don't comment because some of you are into feet.

I suspect it goes both ways. Some of my worst hires have been conventionally attractive 9s and 10s, who were boring or really bad at sex.

You look great. I agree that the copy is is fun and engaging. I’m also not sure you should cite reviews you don’t have. But saying you’ve come back is good to include. When you say “natural man scent” does that mean you don’t wear deodorant? If so, I think you should be explicit about it. I have an extremely acute sense of smell. So though I think you’re sexy, I couldn’t hire you. 🥲

It looks like $10,000 between massages and providers last year but there are two of us. Honestly I’m surprised it’s that much and will probably cut back this year.

I feel like this is a hospital situation, not a massage situation. 😷

I noticed that erotic was showing up only intermittently. I wonder if they're trying to get ahead of the BS that's made Pornhub inoperable in a bunch of states.

I agree with your assessment. I object to it being naturalized as "the way it is" when it's really the result of historical circumstances and billions of dollars in marketing and advertising. We can choose to be kinder, gentler and better to each other. The cultural tide is turning against us and we need solidarity. It's hard to build community is we're treating each other like shit on hook up apps.