KensingtonHomo

Not to open this can of worms, but you're new here, so I would say I'm happy to make a deposit to prove I'm serious. I am not willing to send more than $50. And that's assuming everything else has already checked out. Most people who are going to send $50 are serious. And the two times I've gone over that, the deposit was not returned even though I needed to change plans for reasons beyond my control. We're all human and there are excellent providers. I try to see them, give them reviews and, when possible, send them business. We recently had a great provider who was visiting from London. I recommended him to a friend who frequently goes to London for business, and he's seen him twice. Then there are shitty providers, who won't return a deposit when you need to change plans and it's 72 hours or more in advance. And the same applies to clients. But based on any time spent on Grindr, etc., I would guess clients flake a lot more than providers. Because I see how guys act when there's no money on the table.

I'm a paid subscriber. I leave reviews for nearly every guy we see, unless it's a mediocre or poor experience. I don't see the point in leaving bad reviews, though I haven't had many terrible experiences. I do mention bad experiences here.

He's a bit verbal, not overly so.

I have run into providers - particularly at nightclubs and bars - a few times at a concert. As others have said, we just acknowledge each other, chat briefly and move on. I don't find it awkward in the least. And it may also be the inherent anonymity of NYC, but if anyone asks, I just say, "Oh, he's a friend of friend I've hung out with a few times."

Finding a sugar daddy at 38 is a stretch but I wish him luck.

“High net worth” bottoms? 😂😂😂😂😂 He looks kind of roided up in his pics, which doesn’t appeal to me.

Literally just e-transfer when it’s over. 🤷🏻

To answer the question. We are pretty circumspect about who we tell. Mostly, it's very close friends who are extremely sexually liberal. They don't care. There's another level - also very small who know that we're "monogamish" (as we only see others together). We sometimes share our adventures (both hiring and not) without mentioning when we've hired.

We're missing the tone of how he was asking or mentioning it. Was it curiosity? Was it judgmental? If it was curiosity or intrigue, he may be worth seeing again, and also expressing that his focus on it was off-putting.

Nope. But it was a small price to pay to get rid of him.

Come on Madonna fan!

Can you tell us what your limits are? Like are you looking for someone into BDSM? Similarly, what are your button? You mentioned kissing but is it a big dick, oral, etc? I have a few guys in mind, but the best choice depends on what you're looking for.

I agree with others. Unless you can provide some additional context, it's hard to offer you any advice.

He's cute, but just the one face pic and his description is pretty vague. He's only been on RM for a month. I'm curious if anyone has seen him.

I saw him a few months ago. Nothing sensual at all and as other mentioned his art is all over the apartment so it smells like clay. It was distracting.

Yeah. A lot of guys just leave that on. Even when RM says "Provider is available for the next 6 hours", you can contact them and not get a response.

I don't carry cash so I use apps unless an escort explicitly asks for it. With the countless transactions occurring between people through all these apps, I don't have any concern about the digital trail. I also feel like if providers are willing to accept it, it's more likely they would run into issues having to explain all the transfers and yet they don't.

I was commuting to work. At the first stop in Manhattan, a few people got on and said the World Trade Center had been struck by a plane. Being cynical NYers, most seemed to assume it was an accident. At the next stop, more people got on who were very distressed - closer to the WTC - which is when it began to click that something terrible had happened. When I got off in Midtown, I exited the subway, and there was no traffic and no one on the street. It was about 8:55 am in midtown NYC. It was like 28 Days Later. I walked into my usual bagel store and first saw the footage. It was horrifying. I had a flip phone but all the lines were clogged. At my office, everyone was in the boardroom watching CNN when the second plane struck. I ran to my office and started calling people I knew who lived or worked near WTC. All my closest were safe, but I would later learn that a cousin who was a firefighter died in the Towers. After a couple of hours, we were all sent home.

Did he change his photos because I don't see anything in off-putting?

My husband and I have debated taking a provider we've been seeing for a while to Provincetown with us. But, I wouldn't want it to be for the entire trip. We've held off because that might be weird.

I don’t love 70s bush but I can work with it; especially if the dick is big. But I love kissing and I feel like I’d be flossing.

It depends on how specific these scenarios are. If it’s simple mechanics: you want to get DP’d while getting face fucked, that’s simple enough. If you’re looking for more of a role play situation, you probably need to articulate them fairly well.

Same. He’s hot but I can’t do the ZZ Top beard.

I thought it was higher but that’s what all the research said

We saw him about two years ago for a threesome. He's cute, but he was overly aggressive while topping and hurt me (not in a good way). It wasn't intentional, more reckless. So we wouldn't see him again.