KensingtonHomo

Can you tell us what your limits are? Like are you looking for someone into BDSM? Similarly, what are your button? You mentioned kissing but is it a big dick, oral, etc? I have a few guys in mind, but the best choice depends on what you're looking for.

I agree with others. Unless you can provide some additional context, it's hard to offer you any advice.

He's cute, but just the one face pic and his description is pretty vague. He's only been on RM for a month. I'm curious if anyone has seen him.

I saw him a few months ago. Nothing sensual at all and as other mentioned his art is all over the apartment so it smells like clay. It was distracting.

Yeah. A lot of guys just leave that on. Even when RM says "Provider is available for the next 6 hours", you can contact them and not get a response.

I don't carry cash so I use apps unless an escort explicitly asks for it. With the countless transactions occurring between people through all these apps, I don't have any concern about the digital trail. I also feel like if providers are willing to accept it, it's more likely they would run into issues having to explain all the transfers and yet they don't.

I guess. I was pretty fair. It was a single incident - I know it wasn't intentional. My discomfort stems from being pretty open with him in the moment. He apologized but didn't offer a discount or another session until it became a PR problem. Definitely a technique issue. Overenthusiasm. It happens - it's happened in my personal life.

I was commuting to work. At the first stop in Manhattan, a few people got on and said the World Trade Center had been struck by a plane. Being cynical NYers, most seemed to assume it was an accident. At the next stop, more people got on who were very distressed - closer to the WTC - which is when it began to click that something terrible had happened. When I got off in Midtown, I exited the subway, and there was no traffic and no one on the street. It was about 8:55 am in midtown NYC. It was like 28 Days Later. I walked into my usual bagel store and first saw the footage. It was horrifying. I had a flip phone but all the lines were clogged. At my office, everyone was in the boardroom watching CNN when the second plane struck. I ran to my office and started calling people I knew who lived or worked near WTC. All my closest were safe, but I would later learn that a cousin who was a firefighter died in the Towers. After a couple of hours, we were all sent home.

Fair enough but I think it’s bad form for a provider to contact me as this one did. I’m purposely not naming him here bc I think he’s a good provider. Not for me, but others have had good experiences, he has a lot of good reviews, and I’ve heard nice things from clients I’m friendly with.

Oh, I should have said the message was trying to guilt me. I didn't fall for it, hence the post.

A few weeks ago, I shared an experience where a provider injured me - unintentionally - during an encounter. Someone here either screen-grabbed it or sent the link to the provider in question. Last night, I received a multi-paragraph and fairly overwrought message from the provider saying how awful he felt, and he couldn't sleep, and could he make it up to me for free. Here's the problem. When it happened, I was bleeding. I told him I was bleeding and had to use his bathroom. The bleeding wasn't severe, and it's not my first time at the rodeo. Obviously, that was the end of the session, and I have no desire to see him again. He did not at that time offer me a free session to make up for it. Nor did he message me the next day to say he couldn't sleep. I also didn't leave him a bad review on Rent.men because while he was too aggressive I don't think he meant to hurt me. I only shared my experience here because someone was considering him, and I wanted them to know he got too aggressive with me. So to have that sent to him sucks. As for his message, it feels more like public relations than sincerity. Again, didn't offer to comp a session, took his full fee, etc. And, honestly, didn't seem that broken up by it at the time. Thanks to whoever made me relive a bad experience and then a guilt-inducing message from the person responsible.

Did he change his photos because I don't see anything in off-putting?

My husband and I have debated taking a provider we've been seeing for a while to Provincetown with us. But, I wouldn't want it to be for the entire trip. We've held off because that might be weird.

I don’t love 70s bush but I can work with it; especially if the dick is big. But I love kissing and I feel like I’d be flossing.

It depends on how specific these scenarios are. If it’s simple mechanics: you want to get DP’d while getting face fucked, that’s simple enough. If you’re looking for more of a role play situation, you probably need to articulate them fairly well.

Same. He’s hot but I can’t do the ZZ Top beard.

I thought it was higher but that’s what all the research said

We saw him about two years ago for a threesome. He's cute, but he was overly aggressive while topping and hurt me (not in a good way). It wasn't intentional, more reckless. So we wouldn't see him again.

I couldn't care less what some uptight doorman thinks of me.

In my experience with men of this ilk (of all sexualities), the younger paramour is a hedge against their own aging. It’s a kind of arrested development. They don’t want someone to age with as a peer. I also consider it bad form to have a younger man with you for 10-15 years and then toss him out with no resources. I dated a wealthy man 12 years my senior when I was 21. He was gorgeous - like a refined Harry Connick Jr, great lover, generous, and quite chivalrous. But when he talked about his college boyfriend, he was horrified that his ex had aged. I saw a photo of them in college (when the ex was a dead ringer for me - slim, twinky ginger with wavy hair and green eyes) and a current photo which showed a man in his 30s who was handsome and fit with a receding hairline. Though we saw each for a few more months, I knew in that moment that my value to him had an expiration date. I had no interest in becoming dependent or even used to a life that would inevitably be taken from me. He’s in his 60s now and seems to have never married.🤷🏻

If he is genuinely a 39-year-old, Ivy League-educated software engineer, I suspect his future lies in tech rather than finding another sugar daddy. Dumb of him not to get his paramour to marry him. At least then he'd get something in the divorce. Wealthy men in their 60s, 70s, or 80s wanting to forever be with a 20-something is grotesque. They don't want a partner but a pet or an employee. 🤢

I've both hosted providers at hotels and visited them. As others have said, the key thing is to be discreet and not draw attention to yourself, whether you're a client or provider.

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I cannot think of any but that may be because they tend to set their location as "Manhattan."

I'm not even a provider and I'm so tired of these threads. It seems like once a week someone posts about the "outrageous prices" being charged. It seems to me that most providers have a second—or maybe primary — job, or they're in school or pursuing a nascent career that doesn't support them yet. So, as @Jamie21, some are pricing themselves so they see 1-2 clients per week. And that's what they want. If they can see 4-6 clients per month and make $2,000-$3,000. That's a studio apartment in NYC. Let's say their day job or studies brings in another $2,000 per month, that's a good living in NYC. If the same guy charges $300/hour, he has to see 3-4 people a week. Now, even in NYC, there are plenty of guys charging $300-$350 an hour. Most of the guys I see are in that range. We also often see guys for a minimum of 90 minutes and they usually discount the second hour. I do think that as the economy moves into recession (or worse) you'll see more guys getting in the market, and clients cutting back which may lead to a decrease in prices. But it doesn't seem to have happened yet.