KensingtonHomo

For me, I prefer to schedule things in advance. Perhaps it's because I'm a bottom and want to be clean, not have eaten right before. And as I get older I find I prefer late afternoon to early evening for sex. And since I play with my husband, we have to align our own schedules and, if we're hosting, we have to get our neighbors to watch the dog. (The dog is a sweetheart but very attached and will want to "help" the escort.) I tend to reach out a couple of days to up to a week in advance. And I think giving 24 hours for a reply is reasonable. We usually have someone in mind, with some back ups. However, I have had a few providers who refuse to schedule that far out. Or will ask us to text them the day before. Generally, the guys who want to confirm 24 hours in advance are flakey. If it's one of our regulars, we're much more open to negotiating a time. If it's someone we're checking out, refusing to schedule in advance (and we are willing to do a reasonable deposit), then we're going to move on. We're going to Montreal next week and we're already chatting with guys - not lengthy convos but getting rates, availability, checking for fit - and hope to lock a couple down before we arrive. A couple of guys have been unresponsive. And one asked us to text when we arrive. So we'll see how it goes.

Hey All, Hubby and I are off to Montreal next week for a few days. I've been checking out RM and we have a few guys who seem hot, but I'd love any recommendations from locals or people who've visited recently. I did a search but the last threat of this type was over three years old. So anything more recent would be great.

He's a pretty well known Porn star - though he has dumb politics. It's possible that he thinks you're hot and just wants to bone, but it could also be a scam.

I saw him today. Such a nice guy. Great technique and the extras (which were included) were delightful. He's very handsome, so don't let the lack of pics dissuade you.

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.

That's borderline sexual assault. Consent to blow someone is not consent to swallow.

I don't think you need to be that embarrassed. I've told guys they're sexy or hot or whatever. Maybe it was a bit excessive but I think most people have had a moment where they were taken in by someone's sex appeal. I'm also sure you feel like you said it way more times than you actually did.

I do try and be as specific and direct as possible. Not all providers are comfortable discussing these things via text, so I generally discuss it when I arrive.

Wow. I've seen him many times in the past and he was always pretty sweet. He's quite a large guy and imagine him being angry would be frightening.

His website says “Position/Top”

Okay, I took the plunge and saw StrongStrokes yesterday. He is everything that his fans have stated. He's very handsome with dark hair and blue eyes. A super-friendly guy, with great technique and well-orchestrated extras. Great body and personality. In a city where 20-something guys with no technique are charging $300 for a rub and tug, SS is the real deal. If you're into handsome, fit, smooth bodied, white guys, I cannot image you wouldn't be into him. I will definitely be a repeater despite him living on a fourth floor walk up!

No, because when you're blocked you lose access to the messages. It was a VERY banal exchange about services and pricing for me and my husband. Perhaps he just wasn't into couples or he didn't find us attractive.

It wasn't.

I had someone preemptively block me on RM after a few pleasant exchanges. Never made any sense to me.

I'm vers for everything but an anal bottom. I can enjoy giving oral for a certain amount of time depending on the guy and the vibe. I do love getting it, and am not interested in tops who don't give oral.

$300 is his escort rate. $200 for erotic massage. He's worth the $300.

Nick Halden is very vers, learn muscular, great kisser, excellent top and bottom. https://rent.men/Nickhalden DirtyMan (Zack) is a top, also lean muscular, 30s, kind of a nerd vibe but very hot and a cool guy https://rent.men/drtynycman

I wonder if the reticence to kiss is COVID-related.

Yes, that totally sucks.

Thanks for sharing. We're going to Montreal next month. Curious what you can expect from a dancer if you go to the backroom. 😏

We haven't had bad experiences with escorts recently but I feel like the erotic massage market has kind of taken a downturn.

I don't mind sending a deposit, particularly for guys who have good reviews. They're just trying to ensure they don't end up getting ghosted. Most guys who require a deposit usually forego it once you're a regular.

I wonder how many of these people are new to hiring and get cold feet. We've been hiring for about 3 years now and I still get nervous about meeting a new guy. Now, of course, I realize it's just cold feet and go ahead with it. And with people who we see regularly I'm only even nervous about douching.

As a three-time SA survivor, this is a lot easier said than done. Also, calling the police can make a situation worse, particularly if you're BIPOC or trans. My first assault was when I was 9. I was more worried about "admitting" I was gay than holding them accountable so I told my mother and teachers they just beat me up. The other two instances would have come down to me said/he said. There was no physical evidence in the second instance because it was coercive, not violent. The second, which was a massage therapist at a high-end, non-sexual salon didn't leave any evidence beyond would could be explained from giving me a massage. I have since gotten a black belt in Tae Kwon Do, and kick box regularly. And I only meet with people who have an excellent track record and lots of reviews. Of course, if people feel they have evidence or fear further violence, the police may help. But it's not a panacea.

I don't begrudge him being therapeutic, but - as @Harryinny said - the pictures are suggestive and the wording is very confusing. In my experience, Thai massage is often code for naked body sliding and such. I asked him to clarify so I knew what I was getting. And he responded with such venom.