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I saw him last night. He was fantastic. Great massage and wonderful extras.

This is why I generally prefer providers who are over 30. Often, they've been at it for a few years and just want to be treated well, paid well and not incite or receive drama. There are exceptions, as we've seen a 24-year-old recently who is super cool, easy to talk to, passionate, and all you could want. I looked my number up on Mr. Number, and there was one complaint that I "flaked" on someone. It didn't give other details so it doesn't bother me.

This is unnecessary and mean.

It looks like he has multiple sources of income and only wants to see men who can afford a premium price. Maybe he's aiming for a sugar daddy or maximizing his time and energy. Either way, he's priced himself out of most of the market. That's his prerogative and none of you have to waste time hitting him up.

We generally look to see if someone is mentioned here. If they are and there are red flags, we'll probably stay away. A lot of enthusiasm may make us more likely to hire. That said, if someone isn't mentioned here but they have positive reviews on RM, we'll generally go ahead with him.

He doesn't have anything that other providers with a more reasonable fee have.

No, we hired someone who we found more attractive than you and your buddy. And had a great time. i notice you didn’t post your attempt to insult me. I’ll share it here so clients know what you’re really like:

I guess Logan is on some damage control mission. Because he started texting me today. As was clear in my post that he quoted, the experience I was referring to was trying to set up a meeting. We were only interested in him; not his buddy. When he insisted we pay for the services of someone we were not attracted to or interested in, we declined. Had Logan just come over and met with us on his own; we would have paid his fee happily. He seems to think this is a “gotcha” but we found a local guy in Maui and had a great experience. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Agree. Caveats unrelated to services always give me pause.

He seems to be promoting more of a sacred intimate and sex surrogacy then massage or escorting. His website is interesting: Divinity Empowered DIVINITYEMPOWERED.LOVE Reconnect with your body, passion, sensuality and sexuality in the care and guidance of a loving, strong...

He's marketing himself as Irish, but his name "Devah" is from Sanskrit. Weird. But there's nothing he could possibly do for $1,110 to be worth it.

I saw Cain today. The massage was great. He’s very handsome and very sweet. I got a bit of a vibe that it could have gone sensual but I was only looking for therapeutic.

Have you tried hiring someone a second or third time? Perhaps if you build comfort with someone, you'll be less nervous and able to get to the main event more quickly.

Yeah. I used to tip more but if the base rate is over $200, then the service has to be exceptional.

Yup. I never repeat with a guy who does that. What I do if they offer erotic is ask up front what that includes. And as others have said, if it goes beyond that or the experience is really good, we tip well.

I do not regularly carry cash but if a provider requests it; I will get some. Maybe it's an NYC thing but almost every provider I've seen takes some form of digital payment.

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I'm very into "boyfriend dick" or Goldilocks dick, which I'd generally say is 6-8 inches and decent but not overwhelming girth, but your YMMV. But as mostly a bottom, I'd say I'm similarly not super pressed over a guy's ass. I do find juicier, thick butts more aesthetically pleasing. It's partially why I don't get the appeal of 1% body fat twinks with no butt cheeks.

It depends on the top. Some are into sucking dick, etc.

We just messaged him through Rent.men. Then once we had a day and time he gave me his cell number, so we could be in contact. I think @mike carey may be right that you need to be logged in.

We just saw him and he was great. So into it. My husband and I had him over. He’s very warm, kind and as someone else said - a total stallion. He’s a really great top. Reads your cues and is verbal without being too much. He seemed a little heavier than his pics, but he is also better looking in person. His features are a bit softer in person. His dick is the large end of boyfriend dick.

Yes, being married and mostly hiring together definitely changes the context. That's a good point. I do bristle at the "I would definitely talk to you if you approached me" type of comment. It suggests that the client doesn't think they can score sex with someone that attractive without paying. It's making a lot of assumptions. We primarily hire for convenience. Yes, we can get hookups on Grindr, but it's time consuming and they fall through. We also get a lot of attention online from much younger guys (like 20s) and that's really not our interest. So hiring keeps things clear and easy. Other guys hire because they're shy or socially awkward or they hate the apps. Or they don't want the complexities of seducing someone or they have a particular fantasy they want to try out. In short, I don't think it does providers any favors to assume people are hiring because of their looks.

You're welcome to your preferred boundaries, as are we all. But not every provider is sweet. Talking to you out of the context of a session is not necessarily them craftiness or disingenuousness. I'm friendly with a couple of regulars on social land sometimes they make complimentary remarks or chat me up. I'm fairly cynical, so I can tell when I'm being gassed up versus when someone is genuine.

Human beings are banks. Conflating businesses with individual services providers is really dehumanizing to the latter group. A provider can enjoy your company, even find you attractive, etc., and still provide a paid service. I've seen the same hairstylist for over 15 years. We've socialized. She compliments me. But I would never expect a free haircut. I've run into providers at clubs, concerts, restaurants, etc. We sometimes have a chat, sometimes not. A consistent theme on this forum is that sex work is held to a variety of different weird standards than other services. That's THE bad mindset. This creepy, puritanical society makes everyone have a warped view of sex.