KensingtonHomo

Oh yeah, that I can see. It's pretty easy to tell who's phony though.

Why do you think the reviews on here are fake? I'm never nothing but honest.

The minute I read he was "exclusive" I knew his rates were going to be exorbitant. Plus if you look at his video, his features are not as flattering as in his pro pics.

I don't find him remotely appealing. But I do wish ya'll would stop with the femme-phobia. Everyone is welcome to their own tastes and fantasies but putting down guys for being feminine or queeny just perpetuates anti-queer stigma.

People can be into playing submissive at times and dom at other times. Or just having vanilla sex. And many escorts provide experiences that may not be their primary way of enjoying sex.

Sorry if I read into your tone. I just feel like escorts are providing a service, and we should respect their boundaries.

As a client, I want to say that escorts are human beings. They have different preferences and tastes. Some guys excel at providing an experience under every circumstance. Some don't. If an escort wants to use a condom, we - as gay men who have lived through a fucking plague - should understand that. It's not just HIV/AIDS. The advent of PreP has seen STIs rise among gay men. We're now also dealing with treatment-resistant gonorrhea, which escorts may be trying to avoid. Now we're 27 months into a respiratory pandemic with variants that evade our vaccines. I'm recovering from COVID-19 now. If I were an escort, I'd have been out of work for the past 8 days. So I think kissing is something people are a bit uncomfortable with. I know I'm more leery of doing it with strangers - whether escorts or hook ups. I'm a Gen Xer who came out when AIDS was just ravaging our community. So when someone wants to take a precaution to protect their health, I'm willing to go along with it. And I think bitching about it, shows a lack of respect and solidarity for sex workers.

This is very similar to my initial message. I'm a little shorter and generally ask what payment type they prefer.

A Nigerian accent is sort of a British accent thanks to colonialism. But it’s a bit distinct.

I have to co-sign Dominus. He's very kind and affectionate. He's from Nigeria and has a beautiful accent and speaking voice. Incredibly smart and well-traveled. Overall, he's just a great time. And if you want to go for anything sexual, he's up for it all. One of the best providers I've met.

Sounds amazing.

I want a lot of details after all the suspense.

My preference is to book a couple of days in advance. Particularly as a bottom I want to be sure I'm prepped and ready to go by watching my diet and making time to clean out. When traveling I prefer to start reaching out a week or so in advance, since I generally have tighter time frames. Despite that, when we just went to Montreal, we had two providers flake on us. The first was a couple. We had a penciled in evening and general time about a week in advance. I confirmed that time and place the day before. And then three hours before we were to meet, they canceled because one of them "forgot" and invited a friend over. Then they wanted to reschedule. We passed. We did end up finding a guy who was available for that evening, but I had long wanted to hook up with a couple so that fantasy is still on hold. Then we booked a pretty well-known guy. Again, conversation starts a couple of days out. Confirmed the day before. We had plans to do a tour that morning so he told me to text him when we were done. I did. Waited an hour. Texted him again. Nothing for five hours when he responds that his friend is having a crisis and asking if we can meet much later that evening. We passed. I don't know if the issue was real but we do our best to treat every provider we meet with professionalism and kindness. If we're hosting, we'll ask if they have a beverage preference. Flakey providers and clients make the rest of us look bad and foster mistrust. It's a bummer.

I feel the same way. If someone is going to be so not into me, they can't even get it up professionally, please let me know in advance.

I've had a few providers ask to see a photo when we booked; none of them ever canceled over it. Generally I offer a photo because I feel like I've already seen them. And I'd like to know who I'm meeting with. But I'm incredibly publicly gay so there's no reason for me to be discrete about it. Other people have valid reasons to want discretion.

I haven't had much of an issue with providers being late. Perhaps it's an NYC thing where time is always precious and we're all over booked. I've noticed when we hire in P Town, there's a tendency for the providers to be more lax with time but like 15-30 minutes, not more than that. I'm more forgiving in a vacation environment.

Girl, I didn't ask for your opinion, let alone for you to condescend to me with your "love" while asserting that I have "internalized homophobia." I've been in therapy since I'm 5 years old. I've well-processed all that happened to me. And I'm a prison abolitionist so I'm not calling the police over shit that happened 30 years ago, even if the statute of limitations hadn't run out.

I'm glad you cleared the air. Sounds like quite the ordeal and very unfair of this person to put you in this position.

Diabetes is also on the rise because of structural lack of health food options and limited time to exercise. What gets construed as "human nature" (including sexual orientation) is the result of socio-ecoonomic forces at a particular historical moment. We've had chocolate cake for hundreds of years but huge spikes in Type 2 diabetes happened in the past three decades. That's the result of increasing sugar and corn syrup in our food, as well as constant advertising of sweets to create desire.

I found any queer person who lives in Dubai suspect. Actually anyone who lives in Dubai. LOL

That's not human nature; It's consumerism primed by capitalism. Honestly, this guy is blandly pretty, with a nice body that's also kind of bland. It's all very "I'm a model." But I don't fuck with straight guys and he doesn't seem like any fun.

I read all your posts so don’t condescend to me. There is literally no good reason why you can’t plan for 10 am the morning of. But go off queen!

I work in an industry where I deal with/am answerable to a lot of stakeholders. If I neglect to respond to them for 2 weeks, it would be very bad for me because I would be considered "messy." @Gadfly22 has what, to me, seem like unrealistic expectations. But you're also admitting that you sometimes neglect to respond to clients or potential clients. I believe a lot of us are just oversaturated with email, texts, phone calls, social media, the news, etc. It's like we're drinking from a firehose.

Americans are particularly awful this way, and I say that as one of them. I've been actively trying to be more patient and also less available because it's a very mentally and physically unhealthy way to live.

Dude, you're coming off really poorly here. Yes, a reasonably prompt reply would be good. But since you've said you take a day off for your play, why wait until that day to make the appointment? As I've said above, we're going to Montreal in 6 days and I'm already setting things up. We met up with a provider we really enjoy in DC last weekend. I reached out to him when the trip was set to see if he'd be in town as he travels a lot. We kept in touch and had an amazing time. I think what providers here are objecting to is you wanting to set a date in a couple of hours and being pissed if the guys you want are busy. And, sure, a couple of guys I reached out to in Montreal haven't responded. That's fine. Either they're booked up and don't need the gig, or they're messy. If it's the latter, I don't want to see them anyway.